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Thank you everyone for your responses. It is very helpful to hear how other people address this issue.

How do you (as community members) manage having children and being a DL? My bf enjoys wearing diapers and one of my concerns is how it would be managed if we had children. When asked he had no idea how it would be managed with children in the home. Would it be something to keep hidden? How would you try to explain it to a child? Has anyone had it effect their children? Please these are genuine questions that I am trying to work out to better understand this lifestyle.

Thank you everyone for your responses. They have been very helpful.

My boyfriend is a Diaper Lover. I love him very much and am thankful that he has been honest about it and tries to answer what questions I have. However I worry greatly about upsetting him when I ask questions. He seems stressed and often doesn't know what to say. I was hoping that by expressing my concerns here the community can better help me with acceptance and understanding. I have two dominant concerns when it comes to him being a DL. 1) cleanliness: the idea of someone wetting or soiling a diaper anywhere other than a diaper seems dirty to me. When at his place it concerns me that there likely to be "matter" on the couch etc. 2) underlining issue: My largest concern and worry is possible underlining causes to this fetish. He has never gone to any type of therapy or anything to find out "why?". It upsets me greatly to think that something might have hurt him and possibly lead to this and has not been addressed. He says he doesn't know why but does admit to having some maternal issues. I realize those are not clear questions but I'm trying to understand what I don't know. I love him and really want to try to understand this part of him without putting more pressure on something he seems to feel somewhat ashamed of.