NotToBigForDiapers

I wet more when stressed. This is when I used to wet the bed sometimes before night diapers returned. Water running sound makes me pee. A night of drinking definitely going to be a soaked morning. When cold I pee a lot diapered or not. A pool does the same. I don't think it was the disability just normal.

Not quite the answer I expected. I thought you were going to say you used a vibrator or strap on, on her. I don't think I could let another man do that. Did you satisfy her before you were diapered? Are your bits small in your diapers or just an early squirt or both? You say your a sissy. Are you dressed as a girl all the time also? Were you dressed as a sissy or in diapers first? Just curious. If you don't want to share that is ok. My wife still gives me sex but only when she wants now. When she first started using my diapers like chastity we went from two or three times a week to once every week or two. On occasion more like birthday and some holidays. Now it is once or so a month and on my birthday and holidays I usually out. I am not big down there by most standards. I am more what I like to call a grower when excited. She never complained any way. Only twice in all these years she made me satisfy her while diapered using a vibrator. That was worse than just denial. I have used pestering her for sex just to get her to control my diapers for a while when I was in diaper mode. Only problem I have is some times I end up diapered longer than I wanted.

Sorry to here that. My wife finds my diapers a turn off some times, but finds controlling my diapers at times a turn on. What do you do to take care of her needs?

I am rather new here and it is the first time I have shared parts of my life. I am finding this site very interesting as I thought me and my wife were alone on many things. This thread is one of those. My wife uses diapers as a form of chastity on me. Long ago when we talked and she found out i liked diapers and they were a turn on for me this started something new. When this first started I agreed if she asked me to diaper up I would even if I was not in a diaper mode and remain diapered until she said. She added that if I was in diapers I couldn't ask for sex. She kind of related it to having sex with a baby then and it was a turn off some times for her. This was supposed to be a bonus thing for me cause I would lose control of my diaper time. So I agreed. I didn't care about the sex thing cause I could make myself happy in a diaper. At first she used it for fun and convince asking me to diaper up for a shopping trip or long drive. Not bad and it did give me a thrill some times others it seemed more like a punishment. Then one day after a dispute over some thing small to which I got what I wanted I found myself diapered the next couple days at home for the weekend. This became a standard most times we argued I ended up in diapers for a bit. Then it turned one day. After being diapered a couple days she wanted some and started teasing me while diapered. It got me going good and she teased more asking me to change my mind. I didn't and I remained diapered and highly aroused. She satisfied herself and left me diapered for days until I wasn't in the mood. So it started. She now just has me put diapers on if I want some and she doesn't. Since I sleep diapered every night now if I try for a late night I end up diapered during the day. So diapers have become my chastity. I can't put my hands in my diapers and cannot touch myself while changing. I don't think she would have ever used a chastity device. She said once it works good cause I leave her alone and that doubts any one else would want sex with me when they see I am in diapers. Since locking pants and sometimes a lock added to my belt to keep hands out and diapers on happen. I can still rub my diapers and get some relief. Not as good but better than nothing. If she used a chastity device inside my diapers like some one said that would be torture. I find for me it is also true what some else said not being able to see your man parts does effect me. Very interesting thread.

Yes it can effect things. A year or so after I let my wife know I liked diapers her part of our agreement kept me diapered for just over three months only free for work. I could remove them on the way to work, but had to be diapered before I got home. With a couple diaper days at work. That was a first for me being diapered at work. I have a small bladder anyway and always got short warning when to go. After a couple months I found out when not diapered my urgency and time to make the toilet had reduced. I also found my body just let go and wet the moment after I put a diaper on after work even if I peed on the way out. I only had one small accident in the car when I was napping after this. After I went back to just bedtime diapers it got better for me again.

Yes you should. When I finally let my wife know I was into the diapers I wore she tried her hand at it. We made up a set of rules with hard limits but others were fuzzy. I never had to use it. She respected that. That said I did find myself uncomfortable / embarrassed a few times as she insisted I follow our agreement as explored her side of this. I had agreed to it but reality sometimes is harder than I planned, but if she was going to follow my rules and limits I had to follow hers. So a good strong agreement beforehand can go a long ways.

Sounds like my life except I always wanted diapers. I did something like you. I recommend being more up front than I was. I did it when we lived together before we got married. I was having diaper urges bad and loved her. I got up a lot of courage and put a diaper one night and got into bed. I grabbed her hand and put it on my diapers and told her how I wet the bed and sometimes wore a diaper for that and my ibs. Hope she understood. I did wet the bed then but only once or twice a year and did wear one if my ibs was really bad. She accepted it and suggested I wear one more nights and see a doctor. I didn't see a doctor as I hate that and did a lot of that as a kid and don't mind wearing diapers. I felt bad and years later I opened up and told her how I like diapers and how they made me feel. She was ok with it and at first was more involved. Now it is more limited, but I can wear when I want. She has made a few rules I must follow but only participates herself when she wants or to enforce her rules. I wish I had someone to participate more but I love her and at least she is accepting of it with some participation. She does like it sometimes when I wear because I don't have to be interrupted as much some times with my small bladder.

I like diaper dreams but don't have them to often. Last one I had was me and my wife were going to a movie and she wanted me in my cloth over night diapers. In real life I usually am diapered for this, but these were really bulky and I protested in my dream. (My diapers we're a little thicker that night. In real life I would never protest. I would have just done it because that's our agreement.) Anyway in my dream I wet it during the movie often and thought we were on our way home. Instead we stopped of someplace else. Turns I knew people there and tried to wander off away hiding my diapers. My wife had none of that. (Also not like real life) Finally I asked if I could go change. I wanted out of my diapers as I was very embarrassed by now and wet. Magic like she handed me a diaper bag and said yes there are fresh diapers in there. I was disappointed as I wanted out of my diapers. The rest room had no privacy and no doors on the stalls so I went to find another. The rest were broke down and toilets removed. By now I had to pee again and my wife said just use the diapers. I was now embarrassed and soaked. She drug me back to the group of people and made me mingle again. After some uncomfortable questions I decided I would just change in one of the damaged restrooms. They were filthy and before I got there I wet often again. Now totally soaked I was chased away before I could change. I went to a locker room but the men's was wide open and busy. So I went in the ladies locker room and went into a stall. (Locker rooms at a social hall, not odd at all, lol) Anyway moving on I had to go again and was hoping to remove my diapers first as I was saggy now, but some one walked in and I hid in a stall. Finally my wife came in pulling me out of the stall yelling at me. I said I had to go and she said that's why I was diapered. I started peeing again. She started removing my pants to change me. The last I remember i was standing in front of people I knew diapers exposed and then woke up. (My wife would never do this in real life.) I remember wetting so often in the dream I was soaked and sagging. When I woke I was wetting big time. When I came fully aware of what was going on I found my diapers soaked front to back and a wet spot on the bed. I have never soaked a diaper that much in my sleep before ever. I got up and changed me and the bed.

I used to fear the bulge. I wear rather thick diapers any time I am diapered now so the bulge is almost always there. Wouldn't have it any other way now. I almost never leak now.

I find this thread funny. I did this years ago when I was first wearing a thicker diapers out. My hope was my wife would buy them when we went. Instead she made me go get them, diapered of course, try them on while she was there, but go pay for them myself. Although I found it a bit thrilling at the time it was much more embarrassing than just having a diaper bulge for some reason and I didn't buy many. Never knew anyone else ever did it. I did like the snug feel on a dry diapers.

Yep lack of trust in your diapers matters huge. You could cut slits in one and double them. Reality is good disposables cost $$. I think I progressed quicker because my wife. I have a rare bed wetting thing at night. Happens usually when very stressed, drinking, or to much caffeine a couple times a year. Long story short I wet to often when not diapered. My wife asked me to wear nightly, but sometimes the cheap diapers leaked and I still wet the bed. Some where in those couple years she learned I liked diapers and then wore during the day occasionally leading to leaks on furniture or in the car. She made some rules for me and we came to an agreement. ( By we I mean mostly her. I didn't want to not wear at all during the day.) One of which was that if I was going to wear them she was ok with it but if they leaked the next diaper was to be thicker / doubled / liner / ect. And remain that way and she started selecting my diaper or diaper combination after that. This was when I first started wearing much more and I struggled some with my position when I wet. After learning I needed to trust my diapers and her making me wear an adequate one. It happened very quickly after this. I knew they would not leak. She did other rules to that effected it but this I think was the biggest. Strangely she it seems she just accepts my diapers not truly into it, but the things she did helped me wear more often, wet more, and more natural. Kind of the opposite of what she seemed to want.

What they said above plus this. What made the difference for me is after I read you are in a diaper. Remember that.You must trust that diaper. That means if you start to wet let it go and carry on with what you were doing. Don't stop it no matter what. If it stops early you will just need to go again soon. If it leaks it leaks. Learn from it and adjust the next diaper to stop it from leaking again. Yes sometimes you may leak, but that will be fewer and farther between with practice. For me once I decided that my pee was going in the diapers, leak or not. It came quick. That was good in my mind and I was happy, but my wife became displeased, but that's another story. It helped me and can pee any time or place now.

Yep. Do it a lot.

Nope. Not that I know of. Just a small bladder. I go rather often and all my life it never gave me much warning when full.

I wear a cheap pul pant over my cloth diapers with a good vynil pants over that. The pul wicks and leaks a little sometimes. I started doing this in fear of leaks cause every time my diapers leak my wife insisted I wear a thicker diapers. I didn't want it any thicker.

No help here. When I get the urge to go I have little control. When I feel the urge to go I need to use the restroom soon or wet myself. When diapered and I find the urge comes and my body just let's go. It is pretty much instant wetting and once started I am like you. There is no stopping it. Thus I wear heavy absorbency diapers when diapered and know where the bathroom is when not diapered.

First I want to say this. I personally have noticed other people's underwear. Most times I never said anything. I think what bothers you is yours are diapers. Would it have embarrassed you less if he yelled your lacy pink panties we're showing? I ask this cause I wear diapers during the day by choice for convince. I have been caught with my underwear showing and been embarrassed also. The first time I was caught wearing diapers was before I was married. I only wore them once in a while but was confident I was hiding them. I had on two attends that day (heavy wetter here and not the best diapers) and was shopping. Confident my diapers we're hidden between my bike shorts compressing them and jeans and long shirt covering them. No one noticed all afternoon and I was wetting as needed. I was rather wet and done shopping so I headed to the parking lot. My hands were full and I set the stuff on the roof of the car to unlock the door. This was when I heard it. There were kids in the car next to mine and they noticed the bulge of my swelled diapers. There mother tried to hush them, but I was humiliated and quickly darted out of there. Later on I couldn't understand why it bothered me. I didn't know them. Since then I have found people don't notice or just keep it to themselves in general. I will just say the diapers I wear out now are no way as discreet as then. Yes people notice and that can be embarrassing, but it shouldn't be. It is just a diaper. Why do people associate diapers with you being a baby or less of an adult just because you can't get to the bathroom like others? They are just my underwear choice and no big deal. I have been humiliated since then cause of my less than discreet diapers but that's something for another time. I just say move on.

When I started wearing diapers it was mostly for comfort and convince. To this day I pee more often than most so when I wear convince is huge. I still think diapers fit much more comfortable than any underwear. I always felt this way. They have become sexual at times and wearing one is a turn on sometimes. Even more so when my wife participates.

So I am new here. I am a diaper lover mostly. I am married and my wife accepts it. She only participates on a rather limited level. Although she has made different "required"rules for me and my diapers and participates at times she is by no way the mommy / dom type I wish. I believe my love of diapers comes from my childhood. I was late to train, got a small bladder, and never was 100 percent dry at night having an accident at least once a year. This left me in diapers longer and when taken away I wanted them back. Currently I wear diapers most nights and during the day when I feel like it or am told to. So that the quick version of who I am.