feathergirl

as a woman, i hate wearing pads, even though i love diapers. they tend to bunch up, and depending on what you're wearing, can be hard to cover up, and can cost a lot if you wear them every day. that being said, i'm pretty sure a lot of pregnant and pre childbirth women DO wear pads. i mean... there are a lot of them on the market, it's because there's a big buyer base. i'd wear a pad or diaper daily if i had accidents semi regularly, but i could understand someone not wanting to wear one every day if they only leaked a couple drops once or twice a month or something. i think a lot of people just have a hard time admitting they might need an incontinence product due to embarrassment, lots of men do it too.

just a pack:

Haha, dang, that was pretty fast. I paid

I purchased another diaper brand from this seller I'm expecting to come in soon. I can't promise a picture, but i'll try to let you know whether or not the package could be considered 'discrete'.

I've been thinking about picking some of these up, they actually have decent reviews around the net, as far as budget diapers go. I'm sure the absorbency doesn't come close to high end diapers, but for someone who isn;t incontinent and maybe wanted to stick up on some cheaper diapers for play time at home, it seems worth a shot. You can always add a booster if you need to

No wearing in front of friends or family, pretty much everyone is know is a butt grab/manhandle risk and/or nosey as hell.

usually i cross my legs for no reason because i fidget a lot

ehhh... as a woman in my late 20s i don't even want biological kids of my own, let alone mommy anyone else. though i guess i'm in the minority among women in that i have pretty much zero maternal instinct outside of taking care of my pets, and looking out for friends and family. i know women in my mother's age group who seem to have a hard time watching their children grow up, but i don't think it

nah... if he wants to wear them it'd be fun, but it's never been a desire of mine to have my partner diapered.

like some others have said, make it as good for her as possible, and she may develop a positive association, but don't push her so hard that she becomes uncomfortable. you'll have to communicate and work it out with her to figure out the best ways to try to make it more enjoyable for her, if that's possible; it may take some trial and error. my husband wasn't

alternately, if you can find a used locking filing cabinet that may work, although they tend to be pricey. maybe post on craigslist if you are on a budget.

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My fiance is the only I feel needs to know about my diapers, as they're a sexually charged object for me, and we try to fulfil each others kinkier desires when we can. He's pretty kinky himself - he likes ladies panties and wears them most days, sometimes we pick out panties together or I find some for him to wear, so it helps that he's far from a prude. He's been nothing but accepting and supportive, but it's still always a little hard for me to bring myself to bring up the subject with him. I've come a long way, it's a lot less embarrassing now, but it's still pretty silly that it's even a little hard for me to talk about it when I know he doesn't have a problem with it... actually, he's growing to like it. I've always been pretty shy and introverted so opening up to people and feeling vulnerable isn't something that comes naturally to me. It took so long to work up the courage to tell him in the first place, but it encouraged him to confess his interest in panties, and it brought us much closer together, so as hard as it was it was probably one of the most rewarding moments of our relationship. There isn't much better than confessing your strangest quirks and kinks to someone and knowing they still love and accept you, and to have them open up in turn.

I've been a DL and a submissive for as long as I can remember. Submission probably stemmed from my controlling parents, but

there's some good advice here, as some have mentioned it takes a while to really figure out how to get a good fit, you might need to try different ways before you figure out what is most comfortable for you

Why would I dress up as a baby when I can make a sweet monster costume? : P Suppose I'm not an AB as much as a DL anyway.

Congrats! It's wonderful that you were able to confess this to her, and that she is so supportive. As the others have said, do pace yourself, as supportive as she is you may overwhelm her if you push too much on her right away. Keep the dialog open and encourage her to be honest with you if she gets uncomfortable, or needs a break. And of course, make sure you reciprocate if she has any fantasies she'd like you to indulge Have fun!

Like being wrapped up tight? People usually call that mummification bondage:

You two need to have a serious talk about what you want in a relationship, and what sort of sex life you need. Not wanting to leave your boyfriend due to his desires is admirable, but you're not doing either of you any favors if you two can't come to a compromise of some sort that will make you both happy. No, a relationship isn't all about sex, but unless you are asexual, or have a very low sex drive, it's a very important part of it. Bad sex life = bad relationship. Sex is good for you, it relieves stress, it helps with the bonding process, it helps patch things up after arguments.

I'm not surprised there are so many abandoned accounts here, considering the theme of the site. People probably join, then get embarrassed about it, and leave, possibly go back to ignoring this side of their personality/desires entirely. There's so much binge purge among ABDLs, abandoning sites like this is probably just a part of the cycle for a lot of people. I think most sites have a lot of abandoned/inactive members though. I know nothing of the numbers of course.

Yeah, that email address is pretty fishy :/

I've seen diapers at the local goodwill, but I can't bring myself to buy from a brick and mortar shop, only online. Small town and such.

I also hear baby diapers make good boosters? I haven't tried them myself. Even if you don't switch to cloth, you might want some plastic or rubber pants for extra protection, unless you use them already.

I'm pretty turned off by poop overall, so I don't know if I would ever really want to mess myself again. I tried a couple times as a teenager, and I always regretted it. As a submissive who enjoys bondage (include forced diapering, humiliation, and bathroom control) though, it would be pretty intense to be forced to mess myself. The fact that I mostly dislike it, and it's such a universally embarrassing thing to most people, would make it an impressive show of control. Outside of this situation I don't think it would be rewarding for me, though.

Depends on the situation. If boyfriend and I are doing a little BDSM session, he'll have me wear them for a while, then they come off and we'll have sex. I'f I'm alone it's a combination of rubbing through a very wet diaper, and putting a small vibrator down the front. I'd LOVE to get a magic wand though.