TheMagicDragon

One of the Nicest things about this website is that it gives us all a way to communicate with others of like mind. When a person first tries to come to terms with themselves over having a diaper fetish there is often lots of guilt involved. I went through it for thirty years. Then I "came out" on DPF and admitted I am this way and immediately someone wrote back welcoming me into the crowd. That is my first "coming out" about diapers, then I soon came out to my then fiance (now wife) and all is well. I'm on here every evening to reinforce the great feeling of "feeling no shame" and being very happy with my lifestyle choice. A good AB friend of mine say's it best "I feel no shame" regarding his diapers. I've taken that to heart, hopefully you can find that inner peace too. Wearing diapers aren't really a big deal - but one may feel ashamed to the point of self-denial. But they harm no-one and most of us have a psychological need, or compulsion or desire to enjoy them. So why not just do it? I think DD is the greatest thing to happen to me since I finally feel happy about being a diaper guy. The shame is all gone. Also, thanks to the support from the Members here and Daily Diapers Admin (WOOT!) I've been able to hold Munches for over a year now. There's no way I'm ever gonna stop. Having Way To Much Diaper Fun can't kill you! "Wearing a diaper is like having a party in your pants!"

Daddy Ant beat me to it. The Huse Plugs apparently work well. I've not tried it but there is a very outgoing Diaper enthusiast who hangs out on Diaperspace (NJL Members know him) who says these work great. I was thinking of trying it but its a bit expensive for me and I have no problem having a bowel movement in my diapers when I get up in the morning - and I like it this way. I kinda like being able to expect it in the morning so I take Metamucil and drink lots of liquids the night before. Its very nice just letting it naturally fall out without straining or holding back at all and it just feels great and naughty. AFter I have my coffee and poop my diaper I enjoy The Full Diaper Experience (good name for an underground band hehe) for ten or so minutes then shower up and get ready for work. Anyone else do it this way? BTW, there is a "Huse Plug" Category that one may join in on at FetLife.com and, since this is regarding a kinkster's toy you may have great luck finding advice about this item on that website too. Now, if they could only make it vibrate...

The above Munches and Events has just been updated. Shout out now if you plan to come to any of these! Fetlife has been very vocal so far, but not a peep from DailyDiapers folks.

Thats kinda cute. I can totally see that. Keep on truckin' with the AB/DL meetups and come on down here whenever you like. Sooner or later you'll come across a mommy figure that makes you all happy. Life is what we make it!

OMGOMGOMG I so LOVE this kind of treatment! And Proud of it!

You Quack Me Up!!!

Hmmm, Mommy just fed me dinner and I ate a whole lot of stuff that she says will give my fresh Bambino and three diaper doublers, plastic panties and blue onesie, and special bed sheets a real test. Mommy said so. Now that I'm fed and diapered , you guys are making me feel HUNGRY all over again! NumNumNum! Now to drink a whole lot of water just before I get tucked in with my stuffed animals. Me hopes me don't get bowel cramps tonight. When eating irresponsibly we must diaper responsibly. Good thing my mommy knows this! She a extra special superduper mommy! ps Mikey I hope you make some Extra Good Moolah this year so you csn get enough diapers. Kinda makes me feel really sad when so many of us AB/DL/Littles can't afford adult baby diapers. After all we need them.

Yep, I agree with Huggie. I happen to wear girls underwear - its a fetish and, hey, why should girls have all the fun? I prefer feminine style in my diapers too. I like overnights as a daytime disposable and wish there were an extra super thick disposable for those twelve-hour plus times when I wet but just don't want to change. I happen to really like "inner leg cuffs" like Bambino's have - these are essential, as are tapes that work. I don't mind having two or three tapes, one isn't my thing. But side stretch panels might be helpful. Basically, I love Bambinos but will buy more gender specific (feminine, in my case) styles if they are ever offered. I usually wear panties over my diaper to get the effect, but would rather just simply wear a diaper thats girly. I've heard about an inner lining clothlike paper you can buy to line the inside of a diaper that lets you remove a poopie without having to remove the diaper. If someone can ilucidate on this please do, it would be appreciated! BTW, you can get REAL disposable diaper doublers from Babies 'R Us that work great (you can use more than one) and are kinda cheap! I love 'em.

To Curiosity Killed The Cat and PArms: I had to laugh as you two NJL Members almost actually met. Curi came down to NJ twice and PArms came up twice! You're both real-life friends I made from my membership here. To AutieAB: Given the way you feel about internet friends and this website, I've just taken you off my Friends list, leaving you with five friends on your list. After all, you've never met or become anything you'd consider 'friends' with anybody on this board. Also, I've got so many real friends I've really gotten to meet, and so many more here I've PM'd and/ or spoken with on the telephone that I just don't have any room for those who feel otherwise about me.

Yeah, but if its not a fetish diapers ain't neccessarily fun for the wearer. Funny vids, I spent an hour mesmerized by all the crazy stunts.

I am now living in Somerset County. I commute to work in the Trenton area.

I hang out here alot and I take it a bit further. I've made over 30 new real-life friends in the past year and many of these have met one another as well. Wherever we meet we have fun worth remembering forever: ! Nuthin' sad about that! DD is the one website with forums that make this all possible. There are other forums which do help but DD is numero uno in terms of results. Shameless Plug: If you live near us, come to a 'New Jersey Littles' Munch. If you don't then support your local Munch or start one yourself. If I can do it, you can do it.

LittlesMunch.com www.LittlesMunch.com 'New Jersey Littles' Munch is a participating member of the LittlesMunch.com website! Membership in this organization is not something that is passed out without much consideration and is not instantaneous - they look for groups with staying power. We have earned this - it is an honor not to be taken lightly - and it must be earned on a continuous basis into the future. This affords 'NJL' the opportunity to participate with the entire community of Little Age Players and Diaper Lovers in the United States and perhaps soon the free world! LittlesMunch.com (est. in 1995) is the Premiere Diaper Lover and Age-playing Littles Network in the United States. Members may share the information necessary to travel about to other current munches in real time. It is not a forum for chat - it does not replace any related Forum Website in what it does. It is a place to go for current information about NJL and over ten other Littles Munches in the US. NJL does have a separate mailing list where you can communicate with NJL brass with questions and ideas! This puts everyone on the same playing field and it also opens up the opportunity for intergroup visitations and Diaper/ Littles Conventions for Members. This is one of many great reasons for anyone in or near New Jersey to join and participate in New Jersey Littles! If you want to meet others, for real, this is the way to go! Littles Munches are open to Adult (over the age of eighteen) Diaper Lovers and Adult Age-playing Littles - adults who role play as AB's, Adult Toddlers, Adult Little Boys, Adult Little Girls, Adult Kids and Adult Teens - perhaps with diapers or perhaps without - of any sex and/ or gender orientation - and it also allows Bigs who serve as caretakers: Mommies, Daddies, Aunties, Uncles etc... The point is that not all of these people are found at DailyDiapers or Diaperspace or Fetlife - Littles Munches are a broader, all encompassing group for those of us who are ready for that next step. We're not JUST a DL group but we include all DLs! If you are a DL but don’t want to associate with Littles you might miss meeting TONS of DLs who are also Littles to some degree - why would you want to limit yourself? We are not JUST an AB or AB/DL group but we include them, as well as AT (LB/LG) – and not all of these like diapers. Please realize that there are myriad ways for our members and prospective members to define themselves and we respect them all. If you don't understand this concept I suggest you go to the LittlesMunch.com website and read the other Munch groups' individual announcements with FAQs so that you will gain a better understanding. Why would anyone want to miss out especially when one can easily make more common-interest friends here that one can on one’s own time. THINK about it! NJL is also interested in helping other areas within the North Eastern United States form their own groups: New York City/Long Island, Philadelphia, NEPA, and CT and anyone within easy driving range of NJ. We are currently looking for NJL Members to Host/ Co-Host the planned North, Central and South groups so that we can effectively maintain monthly NJL Zone Munches. We are seeking enthusiastic NJL Members who may want to host a NJL Function or Party. If you are interested in any of this or have any questions please ask! We will continue to post the NJL information concurrently (here) on the Daily Diapers Forums under Meeting People/ USA/ New Jersey, as always. We ask that you kindly send your comments, suggestions and requests for more information directly to NJL Administration: daddyglenn2002@yahoo.com

Glad to have you aboard, Cradle Of Love. The people here are all here to have fun and we share things in common. Its always a fun place and you can lurk or blog or PM or Chat or do whatever you like, its all good! Girls need to assert their place in the AB/DL world and this certainly is THE PLACE to do that. Have fun! Glenn

That makes for a colorful BM!

Something shudderingly perverse about a plushy Cthulhu. Dunno if its the idea of snuggling with an effigy of insidious demoniacal destruction...or is it an effigy? "Children shouldn't play with dead things..."

These will be good fun! Post below if you want to shout out to others who read this. Save the dates: NJL North Munch Current RSVP Count: 7 confirmed (and 3 more "Probably's") and there's always the posibility of some unannounced. Please let us know below if you will be attending or you may RSVP directly to daddyglenn2002@yahoo.com. We need an accurate count for the reservations! Wednesday, September 22nd, 6:45 PM, The OFFICE Beer Bar & Grill, 3 South Street, Morristown, NJ. For Info and Directions visit www.office-beerbar.com. This is a popular place with great food! We will meet in front of (outside of) the restaurant from 6:45 until our 7:pm sharp reservations (I will be wearing my Bright Green Oscar The Grouch "SCRAM!" Tee-shirt.) If raining meet inside the door. Any latecomers should ask for "Glenn's" table. Plan on staying until about nine o'clock. Please ask for a separate check. Parking is around back. There is Train access to Morristown Station, about 2 blocks away, I can pick-up. This place is excellent, trendy yet casual and if you like great food, great beer and good company you will not be disappointed. Yeah, its worth travelling a distance to come here! No Activity is planned - this will be a dinner munch (stay for dessert!) NJL North Munch News: We are attempting to fix on three regular Munch locations in northern NJ - with an additional wildcard location (everchanging) so that members can meet up with their friends more frequently and so we can plan well ahead. We are going to do likewise for the NJL Central Munch. Note that there is only one NJL and that anyone can attend any munch - we are attempting to make it simpler and easier for regular attendees to connect and for newbies to join in. As we develop these regular locations we are seeking volunteer NJL Munch Co-Hosts - people to greet others at the entrance and, when appropriate, to bring everyone inside to the table. Its simple and rewarding - and much needed as I often have to travel quite a distance and cannot always be the first person there. You may remember how it felt being a newbie and not knowing whom or what to expect - why not help take the butterflies out another newbies first visit? This same Co-Host request applies below to the NJL Central Munches. NJL Central Munch Current RSVP Count: 5 (and 1 maybe) Please let us know below if you will be attending. Tuesday, September 14th, Hightstown, NJ. Americana Diner, Rte. 130 (Northbound side). We will be meeting just inside the Diner at 7:45 - I will be wearing my Bright Green Oscar The Grouch "SCRAM!" shirt so if you get there late just come in and look around for us.) While there is no activity planned anyone who might like to join us is welcome to drive 4oo yards to the Hightstown Center Cinema 15 for a Fun Movie after the munch. NJL Central Munch News: The North Brunswick Munch in August was a success! Now its time to rotate in a southerly route to give those living that way a fair chance to come out. The next NJL Central Munch in October theme will be OCTOBERFETISHFEST. I will release more information as I obtain it but suffice it to say this one involves visiting a Microbrewery either in Princeton or in Lambertville, as some people have already suggested. Lets hear from those living in/ near the Central NJ region who may be already enlightened as to the finer points of these venues. I would really like to find a munch site that also has rail (train)(ChooChoo!) access from Philly. For those living near the shore (Dennis and others), I am planning to hold a munch down your way a little further out in the year. The eventual goal is to find about three regular locations (and one wildcard which will always be new) so that regular members can meet up more frequently and so we can plan these well ahead of time. The Regular Locations will have to be located within a reasonable (walking) distance to Train/Bus access. As noted above, Volunteer NJL Munch Co-Hosts are sought. REMINDER TO ALL PROSPECTIVE MEMBERS AND NJL MEMBERS: READ AND UNDERSTAND THE NJL INFORMATION AND RULES AS POSTED. We have rules for a reason and we ask that ALL respect these. Thank you! NOTE: Due to an apparent lack of general interest and given the fact that I can no longer give my employer the required one-month's notice to switch my one off for this day it has been decided to table the Picnic for next summer. Our Sincere Apologies to all Teddy Bears and Stuffies.

Anybody wanna do up an ABDL Band? Ooh, Ooh, we can call ourselves 'The Bottom Half Group'! We'll only use nicknames and wear disguises - WHO'S IN? All we would need is a place to practice, we can rent out a studio to play and shoot an ABDL Video! Lets go Viral! I call Drums!!! (Stage name: Bam Bambinos)

Lots of good advice above. BettyPooh is Right. Try it at your own pace, you'll see its mostly a matter of getting past your own pre-concieved notions and fears that should blow away like so much smoke once you try wearing. It doesn't show as much as one would think, people care more about themselves than they do what YOU are wearing and the general public is not worried about someone using incontinence garments. Yep, I do it all the time. I wear depends Maximum protection to work and I wear Bambino's (or similar) and plastic pants everywhere else. I've gotten over the fear with the help of some friends who also wear for fun. Now its your turn!

Interesting! I answered "lying down". I just cannot seem to wet overnight, asleep or awake, try though I might. Next hardest: "driving", then "sitting" (limited success - I have to be bursting). Otherwise there is no problem. I'd really like to just "wet" as needed without thinking about it. Anyone else?

Glenn

My wife and I had a nice time. Great to see Zarmdl again - best of luck and wishes to you! I have to say, Squishy Knows how to pick a great place for a Munch! To all who came to the munch - you people are the reason we have NJL in the first place. Good friends with things in commmon and a sense of humor. To all who weren't able to come (new friends and old) I totally miss seeing each and every one of you - but its only a matter of time. I wouldn't trade this past year of NJL Munches and activities for ANYTHING. Buffalo Wild Wings food is great, we liked it all. And we didn't hold back either (well, there IS a hotter sauce I coulda' tried) I really enjoyed that schooner of Paulaner Hefeweizen! I'm a beer snob and didn't think they'd have this on tap. It was cold and fresh but now I gotta return the rental (hehe.) Gotta go back, often! Next up: September Munches to be posted within a couple of days, giving due and timely notice. NJL North - Morristown, NJL Central - Heightstown! NJL Members can look forward to: August Trip to Six Flags - Great Adventure, September 'Teddy Bears' Picnic', October 'Halloween Party' and we may even try to sneak in some Horseback Riding me thinks. Oh, and don't forget about those Hikes that DiaperedMO (NJL Member) is having up around Harriman. They're fun!

My curiousity is piqued!

Hi Kids, Just a little something I've been mulling over. Our slogan has been interesting but in and of itself isn't entirely reflective of the entire composition of our intended audience. Just as not everyone into diapers is into regression, not everyone into regression is into diapers so I think we can all agree to a little change in our slogan. Since AB/DL types and Little types are almost always happy to be in each other's company, in my extensive observations that is, I have decided to change the slogan to better reflect who/ what we truly are: N J L - Happy Together Sincerely, Glenn

Here is the official announcement: ‘NJL – Central’ Munch As posted on www.LittlesMunch.com, sent to the NJL Mailing List and Cross-posted on: www.DailyDiapers.com www.DiaperSpace.com www.Fetlife.com Evening Munch at Buffalo Wild Wings Date: Thursday, August 12, 2010 Time: 8:00pm, ending around 10:00 pm (No activity afterwards!) Attire: Street Casual (No overt kink paraphernalia, diaper responsibly) Location: 2241 Rt. 1 South, North Brunswick, NJ 08902. Use Google Maps or GPS. RSVP: Not required but do let us know if you will be coming, as we need to know in order to save you a seat! We will be sitting at a dining room table - we will not be sitting at the bar. The place is LOUD which is a good cover for our conversation. BWW has a good selection of cold beer on Tap, as well as a full bar. They have a decent grill-type menu but on Thursdays there are 60 cent boneless chicken wings and lots of sauces to try for adventurous types. Yes, kiddies eat there so you can get that glass of juice if you like. Look for the guy (me) wearing a green Oscar The Grouch “SCRAM!