Incontinent Jennifer

That post... it got me thinking about my cat, and I can't stop crying.

I'm in diapers 24/7 because my choices are diapers, or being wet, messy and disgusting. That's an easy choice. I don't understand the people who like diapers and baby stuff. I'm not trying to judge, I just want to understand. I came here for the incontinence board, and chose this one over others cause I had a sense I might learn some stuff here. So please, tell me everything there is to know and understand.

I try to get in to the chat room, and all I get is "Error U825". I don't understand what that means or what to do about it.

Make sure your wife KNOWS she's appreciated. Don't assume she knows, tell her, every day.

I am curiuos... I've been humiliated, teased, laughed at, and it was horrible. I cried my eyes out. How are you turned on by that? Please don't think I'm judging, I'm just curious.

Actually, we've been going out for over half a year. We've been talking, and I didn't realize I'd been hurting him. I was so afraid that'd he'd find out and leave me that I never let him touch me. He thought I was planning to break-up, and apparently, he cried most nights because of it. I didn't realize that I even smaked his hand away when he just wanted to put his arm around my waist. If I had just told him in the first place, all that could've been avoided. He said that all this time, he'd have given anything just to hold me, and I wasn't letting him. Not being able to cuddle up with me made him feel like puking. I started sobbing when he told me all this. I like being touched, but I had been so afraid. I didn't realize we were both very clingy. He hates being seperated from me for more than a few minutes. (aww) I'm not used to all this. He's a great cuddeler. I don't usually admit it openly, but I like having my butt rubbed. I was worried it might bother him to touch my diaper, but he stopped me when I started to say something about it. "It's keeping both of us dry, I see that as a good thing"... he's got a sense of humor about it. I asked him if it makes me less attractive, he says I could make a potatoe sack sexy. LOL Then, in a more serious tone, he said I'm very cute even with the diaper. I told him about how I used to enjoy dressing nicer, I had a skirt on everyday, showing off my nice legs. Then, I got stuck in diapers and covered it all up. Jeff dug out my old clothes, they all still fit, but my diaper showed. One skirt, you could see it even when I was standing straight. "So? Who cares? Some girls have pink frilly underwear, you have white crinkley underwear, what's the big deal?!", he says. "Won't you be embarassed if people see it?", I ask. He gave me a passionate kiss, and said, "How can I possibly be embarassed of you? You are the greatest thing to ever happen to me, now stop worrying about it. If somebody sees your diaper and has a problem with it, then they aren't a nice person and not worth your time, so just put it out of your mind and be who you've always been." So, we went to the mall, and I showed off my legs. I feel like I've fallen in love with him a second time. And now that I let him, he can't keeps his hands off me. He insists he had no idea about my diapers, he just though I had a maxi pad in my pocket (the sound). Diapers never crossed his mind. He's glad that the issue is just diapers, and not something he did. I feel loved again, I feel sexy and attractive again, I'm happy again! Yes, my previous boyfriend was a deranged jerk. Before the incident where he discovered my diaper, he'd get mad that I wouldn't have sex with him. If I didn't give him oral, he'd threaten to leave me. His favorite line was "All good girlfriends give head, it's just part of having one". (When I told Jeff about that, he said "You could tell me no an infinate number of times, and I wouldn't love you any less. If you aren't giving because you WANT to give, it'd be impossible for me to enjoy it.") I'd give in because I did love him, and I wanted him to be happy. The night he found my diaper, he just wasn't taking no for an answer, and just reached and grabbed. For months after it ended, he would torment me at work, and elsewhere. He'd tell people I was disgusting and nasty, and even defaced my car (gouged "Diaper Slut" down both doors and kicked in my grill). I think he was the one that left training pants and a pacifier at my desk that time, and put the Pamper's logo as the desktop on the computer. He's thrown rocks at my house, left "presents" in my mailbox... He even ran over my cat on my own lawn!!! I had to get a restraining order against him and everything (he was also arrested for animal cruelty, but that doesn't bring Shadow back). I don't know what his problem was. I opened my heart to him, and all he gave in return was pain, and he took Shadow away from me forever. Shadow didn't do anything to him. I think he's insane, or maybe on drugs. Jeff makes me carry mace now, especially since I occasionally get out of work very late. Jeff will keep me safe.

I get changed when I feel uncomfortable.

I'd like to see incontinence and religious

A pink t-shirt and a soaked diaper.

She's ok with your diaper fetish, so that tends to mean she isn't shallow. She won't care about your bent penis. It might surprise you, but I've never seen one that's actually completely straight. She probably won't even notice. For most girls, your penis isn't the source of her sexual arrousal, it's the rest of your body, and your personality. If you want to turn her on, treat her with much love and respect. When you two get intimate, don't go right for the "prizes", throw kisses around liberally, take the LONG route. If you do it right, she'll already be so turned on, she won't even notice what your penis looks like. Further advice, don't dive right in to "change my diaper". Here's an idea. Put her hand there near your wet diaper, and have a dry one nearby in plain sight. If she pulls away or moves her hand away, I'd suggest you change it yourself. If she's willing, she'll get the idea. And "no" now doesn't mean it'll always be "no".

^ I never heard of Queen < Sitting in my boyfriend's lap as he kisses my neck V What's your favorite color?

I'm vegan, as is my boyfriend! I love him so much!

Over-joyed. My boyfriend found out about my diapers last night, and he's completely ok with it. He still loves me. *happy crying*

I'm incontinent, I have no choice

Sometimes I suddenly realize I'm wetting or messing, sometimes I feel like I have to pee or poop but can't stop it, and sometimes I can actually make it to the toilet. However, my boyfriend has made me feel like I no longer need to go running to a toilet, It's ok to wet or mess my diaper. *teary eyed* I don't need to feel ashamed or embarassed anymore.

I've never posted here before, but after this experience, I had to find somewhere to put this. My name is Jennifer. I'm incontinent. Sometimes I wet or mess without knowing, sometimes I can feel I'm about to but not soon enough to do anything about it, and once in a while I can make it to the bathroom. I've been dating this boy, Jeff. Everytime we start getting intimate, I push him away. I didn't want him finding out about my diaper. I've heard through friends that he was getting upset and thought that I was going to break-up with him, and that's just not true. I'm just afraid he'll discover my diaper and leave. The last boyfriend I had got frisky, reached up to a handful of soggy diaper, and took off with a very angry "God! That's DISGUSTING!" and left me crying my eyes out, only to spread it around everyone I knew. It's been so hard, cause I love him, and I want him so bad, but I've been scared. Last night was different though. I was determined just to let things happen. If he leaves, he would've later anyway. So we were cuddling, and he started getting intimate. This time, I didn't stop him. He took my shirt off, and started kissing me. Eventually, he slid his hands down to my skirt, and I got nervous. He took off my skirt, and I was there in just my bra and diaper. He didn't say a word, no funny looks, nothing. Then I felt it, I was about to pee. "No, not now", I thought, but there was no stopping it. I soaked my diaper right in front of him. He saw it happen, but acted as if nothing occured. He continued kissing me, started undoing my bra... I felt my stomach go, and I knew what was comming. "NO NO NO!" I screamed in my head, "Not now, don't ruin it". As he was kissing me, I messed my diaper. I was mortified. Tears started streaming down my face. "Shh", he said, and he kissed away my tears. Without breakng away from me, he reached under the bed and got my wipes (I had told him they were for "woman's issues", I guess he figured it out at this point). He took off my diaper, cleaned me up, and we made love. Afterwards, he put a fresh diaper on me. We then cuddled, I laid with my head on his chest, his arms around me. We just layed there for a few hours. Then I felt the need to pee, and I knew if I tried, I could make it this time. I started to get up, and he hugged me tight, slid his hand down on my butt and said, "no no, just relax, it's ok. You don't need to worry". I laid back down on his chest, relaxed, and wet my diaper. Never before did it feel ok to just let it go, I didn't need to try to make it. The last thing he said before I feel asleep in his arms was, "I love you, and a diaper isn't going to change that." When I woke up in the morning, the wet diaper I feel asleep in was now soaked. Jeff, as if this was no surprised, said "Looks like you could use a diaper change. Would you like me to take care of that for you?" I was so happy that he just accepted me, I hugged him, crying. He really didn't care that I wear diapers. I asked if it could wait till after breakfast. I was a little nervous of how that would go, but after breakfast, he changed my diaper as if this is what all boyfriends do. We talked about it today, and the only thing he was a little upset about was that I didn't tell him, but he understood why. We also decided, since I'm always gonig to be incontinent, it makes no sense for me to stress over rushing to a bathroom. Nobody has ever told me before that it's ok to just let it go, and not spend so much energy on that. So that's what I did today, and I was able to spend much more attention on enjoying life. I asked him why he is so eager to change my diaper, I mean, it's not the greatest task in the world. He says "helping is one of hte ways I show affection. It's just something that needed to be done, and I'm perfectly capable." "You don't think it's gross?", I said. "Shh... Don't worry about that, I love you", he answered, and kissed me. "Won't it embarass you if somebody finds out?", I asked. His reply was, "How could I ever be embarassed of the girl I love?" It's nice to be able to just be, with no worries of him finding out. I can walk around in a t-shirt and diaper, or bra and diaper, just the same as other girls can go in just shirt and panties. I don't have to be covered up all the time, I don't have to worry about him noticing my diaper smell, or being careful that my diaper doesn't show at all when I move. I can just be. I'm crying with happiness as I type this.