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That’s a good observation cruiser! I never told him or gave him a hint about my lifestyle, but I will most certainly keep what you said in the back of my head!!! I was wondering that maybe this can work out for me cause he might know a girl who would fit my lifestyle. I’ve know him for a long time. But again cruiser you have made a good observation, and the funny thing is that I’m a paranoid person and I’m surprised I didn’t think of that.

I have a friend who can pickup any girl he wants and the girls are always good looking, well a few days ago he told me about this girl who had him put a diaper on her so she could pee in it and I was thinking that this is hitting close to home. I was wondering if I should tell him about me being a ab/dL? I need some advice cause when I drink I get very open and to trustworthy with people. Thanx everyone!

It could be cabin fever setting in, both of my sisters are going thru a depression and I’m a bit withdrawn myself, I love to come home to see my pet but I’m not excited about that anymore right now and I feel so guilty cause he is so dependent on my attention. That is how I realized I’m going thru a slump right now. I wish I had some advice to help u get thru this cause it’s a ugly feeling, it’s like a cancer of your emotions that’s eating away at us. Hang in there you are definitely not alone!

Jessa Duggar , I’ve seen some pics of her and she has the perfect look on her for changing my diaper, she is gorgeous!!!

And what do you do when your little poops ? as in make them sit , squish it with your hand etc?

Your also very good at punctuation ?, I forget to say that earlier.Agreed a relationship has to be a 2 way street. I wonder if a lot of littles have so much built up from keeping their secret inside them for so long that they forget about their future partners needs.I am single because of fear( the potential negative outcome from telling a partner), the dating scene alone is a mess let alone putting my lifestyle in the mix.

So you are an author! I guessed right,You are very articulate ?, if it is easier to tell someone that I would like to wear rather than them wearing then I have that going for me, I’m a sub who loves a nurturer( I melt like butter when a woman nurtures me) and I have “no interest” in being dominant and having them wear. I hope that doesn’t make me come off as selfish but it’s who I am. I would be interested in seeing some of your work!

Im willing to let you test some punishments out on me if you need a guinea pig Lol

That’s impressive advice mamabug! You should write a book, you come across as good writer (author)! It was interesting when you said “you knew about your kink since you where a teenager, maybe younger”. I always wondered if the mommy’s, caregiver or dominant role was something that was developed when introduced to the ab/dL lifestyle. As you are aware myself included that most ab/dl’s Knew at a very young age about our diaper side. I guess the same can be said about the mommy/caregiver role also just like most any other lifestyle. Telling someone about our lifestyle is indeed very scary, I envy those who found the strength to put themselves out there to find their partner, it takes an extreme amount of courage to do that.

Would you recommend that advice in regards to “letting her take the lead” when it comes to messing and wetting? What I mean is when I tell her that I like wearing diapers but I should say I don’t mess them, and just wait for her to make me?

I have a question all the women who are mommy’s to there husbands/ boyfriends. If you were single again and into being the mommy role would you be looking for the dominant and manly guy or would you be looking for the more submissive guy that you know you could mother? I ask this because I would like to make finding a potential girlfriend easier on me, the thought of telling a potential partner about my ab/dL side is very scary for me, due to rejection and or telling the wrong person who would use that to smear me if they were turned off by it.

One of my many fantasy’s would be to be wearing just a T-shirt, gym shoes and a diaper on and have a firm solid poop bulging out in the back of my diaper and have a girl who is playing the mommy come up behind me gently rubbing the back of my diaper and saying in a soft nurturing voice “ what’s this? Did someone poop? Mommy is gonna be busy for a while so your gonna have to stay in your dirty diaper for a while!” And she takes my hand and walks me over to the chair sits down and puts me in her lap and then “squish” as my poop smashes against my butt! As I am made to sit in my diaper like as it’s nothing until she changes me. One other short fantasy would be to go to a girls house that I just met for a first date and when I knock on the door she yells “ come in it’s open” as I walk in the door she is standing there with a diaper in her hand and says ”come here this is for you!” And she grabs my hand and walks me into the the bedroom and has me lay on the bed and puts the diaper on me.

Not only is your artwork fantastic, but what amazes me is how you are able to add depth and detail to the imagination and fantasy with your pictures and quotes. For instance with the Zelda one when you have her sit down and then you put “squish” with the look on her face was excellent. I was in adult mode as i was browsing the dd site due to a day and a half of being in little mode, when I ran across your Zelda artwork it instantly put my back in little mode. It was pure ecstasy for me !

I can’t say how much I envy people here who have the courage to tell your girlfriend about your diaper side and they are fully supportive and turned on by it. I haven’t had much girlfriends in the last 10-15 years due to my ab/dL side. My diapered urges became to powerful to suppress and I just gave in and let it engulf me, the thought of me telling a potential girlfriend about my ab/dL side and being rejected let alone the damage that could be done to me if I ended up telling the wrong person gives me insane panic attacks. I do realize my life is swiftly passing by and I can’t just sit here in isolation and feeling abandoned the rest of my life.

Me ?

They way you say that has me thinking some good fantasies right now ?

I highly recommend mommy missy, don’t pass up a great time!! She is gorgeous and very good at what she does( being a mommy)! She was my first experience with anyone, I was very nervous before the appointment and mommy missy made me feel very comfortable and gave me a great experience. I left feeling very comfortable with who I am!!

I would like companies to stop using the hourglass shaped padding, it doesn't look babyish. I loved the padding shape of the old sdk's v1, they looked like real pampers.

I so wish you came to Chicago!!!

I wasn't nice to them expecting anything back, I learned that the hard way.

I think the whole brother/ sister friend zone

Good choice!!! I've diapered up and went to town on myself plenty of times looking at her pictures.

For me a woman diapering me is way better than sex, I would be cool having sex if me being in a diaper was involved. The last time I had sex I couldnt get it up until I imagined her putting me in a diaper and mothering me.