I do not find it patronizing, demeaning, or condescending in any way, Jay-in-Pampers.
I totally agree, DailyDi, and I applaud your continuing efforts to improve this site. You certainly don't have to defend yourself or justify your policies to me or anyone else here, IMO. However, you have always taken the time and calmly set the record strait, despite the accusations. I for one appreciate your tolerance and dedication, especially when under fire.
You must be doing something right as many of us feel this is the best ABDL site on the net. Though I have voiced my opinion on a few occasions about possible improvements, I have always felt your intentions were/are sincere and in the best interest of the community. I hope others here feel the same.