Mark84

This is, generally, how I wear diapers. I can wear one diaper a few times for a couple hours each time over the course of 2-3 days before the padding starts to bunch up and break down. Once it gets to that point I’ll either just throw it away or I’ll wet it and throw it away provided the padding isn’t too broken down to prevent any leaks. I use Tykables almost exclusively as I don’t get too many opportunities to wear (my wife prefers that I not wear around her). But they’re great in terms of the amount of padding and the tapes allow for re-fastening as needed!

Couldn’t have said it better myself!

THANK YOU! I don’t know why I was allowing myself to get so discouraged by these people who clearly don’t understand how marriage works.

I’m sorry that your experience hasn’t been great so far. I recently made a post where several people proceeded to insult me because I’m married to a vanilla woman who doesn’t want to participate in my ABDL side, but allows me to from time to time. It’s incredibly frustrating that people seem to lack the simple understanding that we’re all different and there is no one prescription for how to go through life as someone who enjoys wearing diapers or age play or whatever it is. How hard is it to just be nice? In these forums, a little harder than you’d expect.

Good for you Guess that makes me not a “true man,” huh?

I miss the previous version of Tykables Overnights. Since they updated them with the “Waddle cut,” I can’t wear the medium size without the leg elastics being so tight around my thighs.

Different strokes for different folks. I’m glad you and your wife enjoyed diapers in your marriage. My wife does not, and finding any compromise with her is a win for me. A number of years ago she worked doing at home care for the elderly and had a very bad experience with an old man. Don’t assume you know the prescription for everyone when you don’t know people personally.

Just want to echo many others in here - Tykables diapers are GREAT! So soft and comfy and crinkly. They have cute designs, too, that I think could pass for a generic brand of baby diapers.

That’s really tough, and I’m sorry you’re struggling with it. I’m also married, but my wife is not as accepting of my DL side - I only wear around her on special occasions and then I wear anytime she’s not home. I will say that something that helped me was coming to terms with this weird thing about myself - that I like to wear diapers. I don’t wear much more than a few times a month. But ultimately, I’ve accepted that this is something that has been with me since childhood and it’s likely not something that will ever go away. But that doesn’t have to feel like a negative thing, especially when you have someone in your life that who knows about it and accepts, or in your case even encourages it. I wish my wife was more willing to get involved with my diaper time and would be okay with me having more of it with her around. You’re very lucky!

I wear infrequently, and as a result, I try to make my diapers last. I’ll wear one diaper 3 or 4 times before I finally use it. This really only works with bulkier, higher capacity diapers, I use Tykables (Overnights and Little Rawrs). Once the diapers starts bunching significantly, I’ll pee in it and then toss it.

I’m married to someone who isn’t into ABDL at all. Marriage is about compromises. Out of love and respect for my wife I only wear them as we’ve agreed upon. It’s not that difficult. Good for you

Thanks, friend! Yeah, I think I lost sight of the fact of how understanding she really is and the reality that she would almost expect to come home to find me wearing if she hasn’t told me when she would arriving. Good perspective!

Thank you for this! Some great thoughts that I’ve had to work through, myself! First that I recognized the problematic sexuality involved (primarily when I was single). Over the last handful of years, I have, very gratefully, seen that aspect of it fading. I think in large part to not looking at any kind of pornography for over 5 and a half years! I’ve often felt (and been curious to know) that there are a lot of Christians within the ABDL community. My wife is the only person who knows that I’m ABDL, but I’m not sure I could ever tell any other close friends about this aspect of my life.

Not a bad idea, but, we don’t have the room for it - and we have family that lives very close by and is over often.

YouVersion is a great Bible App that has tons of different translations to pick from - I prefer the HCSB and the ESV. They also have hundreds of devotionals and Bible reading plans. I’m currently going through The Bible Project’s reading plan for reading through the whole Bible in a year. It’s great. If you’re not familiar with The Bible Project, I would highly recommend them. They make videos explaining various themes and also books of the Bible.

So I’m married and my wife really only let’s me wear diapers around her for special occasions (birthday, etc.). Earlier in the year when everything started getting crazy with the pandemic, I was getting super stressed with my job (I work in the food service industry, and thus was considered essential). I asked her if she would let me wear every now and then. She said no, but she did say I could wear any time she wasn’t home. Fast forward to a few days ago. I got home after a morning shift and wanted to take a nap. She texted me to let me know that she was out running errands and that I should text her whenever I got up from my nap - sweet, few things are greater than a diapered nap! So I put on a Tykables Little Rawrs, and get in bed, but cannot fall asleep. Almost 2 hours go by, and I have another 30 minutes before my alarm is set to go off. I realize part of why I can’t sleep is because I have to pee, but I use my diapers sparingly so that they’ll last longer. I get up and take a few steps toward the door, and suddenly it opens! My wife stops, and I fall into a kind of squatting position and attempt to cover my diaper (yeah right, lol), and she turned around and closed the door. Frantically, I take the diaper off, fold it, and put it away. I walk out to our living room and apologize, thinking she’s going to be kind of upset with me, only for her to say, “I told you that you could wear when I wasn’t home, it’s okay!” I am a blessed man, indeed! Anyone else have a similar story?

Oh yes, lots of diaper dreams over the years. Most involve my wife surprising me with diapers or being very close to putting me in a diaper (she doesn’t participate when I wear, but is okay with me wearing). Certainly no surprise, there. I would very much like for her to diaper me in real life, even just once to see what it’s like (for both of us). I’ve asked her a few times, but I’ve basically given up asking because I know where she stands with it, and besides, I only want her to do it if she wants to - or because she knows how much it means to me and is okay with it.

They are my all-time favorite diaper! Thick, crinkly, super soft and comfy!

Like many of us, my interest in diapers started at a young age (probably 4). I never could bring myself to steal any diapers when an opportunity came up, because I was far too scared of being caught. I would fold a pillow between my legs when I was in bed to try to mimic a diaper. The first time I wore a diaper (again) I was around 11 or 12, and my class had done a field trip day where we went to a couple different places and the last place we went was a hospital. They had these little sample packs for new parents that included a Pampers diaper. One of the kids in my class asked the nurse if we could have one of the sample packs and she said we could. I was so excited to try the diaper on, even though I knew it wouldn’t fit. But I just put it in my underwear. Then I didn’t wear again until I was around 20 and I ordered some Molicare samples from a site that I don’t think even exists anymore. From there it went to Abena M4s, the medical brand of Bambinos, then actual Bambinos, then Drycare 24/7s, then I switched to only ABDL diapers. It’s funny, because early on in figuring out what this was, I’d think to myself that I only wanted to wear plain white diapers, because wearing diapers was babyish enough. But now, I only want babyish diapers and I am so much more open to trying things on the AB side of the spectrum.

Can’t really do it, unless I’m inside and the AC is blasting. But I’m not one to wear outside, anyway.

Thanks! I’m actually a little more open to just the t-shirt style. Lately, I’ve found myself being more drawn to the AB side of things. I LOVE Tykables diapers, so maybe this is just meant to be.

I’ve never worn a onesie with a diaper, but I’d love to try! Been thinking about getting one, any suggestions for brand?

I’ll start by saying that when my wife and I first got married, she had basically asked me to never wear diapers again. Nearly 2 years later, after many conversations that led to her better understanding why I like wearing diapers, we reached a compromise so that I could wear them. The first time I got some, she asked me if I wanted her to stay in our room while I put one on or if I’d prefer for her to leave. I’d never worn in front of anyone before, so I asked her to leave. Since that time (3-4 years ago), it’s much better now, although there is still SOME awkwardness, just because at the end of the day, I’m still putting on a diaper and let’s be honest - it is kinda silly

Stumbled across this specific video a few weeks ago. Don’t know much about it. Based on the video, I don’t think they’re part of the ABDL community, though, I would think they’re probably aware of it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jrmvj5Nabk0

I’m much too big to wear any baby diapers, but I love Tykables diapers! My favorite were the old Overnights before they started making them in the “waddle cut” style. I had tried a sample of the DinoRawrz in the medium size, but the elastic in the leg gatherers seemed a little bit too tight (just shy of cutting off circulation). I just recently got a pack of them in large. At first I was kinda disappointed that I didn’t go with the mediums because they are a bit too big. But, a bigger diaper means more padding, and it’s kinda fun to imagine that my mommy got me the next size up diaper because I’m too big for the next size down, but not quite big enough for these ?.