DiaperedAllTheTime

My wife finally accepted that I need to wear a diaper all the time.

It really depends on the individual I think. I have been wearing diapers for almost three years straight and I feel that I could probably sleep without a diaper and not wet the bed. I can only really recall wetting my diaper once at night without knowing.

I am waking up to a slight wet spot on the bedsheets. My diaper is so wet that it is leaking.

Welcome back. I am someone who lives the sissy baby lifestyle as well. Hope to see you post in our sissy forum.

Night time has been the biggest thorn in my side when it has come to trying to unpotty train myself. As a child I never wet the bed and I have had maybe one or two times where I knowingly wet myself without waking up. Typically I will get up a few times while sleeping and get something to drink. I almost always wet my diaper on the way to refrigerator. If I am awoken by the need to pee pee and I do not need to quench my thirst then I will wet my diaper almost always laying on my back in bed and then fall back asleep. This can sometimes be difficult so generally I take and put my legs in a frog like position with the soles of my feet touching one another. This position for whatever reason always allows my pee pee to flow freely. Quite honestly I do not believe at this time I would be over concerned I would wet the bed if unprotected even after wearing diapers permanently for almost three years.

I can tell you after wearing diapers now for almost three years permanently that it will be very hard for you to lose control of your bladder and not your bowels. When my wife first became aware of my desire to become unpotty trained she asked me to not become fecal incontinent. What I found ironic about this was that I have experienced uncontrollable bowel leakage all my life so technically I already was. What she meant was she did not want to be out to a romantic dinner with me and all the sudden as she put it I "shit my pants." I respected her wishes but over the years of unconditioning my bladder I have found my bowels become harder and harder to control. Both my wife and I now know and believe that it is inevitable that I will eventually become completely incontinent.

Our mind can quite honestly be our worst enemy at times when it comes to our desire to want to wear a diaper. I have found with me personally over time I have reached what I would call a level of diaper maturity. I have accepted my need to wear diapers every second, of every minute, of every day and I am happy with the diapered person staring back at me in the mirror. When I was younger wearing diapers was more of a thrill, an excitement, a quick fix. I wanted to be stared at. I want for others to hear the crinkles. I was an immature diaper lover that was dying to escape out of the diaper closet so to speak. Over time and through messaging in this forum I learned to control those urges more and focused on ways that I could be happy by being diapered all the time and still be discreet while doing so. The biggest anxiety for me pertaining to diapers was always my marriage and family life. For the longest time my wife could not accept that her husband wanted to wear diapers on a regular basis. Parenthood complicated things as most of us do not want to explain to our children why we are wearing babyish looking diapers with unicorns on them. I tried to suppress my desires and need to be diapered which honestly only led to more anxiety, unhappiness, and depression. It was then I had to decide just how important diapers were to me. I had to do some soul searching and self reflection and the end result was I simply would never be happy if I could not wear diapers. Against my wife's wishes wearing diapers is exactly what I did and over time she learned to accept wearing diapers was a part of who I am. After wearing diapers fulltime the reality is no one around you knows your padded secret. As I have become more and more comfortable with my padded bottom I have shared with more and more around me that I wear diapers permanently. Each time I tell someone new they are completely flabbergasted as they had no clue. Even after knowing they all have told me that they still could not tell. Wearing diapers all the time, to work, around family, is really simply no different than if you did not with the exception of a little planning.

I always wear plastic panties. About the only time I am not in a pair is sometimes when I am traveling for business I will let my sissy parts are out by simply just wearing a diaper and basketball shorts.

It has been awhile since I have worn Rearz Inspire+In-control and I must admit I have missed them. So much thicker than ABU Simples.

One great thing that I will say about this diaper is that the cut makes the diaper fit great if you have a big belly. Most diapers I wear will roll under my belly but these always stay nice and high.

No need to apologize. This forum has always been the place to let your hair down and come to for support diapers or otherwise. These are challenging and tough times for all of us and it is great to have a place to vent your stresses with like minded people. I find myself lucky enough to still have a job yet my company despite the times demand I remain on the road. I personally would almost rather be unemployed where I could be side by side with my family. How bad would it suck to get sick thousand of miles away from your significant other. My fear is if the entire country shuts down I will be stuck away from my family and that is not a fun thought. I hope things start to get better for your family and for the world.

The first thing you need to do is find the right diaper. In today's diaper market there are so many different choices and most likely you will find one that works for you. Do not buy diapers in bulk until you have sampled them first and found the perfect diaper. Many companies are starting to offer free samples so take advantage of these offers. Some company's offer a costly two pack to sample. I recently did not follow my own advice and I am stuck wearing ABU Bunny Hops that I do not like. Fit is everything in a diaper. Being uncomfortable, chaffing, or a leaky diaper can result from a diaper that does not fit properly. Generally when you experience any of these your first thought is to remove your diaper. Diapers that are too tight or too loose can result in all of these diaper wearing complications. Luckily for us, diapers today come in many shapes and sizes. How the diaper is cut even matters. Once again, finding the right size comes down to diaper sampling. As far as diaper rash it can and does happen. Yet as someone who wears diapers all the time I very rarely get it. As others have said on this post changing your diaper is the most important thing when preventing diaper rash. When I do get diaper rash now it is almost always when my diaper is overly saturated and I am walking around a lot. A typical example for me is when I am traveling and hustling and bustling to get from flight to flight. Sometimes there is simply not enough time to change and I have paid for that before. Another absolute critical thing is to insure that the diaper tapes land in the middle of the diaper and not towards the edge. Diaper tapes have no mercy when they dig into your skin. When one of my diaper tapes are biting me after putting on a new diaper I will immediately about face to the bathroom and readjust the tape to prevent chaffing and diaper rash. Barrier creams and powder work well too. I generally only use baby powder. When using these products you can actually use too much which can reduce the absorbency of your diaper. You should always have three things in your home or when traveling anywhere if you plan to wear diapers. Baby powder, baby wipes, and diaper rash cream. As soon as a rash is felt the ticking time bomb begins. The longer you ignore the rash the worse it will become. Change your diaper, wipe your diaper area clean, and apply diaper rash cream. The only diaper rash cream I recommend personally is Calmoseptine ointment. This can be found a CVS in the adult diaper section. I hope some on these things help get you back in diapers where you will be happy.

At work wetting some ABU Bunny Hops.

My wife will change my diaper usually only upon request. She does not seem to mind changing it but chooses to not perform a coveted diaper check. I will lay out an adult changing pad on our bed, some wipes, baby powder, and a new diaper. I strip off any clothes and protective panties and then she will remove my diaper and change me. At this point of unpotty training I often leak a lot during my diaper change and generally this does not bother her unless I soak everything. I used to to wish my wife was more involved sometimes but I have learned to be thankful that she loves and accepts who I am. She has let me unpotty train myself and changes my diaper when I ask her to do so. It would be selfish to complain that she does not play the "Mommy" role how I see fit and I am very happy to be permitted to live this lifestyle all the time. My wife does have "Mommy" moments. Diaper changes in the backseat of our car, a text message if my diaper needs to be changed here and there and that most definitely will make my day.

So far I have not experienced any delays from AB Universe of Tykables as I just recently ordered 160 diapers. I am still waiting on a case of Rearz Incontrol diapers to ship from Cooshietooshiez however.

Hmmmm...this is a tough one for me to answer. It could be sitting in a dirty diaper while watching my wife make love to a real man or maybe that time when I was given a disposable enema in the car right before we sat down for dinner. Maybe it was when my wife followed me into a men's restroom with other men present and changed my diaper in a handicapped stall or when I was changed in the backseat of our car. How about when my wife made me go out to the local gas station at midnight that was always crowded with locals from the nearby bars wearing pink and skirted Disney Princess bloomers over my diaper. Yes I had jeans on but the skirt extended way below my shirt in the back covering my whole bottom as I stood in line patiently waiting to buy her cigarettes. Oh, then there was that one time that my wife decided I would go swimming with her at a hotel diaper and all. After getting out my diaper was so swollen it had exploded and I had to waddle back with her hand in hand down the hallway passing several curious people. Maybe it was that one time when TSA had me in a private screening room with my pants down and I was wearing a pink Rearz Princess diaper. One time after a long and hot day of fishing my shorts fell down to my ankles while walking to my car. My best friend's son was behind me and he asked very loudly if I was wearing a diaper. It was even a Rearz Princess diaper but luckily ai was wearing a plain white pair of plastic panties. I guess this list could go on forever I suppose.

My wife actually maintains a drawer of boxers for me I guess to keep the illusion that I wear underwear if the kids were to snoop through our drawers??? The thing is though, hidden underneath those boxers are my white and pink protective panties so the would not have to snoop too much lol.

Did you end up getting and trying the Bunny Hops as well? I heard back from AB Universe almost immediately after this situation and they gave me a list of investigative tasks to accomplish. I emailed them back with the information they requested and I constructively shared with them the differences between Tykbale Unicorn diapers and their Bunny Hops. I did not hear back from them. Oops!

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Every situation and relationship is different. I think that feelings can and often do change over time. If this happens I feel it is really not anyone's fault. I do believe that you only live once and being with a significant other who can not accept your diaper desires should not influence your need to wear diapers. Be honest with yourself and partner and be happy, even if that means you have to move on.

I have not bought panties for years.

I had them custom made by a lady on Ebay back in 2013/2014. Unfortunately she is no longer in business and because the transition occured on Ebay I have no way of getting in touch with her.

I cannot decide which diaper and pair of panties will make me feel like a little girl more...

I would definitely say that wearing a booster in your diaper is most definitely beneficial, especially if you are going to be wearing the same diaper for an extended period of time. Despite having used boosters in my diapers previously, I have never done so at work mainly because I felt my diaper bulge would be too pronounced. I did not catch any coworkers staring at my diapered crotch even after my booster started to grow so I think wearing a booster to work is no problem. It worked so well yesterday I am wearing another one today, this time in an ABU Bunny Hops diaper.

Lasted 15 hours with one diaper and a booster pad! Good night!