TheKid

Put kitty litter in your trash...it deters people from digging into it.

I've noticed this sad situation as well. Having only one diaper left, I went to all my local drug stores today only to find that they've all stopped carrying depends diapers in my size. Or anything in my size for that matter, aside from pull ups. Having a size 28 waist has its drawbacks, I guess. As for giving unasked for advice, the employees won't say a thing, I'll guarantee it. A CVS or a Walgreens employee has no incentive to do so. You may have noticed that most elderly people are more than willing to share their medical information in casual conversation so if you're behind her in line, or find some other pretense to voice your opinion, it may behoove you to make a snide remark about the quality and availability of store brand diapers and see where that goes.

My interest comes in cycles...waning as another kink takes over for a while. I just turned 26 and I thought maybe I was actually growing out of it till those wonderful diaper dreams started coming back last week. But now that it's returning I've realized something. I always thought of myself as mostly a DL but my original interest in diapers had a lot to do with the fact that they were 'for babies', not big kids, and how humiliating it would be to be put back into them. Now that I remember that, I'm starting to get into the idea again. Like I said, cycles. But does liking the humiliation aspect of wearing diapers and baby clothes over the concept of ageplay/regression really qualify as AB? Or is that getting into other territory (e.g. dominance/submission)?

The question of the morality and wisdom of drug use is irrelevant to the question of increasing acceptance of diapers, don't you think? I personally disagree with the notion that a public display or discussion of diaper wearing will cause more people to wear them. Any more than a public discussion or display of homosexuality would cause more people to engage in homosexual behavior. It could, however, lead to greater acceptance and understanding of the community if discussed in an appropriate manner. MDMA has been used effectively in single (not multiple) therapy sessions for breaking down barriers, emotional problems and problems of acceptance. However, not all people who go to raves are going to be on MDMA, so your premise is a bit shaky. On the other hand, if you bring free drugs with you to a rave, people are bound to accept just about anything you do. But all joking aside, has anyone here been to a rave where they were aware of other participants' use of or attitudes about diapers? Quick story: I was at a raver friend's party and there was a girl there in a diaper who was distributing ketamine. I know this only because someone at the party said something like 'that girl in the diaper had really good K.' Nothing further was mentioned about the diaper. GO figure. And just for the record, I am not a raver, and when I go to parties and events I am usually sober. I find that the drug-centric atmosphere seen in some (not all) electronic music events detracts from the enjoyment and the music, which should be the real focus in my opinion.

Thanks for the advice! I was just worried that the pants would be too loose since I have a small waist (28) but I'll go ahead and get some more. And maybe from an online vendor such as babykins this time.

I bought some rubber lined snap pants at the medical supply store the other day and I have to say they work like a charm at preventing leaks. Only problem is the snaps dig into my leg and waist. According to the sizing chart they're the right size (small) but after a while even the elastic has begun to chafe. Does anyone else have this problem? Is it best to go up a size, do the gathers soften over time or is it something you just live with? Out of all three pairs of plastic pants I've ever gotten only one hasn't had this problem and it was the white one with the babies all over it that you see at all the online stores (including sears apparently). The third one - pink carousel or one of those - hurt like a mother and the snaps would always pop. Thanks, guys. Any ideas would be greatly appreciated.

I would say yes. However, in this case, what seems like a 'punishment' may actually be desirable so we are really talking about a reward. From what little I know of psychology, positive/negative reinforcement is the most effective system. Simply rewarding someone for good behavior is just not as effective and simply punishing them for bad behavior is even less so - which is why I do not advocate corporal punishment. These 'fun' punishments can be your positive reinforcement, and denial of these activities or ...any other fun thing you can think of... can be your negative reinforcement. Whatever method you choose consistency is paramount. If the rules aren't strictly enforced it will never work. Incidentally I hear the single most effective way to change others' behavior is 'shunning'.

I recommend the beautiful city of San Francisco. There is something for everyone and for you I would suggest a visit to the exploratorium. You get to explore tons of hands on exhibits/activities in whatever order you choose and you are sure to recapture the wonderment of childhood. You know, the part where stuff is new and exciting. The kids love it too!

I'm a guy and I earned my big boy pants before I turned 2! I guess I really didn't like being wet. But I must've regretted it later because by four years of age I wanted to wear again!

I find it advantageous to wear my diapers to work because no matter how stressful things get, the feel of my diaper keeps me in good spirits. However, if I don't get a chance to change that clammy feeling and the knowledge that it might leak can have the opposite effect. Of course that can all be fixed with a stuffer or two!

Nope. Doesn't happen to me though sometimes I end up with a little trickle in my pants after I finish peeing. Usually when I'm sick though it's never enough to show through my pants. Kinda annoying?

Two pull up nite times - backs ripped off and taped together with clear medical tape. Best stuffers period. (It's pretty expensive though)

They seem softer afterward...and I do like how the designs show through. I like ATNs with pull ups inside. A bit time consuming getting all the fluff off the backing but probably worth it.

So how did you bring it up? I'd definitely opt for a diaper over a catheter if I had to choose but otherwise how nosy do doctors tend to be when one asks for diapers in a hospital?

Actually, in my state it is technically illegal to have sex with a minor no matter what age you are - if both parties are under 18 they are both committing a misdemeanor. But each state is different. I very surprised when they told us that in high school. Laws are weird. I also have a hard time saying the word for the same reason. For some reason I think my voice will falter and I'll give myself away. I remember there was this comedy that I watched a couple times as a kid about a cop whose mother came to live with him or something. In the intro he's foiling an attempted plane hijacking until he looks down and realizes he's wearing a diaper. Spoiler Alert - it's a dream. I loved that scene.

That's fun! Actually, diapers are often used in BDSM scenes so that someone can be restrained for long periods of time without making a mess. I was strapped spread eagle to my bed with leather restraints and a diaper once, hoping to last all night. I think I only lasted 4 hours before the pain was too much (you get sore after a while in any position). Another thing you can try is to freeze the key in a block of ice so that you have to wait for it to thaw. A tupperware container works just swell. I want to try that trick with some locking plastic pants.

Good topic, Husky. I've been wondering about this for a while myself - for basically the same reasons. Might I also recommend that you check with your local medical supply stores? There is one by my house that will order anything they don't carry in stock with no delivery charge. Of course they will charge a little more than websites in order to cover overhead but of all the options I've found, it's the least likely to give me a headache! Good luck!

I feel exactly the same except I am always content when I'm wearing no matter what I'm doing whereas I'm only *almost* always content otherwise. I just feel like there's nothing I'd rather be doing when I'm wearing. You know?

Plastic!!! Disposable diapers were plastic backed when I was a baby. I'm guessing if I had worn cloth backed diapers I'd like those. And don't you just love the way they crinkle?

I also live in VC. 25/m Yeah, baby!

I wear diapers to work (usually tranquility brand) and have never had to worry about being noticed. I don't think most people are that observant. Even though I wear pretty tight jeans to my work I will sometimes double up - no one has said a thing, not even a funny look. I do have to be a bit sneaky if I want to change. I keep wet wipes in the inner pocket of my jacket, and when I sneak a diaper or two under my shirt it just looks like I have a bit of a paunch. Of course, everybody who wears leaks every once in a while but If you wear black pants to work, no one can tell. Heck, even if you were caught you could just say you were having stomach problems and didn't want to have an accident at work. The very thought of wearing diapers, much less for non medical reasons, is so remote in peoples' minds as to be insignificant.

Hi! Glad you could join us. Lucky you, getting to wear finally! I hear they have some great brands in Europe too.

Yup, I found it. At the end of this article.

This topic is one which may be counter intuitive to anyone who hasn't actually tried this. I've read fictional stories where the main character ejaculates in his diaper and is 'discovered' and upon his next diaper change. The truth is that semen breaks down pretty quickly into a non viscous liquid form so it really isn't much different from urinating in your diaper. Not to mention it is water soluble so you wouldn't notice it by your next change anyway. The only reason I would see for changing afterwards is the shifting of the gel or pulp which would occur if the diaper was already wet. If that's the case, you should change anyway or face greater risk of diaper rash. And nobody likes diaper rash. ...or is there a fetish for that now too?