Ashlz

Agreed. Often the mess itself is contained, but the blankets and sheets need a hazmat team from the smell x_x

I definitely find myself wetting while washing the dishes, and 100% of the time I will pee the minute I sit down in the bathtub. Pretty much anytime I use a hose too. So yes, water is definitely a trigger for wetting for me.

I find myself looking for diapers on other people pretty much every time I use public transit. I have had my suspicions, but I've never been sure. I have seen someone wearing a revol repaid shirt though :3

I usually wear tight fitting jeans that mask the bulge fairly well, but every time I stand up I have to pull up my pants and adjust my shirt. Especially after driving around in a bucket seat Pretty much if I'm in a hurry and that adjustment slips my mind, I have and inch or two of diaper showing.

As of right now it's usually just a diaper. I get really hot at night (everyone who has slept next to me calls me a furnace) and I thrash around a lot, so shirts and pjs get all twisted up :/ I've been waking up to a wet bed and a soaked M4 the last few mornings. I'm sure after a few months in "Certainty" brand diapers I will be really excited to switch to cloth... Maybe I should invest in rubber panties instead of vinyl.

Since I wear 24/7 out of necessity, I don't have much of a choice. As Kensei said, it's that or wet/messy pants. That being said, I really don't go out of my way to overly conceal the fact that I wear diapers. I'm sure that they're often poking out of my waistband or out from under my skirt when I bend over, but I'm not worried about other peoples opinions at all. It's one thing if you have a humiliation fetish, but I just try not to spend half of my day worrying about whether the cashier at Trader Joes noticed my diaper.

I usually wake up messy at least once or twice a month. Most of the time it's because I ate something I shouldn't have. Since I had my gallbladder taken out, my BMs have become predictable within a few hours, but are usually very sudden and very soft.

I knew I wanted to transition at age 4, but at that point it was wishing on stars that I'd wake up a girl until I was 12 or so and saw this dateline (or something like that) special about a trans woman who was in a car accident (she raced funny cars) and had been wearing women's clothes under her fire suit. There was a big fuss, and she decided to come out. Then I had some real words to put to the feeling of being born in the wrong body. As far as being pansexual goes, I've known I liked everyone since I was very young, and had a lot of firsts in my teens :3 Scary stuff growing up in southern Indiana in the 90s haha.

I end up pooping my diapers daily. Usually a first one within the first hour I wake up, and then sometime after dinner. I have definitely had unexpected surprises. Thankfully these days I take activated charcoal with every meal. That cuts down on the smell a lot. Even if I have some diaper bulging catastrophe I can usually manage to get to a place where I can change and not have people sniffing the air behind me.

Unfortunately for me I don't have the luxury of being able to change often, so I wear M4s 24/7. I'd have to start off with like 4 to feel safe, and would have to wash them daily... Hopefully I'll be able to soon, but I'm often not able to restock until I'm down to the diapers in my diaper bag.

I've gone without changing even when I knew I was going to (and did) leak just to avoid nasty bathrooms. Especially port-a-potties.

I had one recently where I was in the city and had left my bag at home so I had no changes. I was wearing a skirt, and just seemed to be soaking myself the whole time. Instead of leaking though, my diaper just swelled until it was ten times the size. Woke up to find I'd leaked everywhere :/

I flew from SFO to Indy a few weeks ago and had no trouble departing. The return trip I had to go through the scanner, but my diaper was dry so there were no issues. They did test my baby powder, but I was just glad to be flying home and didn't care.

I had this same problem :/ Abena M4s work well for me, cause they're a bit big, but I have a waterproof mattress cover for any unforeseen events. I can't afford to switch to cloth yet, so I try to at least start off sleeping on my stomach. I still move a lot, but I deal with unstuck tapes on soggy diapers more often than leaky ones.

It's really not, but for me I never have enough capital to buy enough diapers to last even a few days. I barely afford M4s, and sometimes resort to walgreens brand even I'd switch to cloth in a heartbeat if I had the money :/