Bettypooh

I found DD seeking diaper reviews and really connected with one blogger. I lurkrd a long time then opened the door I check for new blog entries 2-3 times a week and I try to update mine daily. It has replaced much of my diary entries for now but that could change. And I too cannot understand why some people start a blog then quit using it If it no longer interests you then it's not going to interest anyone else either so delete it! Bettypooh

Snappi's are the rage for today's cloth diapering Moms and they come on two sizes. Here's the maker's webpage: <http://www.snappibaby.com/products/snappidiaperfastener.html> Personally I'm old fashioned and I will use only pins If you try different sizes, folds, and pinning techniques you'll find one that keeps your diaper nearly sag-free. Snug covers help here, as do onesies(so I hear). By the time a well-fitted and pinned diaper sags most people will be changing. Something I've found that I haven't yet seen elsewhere is pulling on the diaper as you lift and move each leg, repinning that side as you go. By pulling upward at the same time you get the closest fit possible. If you need to suck in your gut while you do this. It works for me Bettypooh

I didn't mind the old layout, it looked better but the new one works better Personally I like new windows opening for links. Too often I click through several windows only to lose the link to something I also wanted to explore that is no longer there so I have to open 'history' and locate where I started Plus I never liked sidebars that don't go away leaving me with a narrow window I don't want so I'm glad to see that feature go Not that any of this mattered because I almost never come in through the front door(homepage)anyway! A webpage designer whose style I liked told me this: Not everybody websurfs in the same style so you're never going to please everybody. Not everybody uses a high-speed connection but everybody likes fast-loading pages. Not everybody uses a newer Windows OS or the IE browser although these are by far the norm. You either design around what is the best average or say 'screw it' and do whatever you want. Guess which one is most successful? Good Job DD Bettypooh

I almost didn't check this thread since I don't identify completely as a boy or a girl but I was bored I got 'chopped' as a baby like many of us. It really sucks to not have a choice in what happens permanantly to your body but honestly I don't care about what they did to me. I do think that with me they should have aimed a bit lower with the knife FYI being circumsized is more hygenic. Ask any girl about yeast infections and you'll understand why One of the things I like best about DD is the honesty here It is nice to know that I am not the only > in the crowd. It makes relationships really tough because size does count no matter what anyone says. That has a lot to do with me being who I am and how I feel about sex and my own body and the only good I see in my 'privates' is that I can pee in a toilet standing up. Yeah, I hear you saying "So What?" and I agree totally. My willy is about useless for anything else and I wish it weren't there at all. Anyone got $15K and a round-trip ticket to Phuket laying around unused? Bettypooh

When I'm not diapered I wear panties-I don't have any other underwear and haven't had for many years At work I prefer Jockey Elance bikinis in white, they come in a 'Mens' style and they look 'generic' so any unwanted exposure isn't a problem Otherwise I choose according to mood and my other clothing. My lingere drawer has just about anything in it except G-strings(I can't stand having a string up my crack!)and boy-shorts(I like having my bottom covered and these crawl up on me ). I need my 'parts' supported for comfort and want them hidden. If 'it' fell off I'd be happy since my panties would fit me even better then Most of the time I wear cotton or microfiber print or colored bikinis but when the mood strikes me I have some girl's panties in XL that fit me well and enhance my 'little girl' mood I love all my underwear choices and I have more panties than most women do Bettypooh

Wiki's are built on user input which can be limited and moderated or left wide open. Some BB'S have this option but I know nothing about the technical side of this topic. I do know that to start one would require either a new beginning or delving into what is already here to put it into the system. I honestly doubt it's usefulness here even though it would make it easier to find an overall answer for newbies who haven't yet dug into the posts for the answers they seek. If you really want to know about something you need to research it yourself since only you can decide what is right for you As far as the AB/DL topic goes, this is mostly opinions rather than hard facts so a Wiki would probably be misleading at best Like the perennial newbie posts about "Which is the best diaper?" there can't a single answer or even a consensus since the question's scope is so broad. Even narrowing it to "which is the best disposable for concealed daytime wear and heavy wetting?" gets you a bunch of correct answers and a Wiki wouldn't help this Doing the research may not be easy but if you're that interested then you'll do it. It's really the only way you're going to find the info you need to make the right decisions or understand the topic. If you're not willing to do the work needed to do it the hard way then you probably weren't as interested as you thought you were Bettypooh

A happy resolution to the problem ! Thank you for sharing with us and please don't let the 'permission' thing get out of hand which could turn something fun into a unpleasant argument Make this something special to bring you even closer to each other and have a good laugh at it all later when you're both old and both in need of a diaper change Add my wishes for you both to have a "Nappy" New Year since you will now anyway Bettypooh

I've worn a wet diaper for 8+ hours on many occasions with no problems and I never use any kind of cream or ointment. I love feeling a warm wet cloth diaper on me so I usually get wet and stay that way as fast and as long as I can and I've never had any problems except skin odors and occasionally a tiny bit of rash at the leg elastics of my diaper cover. Keep in mind that I almost always shower and air out between diapers and that I'm only a night-and-weekend user which makes a big difference compared to 24/7 users My method is a lot more detailed and longer than I want to post here but is based on my belief that healthy skin only needs to be kept clean to stay healthy, and that artificial chemical compounds are generally bad for your body and your skin If you want the long version IM me through the board and I'll share the details of what works for me with you. Bettypooh

If you think you aren't going to get 5 responses within 48 hours, you haven't visited here often eoungh And some of us are quite opinionated; with me asking my opinion can be quite dangerous, but you asked, so- You said "hold your bladder longest". If those were the exact terms used then she wet first. As to whether a Goodnights is a diaper I say yes, it's actually more of a Training Pant but that is a form of a diaper since it's intended to absorb more than 'normal' underwear. You also said "if we get over 5 responses that I would not complain" regarding continued diaper wearing, but you didn't specify that those responses had to decide in anyone's favor, so as long as you get 5 responses of any kind you'd better get used to diapers My opinion is that both of you need to be diapered for the rest of the year so you'll learn to be more careful of what you bet on and how, as well as for making me put up with the whining you both did over who won the bet I warned you about asking my opinion, didn't I? Bettypooh

Litterbugs should be forced to do something publicly humbling to atone for their offenses as well as paying a huge fine Having said that I would be considered a litterer in my state because I will toss out an apple core or half a biscuit into the woods by the road knowing that the wildlife will rapidly make good at recycling it. But toss out paper or anything non-biofriendly, or toss my apple core on a sidewalk? NEVER! I don't care if anyone sees it or not, if a napkin or whatever blows out my car window I stop and retrieve it. We own the world together and I don't have the right to make a mess of anyone elses part of it(nor do you ) So I'm still in the closet as a DL and while I prefer cloth I use disposables too. I ziplock them in a gallon size bag, place that in a bucket with an air-tight lid and a couple boxes of baking soda in it, then weekly place the entire contents in a doubled trash bag which goes out to the street for collection. It isn't a totally odor-free method but a few minutes after the bucket lid goes back on you'd never know a thing. Mixed with the other household trash weekly nobody knows a thing, just put it under something nasty and nobody will dig through enough trash to find your diapers If you don't want to use your 'family' can at least take them someplace where they'll be properly disposed of. Human waste is one of the biggest hotbeds for such nostalgic occurances as diptheria, cholera, and a bunch of other diseases whose effects are far worse than being 'outed' as a DL Bettypooh

True or not this is interesting thread I'll add a couple comments about the indirectly connected issues. If you have the money you can find doctors who will do almost anything short of murder I know of doctors nearby who will remove non-cancerous testicles in MTF transpeople if you have enough money. A couple others will remove your 2 lower ribs so you can lose the male-appearing 'barrel chested' look but again it's not cheap.(Don't bother to ask me about this because I know nothing!). Especially since 9/11 the FBI or another agency is checking every online message in the US for 'red flag' words and phrases through remote computers which lurk at the internet hubs inside the US and other cooperating countries. Their intent is to catch terrorists but they'll take whatever they get and no part of your online life is secure once they start looking at you. They know everything about you already and their is no hiding from their criminal intrusions so get over it and learn to not worry because "Big Brother Is Watching" so you're absolutely safe. Doesn't that make you feel better? I'd buy the book if it looked interesting enough and as soon as it's published I hope somone will let us know about it Bettypooh

Girls learn by association better than boys do, and the sound of water running gently into a sink is similar to the sound of them peeing in a toilet so many of them unconciously associate one sound with the other and it can trigger a response If you asked your Mom in your adult years she would probably have told you that it helped her 'go' (even if she didn't understand why it worked) which is why she did it potty training you Like starting a yawn that around a room full of people, there are a lot of 'triggers' in humans and if you know how to use them you can have fun generating unconcious responses in groups of people. One of my 'mind games' in an indoors crowd on slightly chilly days is to subtly 'draw in', rubbing my arms as if I were cold while acting normally otherwise. In a few minutes I'll see quite a few people putting sweaters back on or closing their jackets even though the temperature is exactly the same as it was before I arrived. In a few more minutes they're undoing things as they begin to get too warm again Doing the reverse by acting hot on a warm day doesn't work nearly as well for some reason Us humans are funny creatures sometimes Bettypooh Bettypooh

"Relax"-Frankie Goes To Hollywood Just heard "Girl U Want"- Devo, "Take On Me"- A-Ha, and "A Girl I n Trouble"-Romeo Void It sure beats "Santa Got Run Over By A Reindeer" Bettypooh

Avoid the "Frankendiaper" look by using cloth medical adhesive tape instead of duct tape It's waterproof, sticks almost as well, and it's white so it looks nice too. I seem to remember some that had printing on it for children; look for it but don't quote me on that. The white kind can be found about anywhere in widths from 1/2 to 3 inches. Go with the wider stuff. My first 'real' disposable was 3 baby diapers held together with this tape so I know it will work for your purpose Bettypooh

Do I detect a hint of sarcasm here? Thanks for the links anyway. All I've sewn well so far is flat diapers based on purchased flat squares. The second one was presentable, the third good etc. My other projects with curves don't look so hot but still work OK. I wouldn't expect a great looking job the first few times around sewing a contour diaper(especially with elastic)but they'd be usable anyway. There's a post in here somewhere that reccomends making your 'big baby' patterns from paper using your own body as a guide. I'll join in on your sarcasm a bit It does seem that you see a lot of questions on BBS's that are best answered by using google and it does make you wonder why they didn't try looking there first Bettypooh

Since I'm very new to sewing I had hoped someone else might answer so I could learn something too. My machine doesn't embroider but some of the nicer ones do, and the fanciest new ones are computerized so you can select a font, size, and letter and it does the rest I've seen them on the TV sewing shows and I almost drool wishing I had one but I imagine they'd cost more than my used car did Anyway someone in your area will probably have a machine that embroiders so it's basically figuring out how to find them. You don't have to reveal exactly what you want embroidered as you search but think of something plausible, like "I need some lettering done for a gift" Fabric stores would make a good start obviously, then you could expand to craft and department stores, asking someone in the department where embroidery supplies are about it. If that fails search online. Hand embroidering doesn't seem like it would be hard to do(I have no experience)but it would be time consuming and tedious and you could D-I-Y. The upside of that in a gift is the personal touch, hand embroidery is very special indeed If you find someone locally you might get them to just make the lettered blocks, then sew them on the garment yourself. I got my machine cheap on craigslist and any machine will do a straight stitch but as small as your job is you could do it by hand quickly. If you get a machine be sure it works before you buy and get a real machine, not one of the handheld or battery ones which are junk that barely work or don't work at all. Ive had bad experiences with 3 of those If you buy me a top of the line Bernina machine I'd be happy to do it for you for free. Got a second mortgage handy? Good Luck and let us know how you do, especially of you find a seamstress who is AB/DL friendly Bettypooh

You don't have to believe the truth but you've got to ask yourself one question: Why has almost every other business in America seen record losses over the last 8 years while the oil companies have seen record profits? Gas here was at $1.39 last week but is going back up because of the market manipulation technique of limiting the supply in order to maintain or raise profit levels while saying that the production needs to be switched over to heating oil to make it all sound plausible. Refinery production can be switched over in a matter of days if they wanted to do it. The truth is obvious to those who honestly seek it; the rest will happily swallow the sweet-tasting lies fed to them by the dishonest seeking power over them Not only myself, but everybody I personally know is worse off than they were 8 years ago, even before the stock market fell Think about it. Think about everyone who was in power as it happened and how they were affected by the economic downturn we felt. This thread wouldn't even exist if what I have just shown you wasn't really true Bettypooh

If you can sew then you can manage this stuff yourself If not, you're far better off saving your dollars and buying them. Most (but not all) online AB/DL and Incon sellers ship discreetly and considering how much time it takes to sew well, the prices aren't as bad as you think AFAIK nobody offers patterns for this stuff so if you're set on the DIY approach you're on your own Bettypooh

My Urge Incontinence is easily set off by going from a warm place to a cold one. A blast of cold wind can do it too. I seem to have a special reserve in my bladder for this because even if I peed everything out one minute before I can still wet my pants bigtime when it hits if I'm not careful or not diapered Bettypooh

Life is strange. Things change as you get older. You can never go back. Yeah, everybody says that stuff and maybe it's true. All I know is that I believe it now that time is taking it's toll on me. Life is strange, after all who would have ever believed that there are so many others like us who enjoy wearing diapers? After discovering the diverse and very large transgender community online after thinking I was alone there, I knew that somebody would love diapers like me, but I was amazed at the numbers I found when I finally looked. I had always wanted to wear girl's clothes, I guess I knew that even before I came to realize it conciously. Finding the reasons behind that part of who I am wasn't too hard to do or too hard to take. Wanting to wear diapers was a totally different thing, and I still don't know why I love them, I just do and it's OK. This story happened many years before I got online and learned about myself. I was still trying to be someone I wasn't back then and I was drinking heavily to avoid having to face the real me eye-to-eye. I was thinking to myself "Diapers? Oh, come on now, you've got to be kidding! After all the hell I went through to stop wetting my bed and stop wetting my pants wanting to start that again is absolutely crazy! Uh, well I want to anyway and I can't seem to stop wanting it, so now what?" It was a big question with no good answer. I had tried home-made diapers from towels, but now I wanted Pampers just like babies wore with the white plastic backing. I couldn't see myself buying a pack of Depends and anyway the picture on the package didn't look like a diaper to me. The baby Pampers I remember aren't like that at all. I want a Pampers so if I can't get it then I'll make one myself. It wouldn't raise eyebrows if I bought baby diapers and maybe I could put them together with tape. Yeah, that ought to work! That thought lay in the back on my mind for months and wouldn't go away either. I finally got up the courage(assisted by a good amount of distilled alcohol)to go out and buy a bag diapers from a convienence store late one Saturday night. I was too nervous to look at the package as the clerk watched me pick them up, I had to look like I knew what I needed. I was shocked at the price but if I said "No" it wouldn't wash with the clerk. If "baby" needs diapers then you have to get them, there is no other alternative. I paid the price asked. I didn't get a shopping bag so I went out the door carrying a bag of baby diapers hoping I didn't run into someone I knew. I made it to the car safely again, whew! Now I need some waterproof tape. I want white to make the diaper look good. Cloth medical adhesive tape should work, so off to another store for that. At least I can't be enbarrassed if I'm seen with that. Another ripoff price from another convienence store vbut now I'm home and I'm going to soon be wearing a real diaper. Yippee! I eagerly tore the package open the stood there stunned. What the hell were these? Cloth backed with a baby print and hourglass shaped? There aren't like the plastic covered Pampers I wanted! Damn me, why didn't I pay more attention? It's to late to do anything about it so just go and sit down with the whiskey for awhile. A few good belts later I need to pee. I should be diapered by now but I'm not. Actually I'm pretty depressed over that. I start down the hall to the bathroom and stop. This isn't right. I promised myself that I would be peeing in a diaper, not the toilet. I turned back and went to the kitchen table where I left the diapers. Dropping my pants and briefs I stuffed a diaper between my legs, then pulled my clothes back on, smiling. I felt a trickle, then a gusher. I could feel the diaper getting heavier then I felt pee running down my legs as my pants became soaked. I tried to stop peeing but I couldn't. Afterwards I felt even worse than before. I'd wasted a diaper and soaked my pants too. I was almost crying from the frustration as I took it all off. I realized that I had peed far more than a baby would so I shouldn't have expected a single diaper to hold it all. Because of all the alcohol I'd had I knew another pee was coming soon so I decided to make the best diaper I could and do it again. By a bit of fitting I found that I could tape three diapers together like a "T" and they'd fit. The tapes kept popping off so I added some adhesive tape to hold them. Satisfied that I'd done well and feeling my bladder half full I sat down to watch TV wearing my shirt with it's still wet tail and a diaper and nothing more. Halfway between commercials I felt a pee coming. I smiled as I let it go...and go...and go! I was in such a state of bliss that it was at least a minute later when I realized that the chair cushion was soaked underneath me. I checked both sides as I sat there and both were soaked. Well maybe I could turn it over! I got up and as I did my taping job fell apart. Tha diaper hit the beige carpet with a splat. Disgusted, I grabbed it and and threw it in the trash. I checked the chair cushoin and it was soaked through, just like the fabric underneath it. By now I was pretty drunk so I stood the cushion up on end to dry and went to bed. I knew that I'd probably wet the bed tonight as drunk as I was, and that I should put a couple towels down loke I usually did when I was this drunk but I didn't. In no time I was fast asleep. Sometime during the night I dreamed of being asleep in a diaper and saw the Pampers I was wearing grow a bit yellow as I peed as if I was standing in my bedroom door watching myself sleep. I thought that a bit strange watching myself like that, but seeing my Pampers doing it's job made everything seem OK. My head was throbbing, my throat was sore and I was cold when I woke up in a soaked bed. I silently cursed myself as I staggered to the bathroom. Somewhere about mid-pee I remembered the diapers on the kitchen table, the night before, the wet chair and everything else. I got mad about the wet chair and my wet bed. I took off my wet clothes and put on a dry pair of briefs, then went to make coffee. On the way through the living room I saw the stained cushoin, still wet. As I sat disgusted at the kitchen table waiting for the coffee to finish I felt like a loser. I'd let myself get drunk. I'd spent almost all my money on diapers that I couldn't use. I'd peed in my chair, right in the living room where everyone could see it and smell it. And my bed was soaked so badly that it would still be wet tonight. Disgusted at me for failing to keep control of myself. I was nearly broke and payday was still a long away off. I'd make it but there would be no money for anything but the essentials now. And all I had to show for it was this bag of diapers. The coffee was ready so I got a cup and thought it over. It would be a shame to waste the diapers that were left. I had managed to make one that fit me and all I'd need to do is tape it better this time. I played with the diapers folding the edges and turning them round until I was satisfied that I could make a diaper that fit and wouldn't leak or fall apart. I taped one together and held it up. I pulled on it to see if the tape was holding and it was. Now all there was to do is to test-drive it! I felt proud of my work but I didn't want to wear a diaper right now. Most of the roll of tape was used up so I didn't want to make another one until I had tried this one. I sat there wondering what to do and what it all meant. It was Sunday morning and a friend who lived close by would always come over then, so I took all of the 'evidence' back to my bedroom and stuffed it under my bed. I pulled the blanket over my bed to hide the wetness and headed back to the living room to see what I could do for the wet chair cushion. I managed to get some of the cover dry with a hair dryer but it left a stain so I pulled the foam out and rinsed the cover. I hung it to dry from the faucet in the bathroom with the curtain pulled to hide it. I squeezed a bit of pee from the foam but it stayed wet and smelly. If I put it outside today it would dry in the sun so I put on my bathrobe and took it out, placing it on a small table behind my shed. The morning was crisp and cool but the day would get hot soon enough. I'd dry the cover later on in the same way. I went back in and decided to toss some dirty clothes in the chair to hide it's wetted and cushionless condition. Being known as a bit of a slob has advantages sometimes! I remembered the diaper in the trash can so I looked and there it was on top for all to see. I poked it down deeper and put some more trash on top of it. It didn't smell so that would do for now and I'd take the trash out later as I always did. Now the only way anyone would know what I'd done was if they had seen my buying diapers and I was certain that they hadn't. Finally I felt relaxed, the coffee having shaken the hangover off and my secret life safely hidden. The only repercussion would be sleeping in my wet bed and I'd just sleep on the sofa tonight. There was a knock at the door and I greeted my friend as if everything was normal. Somewhere off in the distance there seemed to be someone screaming at me, a tiny voice that was telling me that normal was over forever now and that I couldn't go back. I wanted to ignore the voice but somehow I knew it was true. I shuddered as I closed the door and felt a dribble of pee escape, wetting my last clean pair of underwear until I did laundry that afternoon. Smiling I asked "Coffee?" as I peed a little more on purpose. Now I felt good again and I knew that somehow everything was going to be OK. PS: This is my first story here and I hope you like it. It's based loosely on my own experiences. The setting was the mid 90's during the summer in the deep south where traditions such as closed-mindedness run deep, and where the only thing worse than looking different than everyone else is being different than everyone else. I was and I am amd I'm still here in the deep south. That is about all that's left in my life to connect me to this story

Underwhere, I have to agree with those who say that you're often a big part of the cause of your own problems. I was a lot like that myself until I learned about the way I did it in therapy I'm facing a very high chance of dying from colon cancer, one of the worst ways to check out from this lifetime. My back is deteriorating so rapidly that at best I will become disabled before retirement age. I am in debt way past my ears. Some days the pain is exquisite indeed. But some days are good. I might get my debts paid off before I lose the ability to work. My back might not fail as fast as they seem to think it will. I might not get colon cancer. I'm not overjoyed with my life but I'm happy overall because I refuse to let the negatives drag me down. I hate how it feels when that happens and if I let it, it will happen So I don't let it. That's the attitude you need to seek and embrace. I've come to the conclusion that whatever purpose I was put on earth to do has probably already happened. Yet you have a purpose, you said so yourself. Stand yourself up as the educator and advocate for your medical condition. Just because people like you are rare doesn't mean that they don't deserve a spokesperson, an advocate, someone who can and will make sure they aren't 'swept under the rug'. Use that purpose as a positive in your life and cling to it. Decide that you are going to do whatever you can to help others like you and do it. None of us here can do it because we don't know what it is like for you. From what you say, you do a pretty good job of that Believe that you are worthwhile because you are, I can see that much in your posts and replies here. Decide that you're going to keep on trying no matter how much or how many times you feel like you're not getting anywhere. And don't think that you've got a worse case of life than anyone else. At least you know where your next meal is coming from. At least you know you'll have a roof over your head next year. At least you can come here online for support and friendship. Maybe it doesn't seem like a lot to you right now, but at least half of the people alive today don't have even that much going for them and never will. The only thing I can promise you is that you will never begin to feel better about yourself until you make it happen. That won't bring you a 'nirvana' but it's got to be a better place than the dumps you feel like you're in now! We're really all on your side rooting for you here, even those who might seem critical of you. We all want you to be as happy as you can. But we need you to add your efforts so that it can happen because we can't do it alone. We can't do it for you. Will you try? Please? Bettypooh

One of my favorite real-life "games" is "Spot the Plain Clothes Security People" I present a rather androgynous and unusual appearance and people just don't know how to handle that. They are so intent on watching me simply because I'm different that they don't even see the person I'm watching a few feet away as they put something in their pocket or purse It's fun leading these kinds of clods on a 'merry chase' as I go from sporting goods to the ladies department to tools then to women's shoes Sometimes I add to my fun by making it a point to get around an isle before they do and almost bump into them, then head to an opposite gender department and do the same thing again where I just smile in their face as they turn red realizing I've gotten the better of them I once had two guys and a woman in tow for a half hour at a Walmart looking at the most eclectic selection of things I could think of I was going to buy the blouse I obviously had over my arm but when I got to the front I saw the two guys flanking me with the woman behind me, all trying to appear non-chalant. I noticed the store manager ahead by his nametag so I went straight to him, handed him the blouse and loudly told him I wasn't going to be buying here today since he couldn't seem to keep his three security goons from harassing me in his store The looks on the dozen or so faces that heard made it all worthwhile as I held my head high and walked out the door. I didn't look back as I heard the manager say "Come here!" rather gruffly to his 'professional' security staff behind me. The 'goons' haven't been there since and the manager always looks a bit worried when he sees me there now People of lesser intelligence who think they are smart can be a lot of fun when you use them the right way I know how to play their game but they're not expecting mine and they always lose when they try to play it Bettypooh

Just in case you're misunderstood, in England "Cider" is an alcoholic beverage while in the US "Cider" is more like a juice with little or no alcohol in it. Over here the fermented version is called "Hard Cider" and can be hard to find but really warms the tummy on a cold winter's day Bettypooh

Polls are a good way to get input, but if you can only choose one thing from a list you're going to miss as much as you gain For instance nobody so far checked "Reviews" but that's how I got here. This site has the best diaper reviews section I've found and it saved me a lot of disappointing mistakes. According to this poll it may seem worthless, but is it really? Ditto on the ABDL items. I like diapers and plastic/rubber panties together equally. Cloth diapers require a cover if you actually use them as intended but I had to choose one so I picked diapers(of course!). I like some babyish outfits but I don't have any yet. For diapers my fave was easy(cloth)but plain white disposables are a close second. I don't care if there is a wetnes indicator or a babyish print but some people will. I do like the polls but I don't like having to choose only one of anything. I like to keep my mind and my options as open as I can in everything Bettypooh