When I first started bed wetting 10 years ago, I was quite resistant to the notion of being a bed wetter and did everything I could to prevent it. The doctors weren't able to find anything physically wrong with me, but diagnosed me with over active bladder. I took a prescription and watched my water intake for years after that, but would still have instances of bed wetting about once a week. I finally got sick of waking up with a wet bed and turned to wearing diapers every night. There's a part of me that still abhors the fact that I'm a bed wetter, but I'm actively trying to purge it. Denying my condition certainly didn't help me, but accepting it seems to be. So, yes, accepting the fact that I am a bed wetter seems to be the best way for me to cope with the condition. Trying to stop myself from wetting the bed only to ultimately fail certainly did me no good.