DiaperedAllTheTime

Are you talking about back scatter machines in Europe? I know with the body scanners in America this is most definitely is not the case.

I have tried and tried to get used to it but both my wife and I both agree chastity is simply difficult when wearing and using diapers fulltime.

I know for me despite the fact that I am turned on by the humiliation factor of wearing diapers permanently I am thankful that I started wearing them when I would have bowel leakage or my OAB is raging. No worries. No messes. Now, I do not have much of a choice, but when I did, wearing diapers was the right choice for me for many different reasons.

I do not know about you guys but when my wife has me in a chastity device and my wee wee attempts to get hard from my filling bladder and I have the worst burning sensation as my scrotum stretches. I have mitigated this with baby lotion and vaseline but it is a pain like no other.

I have been in diapers for over two years and I still cannot manage to wet involuntarily at night. I have had some maybe wettings but that is about it.

I have worn diapers through airport security for years and there most definitely has been a change in how TSA officers react to my padding. I believe, courtesy of social media, that they have been forced to undergo what I like to think of as diaper sensitivity training. As far as the machines, when I am in Europe the backscatter machines most definitely flag a diaper everytime. The machines in America do not unless you are in a heavily saturated diaper or an EXCESSIVELY thick diaper. I have read so many posts about airport security and what one should and should not do as far as wearing diapers but honestly it most definitely is not that big of deal anymore.

Congratulations. Most people would see starting to become incontinent as a nightmare but for you it is a blessing in disguise. I hope you are back in thick padded briefs in no time.

@DL-Boy I honestly was not offended. It was simply a misunderstanding. Everyone here is so vastly different in their beliefs and experiences with the only common bond generally being diapers. What is one person's dream can be another one's nightmare. In the ABDL lifestyle I think it is simply best to not judge others. To me there are not a lot of wrong or right answers with being ABDL. The right answer is what makes you happy. The choices you make to be happy can also lead to consequences that may have an opposite effect and sound advice from someone is not a bad thing. You were simply being a concerned poster. Some find the relationship I share with my wife unfathomable. Some wish they were me. The whole point of posting on this topic is that I believe there is someone out there for you no matter what your desires are. Finding that person may be hard but never ever give up hope that person is out there. For my wife and I despite being soulmates outside of the bedroom there has never been a true since of sexual compatibility between us. In our youth and when we first met we were of course like rabbits and made love all the time. I introduced her to the fetishes I enjoyed which she accepted but not necessarily made her wet. The lone exception of course being breastfeeding. God may have forgotten to make me wife's clitoris functional but he made up for it by basically making her two nipples act as clitorieses. In my mind I have always believed that meant we were destined to be despite our incompatibility in the bedroom. Just like me, my wife is submissive. However, I am submissive all the time where as she only wants to be forced to submit in the bedroom. I could never fulfill those desires for her wearing pink diapers. Also, she is 10% sexual and 90% everything else and I am the exact opposite. The humiliation of wearing diapers and losing control has actually helped to control my desires when she is in 90% everything else mode. I am forever thankful for the sacrifices my wife made in our marriage so I could happily live the lifestyle that makes me happy. Make no mistake I was the selfish one here and she chose to accept that. Most woman would have left me crying in my dirty diapers.

There has been a big misunderstanding here. A cuckolding lifestyle is something I encouraged my wife to seek AFTER I made the decision that I simply could not stop wearing diapers. Having a sissy husband wearing pink diapers was not a sexual turn on for my wife and left her very sexually frustrated and unhappy. Despite this, she remained faithful but miserable and her sex life consisted of large silicon toys. As @Brudda Voodu has articulated in the previous post, I need humiliation to be sexually satisfied. This need is what turned me into a sissy. That is what made me decide to wear diapers permanently. That is why I begged my wife to find a real man to satisfy her sexual needs. Did this make me TRULY happy? It absolutely did. My wife's normal sexual needs that I were incapable of fulfilling were taken care of and for the first time a dirty diaper did not remind my wife of her suffering. Our marriage skyrocketed. She was put on a pedestal by me and became more dominant and even playful. This is when she became a Dommy Mommy and we delved in orgasm denial, chastity play, and domestic servitude. It was a very fun time in our marriage and honestly brought us much closer. As far as reservations @Brudda Voodu alluded to the risk of an emotional bond forming between my wife and her lover which could lead to a divorce and he is completely right. I have had to learn to accept this possibility as I personally believe it is very hard for a woman to simply have a sexual relationship without emotions. There are always the "what ifs". What if my wife decides she is tired of her husband's dirty diapers? What if she falls in love with her lover? All this depends on your relationship and being open and honest with one another. My wife chose a lover she had been with previously. He was large and in charge but someone she could never be with in a serious sense. Just because he can make her cum so hard her lips go numb does not mean she wants to spend the rest of her life with him. Did she have an emotional bond with him? Absolutely. As she told me when she first cuckolded me with him that she is never going to fuck some random guy and has stayed true to that word. If she decided to fuck a random guy, I would be happy for her. @DL-Boy It would seem that you may have never heard of cuckolding. It is a much more common lifestyle than you think. Just as this forum is here for those that like to wear diapers there are forums for those that live in a happy cuckold lifestyle. Many marriages thrive with such an arrangement and I know my certainly has. Marriages can also end with this play. Marriages can also end wearing diapers. One more clarification. Although I have always had some form of anal leakage and OAB I did not lose control of my bladder until I decided to wear diapers permanently. I unpotty trained myself so do not feel sorry for me. This is the life I wanted and the life I felt my wife should not be tied down to unless she wanted to be. Despite these choices my wife remains by my side, is understanding and accepting, and plans to spend the rest of her life doing nothing different. If my wife woke up one day and said I cannot be with a sissy baby husband anymore I am I leaving I would understand. Do I think that will ever happen, I really do not. I wrote the following article that explains diaper wearing and my marriage at nauseam. It is a good read and will help you understand the dynamic I share with my wife. I do not want to grow a pair. I would much rather be castrated. I could not be happier, uncontrollably wetting my pink diaper while doing household chores as my wife fucks another man, with my encouragement. There is nothing to fix. I live in a dream like fantasy with an accepting and understanding wife. My wife and I are soulmates. Compatablie in every way accept in the bedroom. For some this leads in divorce. For us we found a way around it that makes both of us happy. I can live life diapered and she can live life sexually satsified. Enough said.

I guess that depends on your perspective. For me I am happy to be a cuckold. Is it humiliating? Of course it is. Do I deserve to be a cuckold? Most definitely. I am a diaper wearing sissy who prematurely ejaculates, has a wee wee, and cannot control his bladder. Should my wife be forced to live life sexually frustrated and deprived? Absolutely not. We can both be happy this way.

There is a Dommy Mommy out there for you I promise you that. For years I have shared my stories and experiences on this message board concerning my wife and our relationship. There have been ups and downs and all arounds. When I married my wife if you would have told me in ten years you will not only wear diapers permanently but also be your wife's cuckold I would tell you that you are full of shit. I am now happily diapered fulltime and I am a cuckold. Our relationship evolved into a Dommy Mommy dynamic through years of determination and understanding. Love can find ways to make things a reality. Never give up that one day that dominant mistress will have you on your knees wearing diapers kissing her ass. I always tell people start with finding a non vanilla type woman in the bedroom. She does not have to be a Dommy Mommy, just a sexual being that is open to a variety of fun in the bedroom. My wife told me as she was diapering me the day she cuckolded me that it is easy for her to be married to a sexual freak because she is one too. Be open and honest about your desires. Some woman are built for the Dommy Mommy role but just do not know it. Lastly, if you find the right woman put her on a pedestal. Make her the center of your universe and you may find yourself being diapered sooner than you think.

Yes, I have noticed the same thing when traveling through Europe. Those machines will ALWAYS flag your diaper regardless. Luckily for me majority of my flights are domestic.

No disrespect but this is so inaccurate. Being sent for a private check is exceptionally rare and I have never been asked to remove my diaper regardless of how soaked it was. I know there are a few horror stories of rouge TSA agents out there but they are definitely the exception and not the rule. TSA recently has actually became much more understanding and discreet when it comes to wearing diapers through security. In my mind they have had a form of diaper sensitivity training. Recently I was screened with a soaked Tykables Unicorn diaper with a thick booster pad and the agent merely patted me down discreetly after I told him I was wearing a diaper. No issues. No strip searches. No problems. As someone who travels atleast seventy percent of the year and wears diapers permanently I like to think I am experienced on this subject. In my opinion no one should change their diaper habits just because they are traveling on an airplane. Going through security diapered is ABSOLUTELY not a big deal as generally the scanner does not detect the padding between your legs. Wear proud.

It was present before that journey even began.

Where do I sign up!

Another thing I am currently experiencing is once you start wetting uncontrollably your partner may no longer have any desire to be intimate with you. Sure, if your hard your anatomy prevents your pee pee feom getting all over the place but some of us just simply do not get that hard. It has almost been six months since my wee wee entered my wife. The last time she swore up and down I was going pee pee inside of her and she has not let me inside her since.

In my situation, by making the choice to wear diapers all the time I would be MUCH more focused to handle the nuclear meltdown than if I did not.

I always felt I was selfish for making the same decision concerning my partner. Essentially, I put my desire to be diapered before her wants and cares. In the perfect world it would be awesome to sacrifice for the person you love more than anything. Yet at the same time I want to be who I truly am around the person I love more than anything. Wearing diapers is a part of me that I knew would never change. I honestly see no sense in fighting against a desire that will never go away.

This is so true. Until I started wearing diapers permanently all my thoughts and cares were consumed with diapers. I felt naked and afraid and even felt I would have accidents despite not actually being fully unpotty trained. Wearing diapers has honestly allowed mw to concentrate more on my wife's and children's needs. Of course there are some cons about wearing diapers all the time. That is a small price to pay for having a free and clear mind.

I am sorry to hear that your husband did not like you wearing diapers. It can be difficult for a partner that does not understand or one that has no desires to wear diapers. I hope your padded trip to the restaurant was a blast.

Diapers and Mexico are very similar to what you buy here at the box store pharmacies. I would highly recommend packing an entire suitcase with diapers purchased in America. Generally customs will xray and even search most bags so be prepared for this. If you ABSOLUTELY have to buy diapers in Mexico they sell Tena Slip Overnights and Depends Maximos. These diapers are basically one wetter quitters and you will need to change all day if you habe to take this route. P.S. I just got back from Mexico. When I left I sent a case of Rearz Inspires to my hotel. I left three weeks later and the diapers had not arrived yet.

My wife is not interested in watching me engage in any homosexual activities. I am sure with the way I am she already believes I am a sissy faggot although she will not admit it. Her bull, or more properly her former bull, was vanilla and I was never even permitted to be present during their lovemaking. She will never get with the kind of man you describe, unfortunately.

Insanity is my diagnosis hee hee hee.

I have been wearing a booster in my Unicorn diapers recently. This seems to guarantee my crotch area is highlighted by the scanner. I will say it would seem that the TSA officers have taken some sort of diaper sensitivity training. In the past they almost ALWAYS would lift my shirt exposing my diaper to everyone even if I explain to them I am diapered. Now they simply feel my waistband through my shirt. They also spend much less time pushing in and around my diaper area. Just an observation from a frequent flyer diapered permanently.

I believe with some people it is simply impossible to turn the diaper switch off. I know for me personally even reaching for that switch will put me in a state of misery that is difficult for me to overcome. I am not sure what the right advice is. Sometimes I think it would be better if my wife left me so she was not anchored down by my dirty diapers. I think it is unfair and unrealistic for any woman to have to deal with a man who wants to wear diapers permanently. With that said my wife loves me more than anything. Hundreds and thousands of dirty diapers afterwards she remains committed at my side. I am not sure what I have done to deserve such loyalty but it exists despite needing to wear diapers