BabyAltair

No, we don't have to accept everyone. People not accepting things outside their comfort zone, and people not accepting when others are horribly inconsiderate and create possible health issues for others, all to get their jollies, are completely different things. Don't compare them. Scat communities wouldn't accept people who rolled in shit and then went out shopping covered in it. He sat in a restaurant for an extended period in a messy diaper. Messing in public is one thing, if you go change or leave right away, it's not a problem and most people here would be fine with it. Sitting around stinking up a food establishment, potentially creating health issues, is completely unacceptable.

They don't freeze hard, and they honestly don't even get cold. They just get cool and firmer and don't get sticky from the heat 3 seconds after you touch them. You can use whichever ones you want, size doesn't seem to matter a whole lot. Just put them in the freezer, dunk them in water (can also dunk them in liquid glycerin. That's real fun, but extremely violent), and shove them in, it's that simple. They go in easier after the first one, and it's quite an interesting sensation.

I have an ex with whom the breakup was friendly and mutually agreed upon, that I'm still friends with, and she knows. She says it doesn't bother her at all, but she wasn't ever interested in participating, and I've quit talking about it entirely unless she brings it up. I told another girl one time, but we ended the friendship for unrelated reasons about a year after that, and I haven't seen her or talked to her since that happened about 5 years ago. So two people, both females, one an ex, one a girl I intended to ask out, but plans fell through.

I know it's only fantasy, and I do like the story, but as someone who works in medicine, that last part broke so many different rules it nearly sent me into fits.

You bumped a nearly two year old thread to post that? This isn't reddit. Posts consisting of nothing but an image with no relevance to the topic are not cool and awesome and upvoted. Especially not when you're necroing a two year old dead troll post from a banned member to post your image macro.

What exactly do you do that being found to be incontinent would completely end your career overnight and remove you from the field entirely?

That employer would never have even risked that in the first place. The fines for violating the ADA are huge. No company would ever take the chance of dismissing someone for wearing diapers, especially when abdlism still isn't fully known by the general public. I saw a case when I was researching the ADA for a paper recently, where an urge incontinent woman got a 6 figure settlement for wrongful dismissal after her employer refused to accommodate her, she had an accident, took medical leave due to the psychological stress, and was dismissed upon her return. This was in addition to the fine laid upon the company by the ADA. Is it worth a hundred thousand to any employer to press the issue like that? They aren't even allowed to harass you about it, and most won't even mention a medical issue unless you bring it up to them, in fear of accidentally violating the ADA. The only way anyone would know you didn't need them is if you went around spouting fetishistic idiocy at work, and you'd be fired for sexual harassment long before they'd dare to even glance at the garment under your pants. Don't spread misinformation under the guise of scaring people into acting under your personal morals.

I believe I've read in the past that you work in the medical field. You're not the only one on DD that is in the business of impeding natural selection, just so you're aware. My apologies for the fantasies part, I mixed you up with turtlepins, who has contributed a number of well written stories to the ABDL community, though a few are too far outside the limits of reality for my taste, they are objectively eloquent and well thought out. One of the traits common to his stories is orgasmic bliss upon messing a diaper. He words it nearly identically to how you phrased it. The psychology in your post is disproven daily by the general abdl community. Most of the things you say will result in incontinence have been done by a number of other ABDLs on this site, me included, 2 full weeks of total 100% accurate infant role play while my roommate was out of town. None of us retained anything from the experience short of slightly easing the concentration required to use our diapers. Another user in this thread commented that he went a full month, and had no ill effects other than a few accidents which stopped occurring. The only person not acting like an adult here is the same one throwing ad hominem insults based on age. I don't expect you to respect me or anyone based on age. Someone's age doesn't even factor into my feelings towards them. I'd respect a 21 year old veteran who spent 2 years in Iraq as much as I'd respect a WW2 veteran. Both offered their lives for their country. The exact same goes for disrespect and dismissing a person based on their age. Obviously, I don't truly lend weight to a 4 year old's opinion on global politics, but within reason, everyone's opinion holds the same base value. I'd value a doctor's opinion on a patient more than the janitor's, because of the education, but in this case, we're both educated in medicine and psychology, and I respectfully disagree. The fantasy part was a tad insulting, but I already explained and apologized for that, so I'll leave it. I won't even comment on the demand for research, unless you manage to produce an actual study performed on ABDLs for something along these lines. Anecdotes are near worthless, scientifically, in these situations, as you should know well. You have the exact same amount of research backing you as I do. Zero. I'm not trying to be insulting or offensive, I merely state things as I see them, and don't sugarcoat or alter the truth to protect feelings.

If only. It's not this simple. You'll be pretty damn comfortable just going after the two weeks, but there's no way you wouldn't feel it or be completely incontinent. You can't undo years of training in two weeks when it takes three to form a new habit. Wearing a thick diaper and smelling baby powder isn't going to awaken your subconscious infant. It doesn't work like that, or half of us would be incontinent already. I'm glad it doesn't work like that, I'm quite happy choosing when I void. Also, you will not orgasm from messing your diaper. I know this is one of your major fantasies, but it won't happen. It requires more stimulation than that. How can you orgasm from messing if you don't even know when you mess? Contradicting statements. This whole post reads like a fantasy, and has little basis in reality.

What page did you find this on, 135? It's nearly 3 years old.

Definitely on the side of those who are against abdl abuse of the system. You can try to justify it all you want, but an abdl with no medical reason to wear, using the system to get them for free, is abuse, and the rest of the country will pay for it. You wouldn't like paying taxes so people into bdsm get free whips and leather chains. You wouldn't like paying taxes so people who drink alcohol recreationally at home to relax get free booze. If you need them THAT bad, you need to be talking to a therapist about your abdlism, because it's at the point where it's actively harming you and you need to figure something out.

Pretty sure they're talking leaks as in dribbling urine. Not a leaky diaper. These sentences: If I dont wear it I dont leak and can go every couple of hours. But wetting so frequently makes leaks often. Make no sense if he's talking diaper leaks.

Beautiful 3.5 month necro post to ask a question answered 2 posts up. Beautiful.

Cool. This is relevant to this forum or promotes discussion how? If you want to talk about cuddlz, that's what the thread you linked is for.

That's all nice and awesome. It's also the kind of attitude that would allow WnM24/7 to still be here shitting up every subforum with his miserable, explicit, troll posts. That rule doesn't actually work in the real world, as it only functions if EVERYONE follows it. One person can bring the whole system down by abusing it. There's a reason forums have rules and countries have laws. No one is treating him bad, only questioning the reality of his posts containing explicit descriptions of a non-ABDL willingly messing their diapers in front of him, while standing a foot from a toilet, when earlier in the thread she was having near breakdowns upon using the diaper. They also have unrealistic diaper sizing (not impossible, mind you, just unlikely), and sharing writing style traits with a teenager's fap material fantasies.

This forum is not where this belongs.

Except if you actually read the post, she's not an ABDL. She's not into this, yet she still changed him out of a messy diaper. That's rare.

That's stress incontinence. Urge is when you feel nothing until suddenly you get a massive, near unresistable urge, that usually results in wet pants if you're not within 10 seconds of a toilet.

I don't know what your first question is supposed to mean, "the idea of someone wetting or soiling a diaper anywhere other than a diaper seems dirty to me" makes no sense. Assuming you mean bathroom, it's no different than any other part of life. If he's a clean person, don't worry about it, if he's not, well, then you can worry. If it bothers you that much that he may or may not have sat on the couch wearing a diaper that may or may not have been used, you may not be a compatible mate for someone with this fetish. The second question, he already told you, and forcing him to go to therapy over it makes it seem to him like you want him cured, no matter what you tell him the reason is. Why he is like he is doesn't really matter, this doesn't go away, ever. It's part of him, for whatever reason. Finding out some trauma in childhood caused it will do nothing but remind him of the trauma. If he wanted to know why he has it, he likely would have figured it out already, if it's possible to know. Some people don't have a reason, at least not a concious, discoverable one.

You just like being a dick to people or what? Don't talk condescendingly about other people's likes or dislikes when you like dressing up as an infant and wearing diapers. No one cares what you think about pot. I don't smoke it, but I'm not gonna come in here and throw a fit about other people smoking. Do I come into your sissy forum and throw fits in there about not wanting to be associated with the perverts who have massive daddy issues that you MUST be to be a sissy? (It's a satirical analogy to point out the hypocriticalness of the posts, I have no problem with sissies, I don't actually think any of that. It doesn't do anything for me, but I'm cool with you guys liking what you like.) I mean come on, smoking pot automatically makes you an ignorant criminal who wants to be in jail, according to you, so you must have something wrong with your head to dress up like a little girl. Right? Right? A lot of your posts have an air of condescending superiority complex, and it's pretty irritating, honestly. It's not your business, you have no part in it, you don't take part in it, you disagree with it. We don't come screw with you over things we don't like. Return the damn favor.

Quit being dramatic, it's blatantly obvious, by her talking about how strong her relationship is, that she's talking about a boyfriend.

I'm somewhat impressed, and that's a rare thing for me. I can think of three stories on this board in the past 3 years that really impressed me. Good work.

The title is a reference to the first part of Dante Alighieri's Divine Comedy, which is a story about hell and heaven and purgatory, so they may very well be literally dead.

That's why your story has at least 2k more views than any other story that was started about the same time, and you have 28 replies, as well as this being a hot topic? Drop the pity party, it makes you look fickle and childish, and not in a good way.

Felt like pointing this out since I just noticed it, and thought it was somewhat ironic.