tom49461

Jeez, what makes you ask about messing being "naughty"? I mean, bowel movements are quite a normal activity. Diapers are meant to contain eliminations. To me, underwear is like "adult pull-ups" - simply not meant for real eliminative use! I don't think your poll went far enough with questions...

Wear the butt plug full time. It will become irritating but over time, depending upon the size of it, you may not notice it so much. What I found was that as my anal sphincter took in bigger and bigger plugs and dildos, it would accept bigger items more easily, but I never lost continence as muscles have a memory and will pretty much return to normal size/placement when the object is removed. However, I pretty much had continence problems as I, with alcohol, began to drink myself to death. You will pretty much retain continence unless the nerves controlling that area are damaged. How bad I feel for bowel incontinents. Being out in public and having an uncontrolled and unexpected bowel movement could just ruin a person's day! : (

Just the idea of watching another adult, especially a woman, load up their diapers, and enjoy anything - firm chair, rocking horse, johnny jumpup, swing, whatever - mushing their load around is as exciting to me as loading up my own diapers! And, unlike many, I'm sure, I'd deal with helping them clean up, too!

I just discovered at age 5 that I liked the look of puffy white cloth diapers covered by crinkly "whooshy" Gerber plastic pants and there was nothing more that I wanted was to be back in diapers. Of course, I was a bedwetter until age 17, and unfortunately, without the use of diapers on me - which would have made SO much sense...

How much guilt do you feel about your diaper leanings and diaper life?

I tried chlorophyll, mushroom and charcoal tablets/capsules over time and didn't really notice much difference. I began with a commercial product called "Nullo".

How much guilt have you felt over your time being into diapers? How have you dealt with it?

Exactly what so many who want to become incontinent have found out should they decide to venture out in public. But, then, I've had 50 years of being a DL to practice what CAN happen to a true incon in the real world...

My first wife didn't know about my "diaper proclivity" until, I know it was the wrong way, I kind of dropped it in on her. She put up with it, but was not happy. My second wife accepted, put up with it and participated infrequently, I think to please me, I think. I won't tell you about various situations, but it was when we were having a family, and I was the happiest diaper-wearer in the family, until the kids got older and I had to hide my supplies and be careful when I enjoyed diaper activity. I took a long time telling my third wife about my fetishism and she seemed to understand and accepted, and married me anyway. She is very ambivalent as it is MY thing and I don't force it upon her. So, I'm happy, on the whole. But, if I had to do it again, and there won't be an "again" at this point in my life, I would have looked harder for a true female incon before the third marriage or, at this point, still look for a true female incon to sleep next to!

There is nothing better, to me, than to be able to push a heavy load - and not runny - into my diapers, and wear them for as long as possible, including sitting in the mess and going out into the public, if possible, without offending anyone. I have long gotten over the odor thing and any distaste for the clean-up. It's all part of being diapered and fully using them.

Disposables are what I am relegated to at this point, and it's acceptable. Preference is nice thick cloth diapers, especially overnight, and plastic pants for that real "out of the past" feel for me.

I knew at age 5 that I was stimulated by the thickness of cloth diapers - there were no disposables back then - and the "crinkly" sound of plastic pants. I was frustrated until age 12 when I figured out how to simulate being "diapered" again, and once I had my first orgasm in that "package", I was hooked, especially since being in a diaper was the ultimate in stimulation for me!

My preference would be to be forced to be shaved clean/bare. However, I understand that it gets really uncomfortable as the hair starts growing back in - most shavers report that it itches uncomfortably. I just trim closely as needed.

As far as I'm concerned, if I don't use plastic pants, besides the surety of eventual leakage, it's not a "real" diaper "package". Though I prefer a cloth diaper/plastic pant "package", that is not possible for me. A good thick disposable like a Molicare, with soakers, is a good and satisfactory "package" for me! Um, I like to use a diaper FULLY as intended.

The only "need" is the pleasure I get from being in diapers and using them. Over 50 years, I've had plenty of time to enjoy and have!

I kinda' like who I am and how I am. I have been a DL for 50 years, and figured out I was a DL, not AB. I had my moments of disgust toward myself. But, after I just accepted me for who I was, I began to enjoy being "different" in MY way. In and out of diapers ever since.

After a lot of alcohol and legal problems, I got back into diapers. I am one to want to wear plastic pants over any diaper I wear. That said, back when, the only way I really loved "loading up" was in CLOTH diapers and plastic pants. I never felt disposables - and still don't - can really fully contain a nice load. It's been proven - to me, by action - that this is true. However, there is nothing more fulfilling (pun intended, LOL) than the "little" feeling of a full load in my diaper and the relief of emptied bowels provides. Anyone who feels the same way certainly is a kindred spirit!

You know, we all go through this "what I've missed" syndrome. I don't know what led me to be turned on by a return to diapers - other than being a bedwetter until I was 17. If only my parents had kept me in diapers, I would have had such more comfortable nights. Wet cloth diapers don't feel that bad. And, if you want to experience it, just do it. I would have gladly laundered my wet diapers. As long as there were plastic pants to keep all my wetness in, I would have been very happy. I am NOW. I can wear what I want when I want and do. Life is experiencing things. Experience what you want and don't rue what you haven't. You might find you can make up for what you think you have missed. Wet. Feel how it feels. Have a BM. Feel how it feels. Decide what you want to do. Just be prepared for the fact that cloth diapers and plastic pants - which can be used over and over again - take a lot more work than just untaping and dumping the diaper into the garbage. You will have gone green, helped the environment and rounded out your own experience!

Why not? Some people like to cross dress. Something tripped the switch. Stop worrying about it and enjoy. Just figure out how to incorporate it into your life. You'll live longer and be happier!

Unless one is two, there is no reason to exhibit one's underwear. The shock value is more revolting than a turn on. I have looked for a long time. There are few exhibitionists out there, and I'd wonder about one if I came across one...

Pull ups are a waste of money for practical wetting. To each their own...

Just did. Wanted to do it as I filled the gas cans but needed to get beer. Won't foist my thing upon others. Now enjoying the "fruits" of my efforts! LOL