Intersting perspectives.. I think it's good advice to not expect her to participate. To be honest, as far as i know myself, I am perfectly fine with that. I may even feel weird wearing around here. I go months without thinking about it with no problem and I have my own place where I can wear if I want to. I guess its possible that she got into it. She does like to be babied or i should say littled haha. She probably never heard of this before or thought twice about it. I really appreciate your responses, I feel more supported, which is why I joined the discussion. My plan now is work on accepting myself then at a comfortable time I will bring it up. I didn't mention this but a couple nights in a row just this week I had dreams of wanting to tell her but couldn't and felt frustrated. Thats part of how I know its almost time to let her know about this part of me. Thanks for listening guys...