I just feel like venting at the moment, but would also like some advice...so to start from the beginning...I have endometriosis which is also tied to my IBS issues. I am mainly urinary incontinent, but do have some bowel incontinence. My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for awhile now, and I had been prescribed a medication to help facilitate getting pregnant which in turn has screwed up my cycles. I stopped the meds because my endocrinologist doctor said I didn't need to take them anymore. Now the bowel incontinence is getting worse because of my messed up cycles, and I am not sure what to do . I used to have some idea that I was going to have bowel movement (granted I only get a few minutes at the most to get to the bathroom before I have a messy accident) and now I don't have any indication other than the immediate need to evacuate my bowels accompanied by severe gas. I don't want to go on any medications that I won't be able to take when I get pregnant. I have been seeing a Chiropractor to see if that will help alleviate the issue in a natural way and been using a heating pad on and off which hasn't helped yet. Even though I am diapered, I have been luckily enough not to have a bowel accident in my diaper at work because I used to have some indication that I needed to go. Now I am completely freaking out. I can deal with messy accidents in public, but I am not sure if I can handle them at work. I know that I don't have a choice especially if I want to keep my job. The upside to this issue (if you can say that there is an upside ) is that my boss does know that I have IBS issues, but she doesn't know that I wear diapers which she doesn't need to know of course .