FYI, I have worn a wet diaper in public before, while shopping with a mommy that I met on diaperspace. I was clearly wearing a diaper, I had put on two and then ended up wetting on the car ride over. It really wasn't that terrible, I was in a part of the state where no one knew me, and even though we were buying baby items, the cashier never even glanced at me. If anyone noticed, they were probably feeling as awkward about it as I was.