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Many have tried. Many have stopped posting after the first week or so. We don’t know what happened to them. I think a lot of people struggle with pushing past the barrier you get where the novelty wears off and the inconvenience sets in (like day 3). Good luck and I look forward to reading your posts.

I’m just coming to the end of a four day stretch (24/4) that became possible through a couple of days off and other family members travel. Tena slip maxi under plastic pants during the day (for discretion and convenience) and pinned terry nappies (for comfort and absorbency) during evenings and night. It’s been literally years since I last had a chance to do this. As usual, after the first night I was a bit ho-hum about changing into another nappy but I did it anyway. Whilst I wouldn’t have described myself as ‘excited’, there was no nappy change where I elected NOT to re-diaper myself and the bathroom remained out of bounds. It’s that strange comfort thing. With years of nappy experience under my belt (ha ha), I have absolutely no problem in using them. In fact, I don’t pee normally in nappies. I am able to relax to the point where I am kind of dribbling near permanently. Everytime I think of it (and after a couple of days, when I don’t think of it) I’d be weeing just a tiny amount. My bladder is permanently empty and I haven’t had the sensation of needing to pee ever. Used in this fashion, a Tena maxi will last all day and it’s the weight and sagging that end up triggering a change rather than a leak. It’s Monday morning here and I’m sitting in my wet night nappy a shade glum as I know when I eventually peel it off to shower, it will not be replaced and my days are back to normal. I’m not telling you that I’m incontinent after only 4 days but I’m going to have to keep in mind today that I’m not ‘attired’ as my brain does get used to not thinking about that so much fairly quickly these days.

Have you tried sleeping in a full diaper? This is something I get to do incredibly rarely as it would push the tolerance of my long-suffering partner just too far. A tightly pinned nappy and securely fitted plastic pants are a MUST for that exercise. Pyjama pants over the top provide an extra insurance policy. Generally, I’ll go to bed, wet myself and then “do the deed

My partner (female) had major problems wetting her nappies in any position other than standing with her legs slightly apart. She couldn’t even do it sitting down. Many years and much practice later, she can sometimes wet herself lying on her back in bed and she can wet her pants sitting down. If only she’d do it more often! I’ve never had the slightest problem wetting in any position with the possible exception of one: riding my motorbike. I once ducked out for what I thought was a quick errand on the bike whilst in a terry nappy and plastic pants (fairly thick) under jeans. The errand took a lot longer than I’d planned and I always seem to have trouble with urinary urgency when I’m in a nappy – it’s like my brain knows and complains about having to hold on. I’d just relaxed whilst riding along but nothing happened except painful urges to pee and dry nappies (well, at least they were no wetter). I think the combination of the bike seat and the thick nappy had crimped something down there. I ended up hanging on until I got off the bike as it was too painful/distracting to be stuck on the point of peeing with nothing happening and you don't need distraction on a motorbike. That’s the only time I can recall that I found myself unable to ’go’ in my nappy.

Happy memories from many years ago. My partner straddling me on my lap as we sat outside on an old chair – both of us fully clothed. As we embraced and kissed deeply, I felt a first cool flush at the crotch of my jeans, breaking off the kiss she gazed into my eyes and I felt my lap grow warm beneath her. Returning the favour, I relaxed. Resuming our kiss, my own pee joined hers in my pants. As we embraced tightly, our damp urine patch crept back up from our crotches to our lower bellies and raced down our legs and I could hear our pee hissing in our wet jeans. “I’ve wet my socks too

My absolute favourite is to dirty my nappies whilst laying tucked up in bed before going to sleep at night. Although I’d describe myself as a DL, there must be a bit of AB floating around with that. There’s just something so deliciously wrong about dreamily pooing myself wearing a thick cloth diaper and plastic pants under flannel pyjamas beneath the covers and then drifting off to sleep in it. I’d have already wet myself – usually before even getting into bed but I find sleeping “dirty

I'd like to see her do Mike Oldfield's "Tubular Bells"

It’s probably no bad thing you went to your Dr – my own well-worn medication regime of “ignoring it until it goes away

Have you looked at the Graham Linehan's earlier series "Father Ted"? It's not as dark and as edgy but it's still pretty damn funny. Unfortunately, the untimely death of Dermot Morgan (the lead actor) has shut the door on any further series of Father Ted. Shepherd's pie however is a more renewable resource, based as it is upon cows and potatoes.

Try metamucil? It's not really a laxative but rather a bulking/softening agent that has some positive side-effects (can lower cholesterol and offset some bowel cancer risks). You need to drink plenty of water with it as it works by water absorption. Another benefit I've noticed as that it can make clean-up easier. It kind of bonds everything into homogenous lump that will peel off a nappy relatively neatly (probably TMI for YOU this time). You don't need to dive straight into a full nappy after it, you can just try it and check out the results first. By the sounds of things, it might take a couple of daily doses before you notice "outcomes".

As Wetman has said, use a nappy/diaper liner. Use a couple if you need to cover more real estate. You won't notice them there and they will make clean-up much easier. If you prefer to go natural, a hand-held shower head can help a lot in rinsing off whatever won't shake off into the toilet and let the washing machine deal with the rest. This also kind of pre-rinses a lot of pee out of the nappy which makes the subsequent washing machine cycle more effective. A hand-held shower head is pretty useful for cleaning YOU also in dirty-nappy play. Another trick is to use a flat baby's nappy as a liner. They're cheap, readily available and serve to increase the absorbency of your nappy. They're also small enough (and dispensable enough) to be dropped into a bleach solution more easily than a whole adult nappy. Assuming you've had some kind of liner in place, they wash just fine conventionally. Drying them in the sun helps kill bacteria. Don't bleach or sun-dry plastic pants though. They don't like the chemicals or the UV.

About a month ago, I radically cut my discretionary sugar intake. I started to lose weight straight away (although my cheese & red-wine intake remained unabated). I also noticed that my taste buds re-aligned themselves. Somebody forced a chocolate of some description on me the other day and insisted that I try it. Not wanting to offend, I did. I found it excruciatingly sweet. Still stuck on coke zero though - love the stuff.

My experience resembles many others. When I first started, it was hard to get a good night sleep in nappies. Now, in middle age with fading libido, a shrinking bladder and years of experience, a night in nappies is an invitation to a blissful sleep - far better than I can manage without them. Waking up needing to pee, remembering that I'm in nappies, a long, warm comfortable wee under the covers and straight back to sleep. Waking up and re-discovering that I'm in a warm, wet nappy. I wish I could do it all the time but my partner has limits. I wear towelling nappies and plastic pants. I've never found a disposable that was worth a damn in bed for me. I might as well just pee in bed for all they did. I'm a side-sleeper. oznl

I don't involuntarily wet the bed but when I get to wear nappies, I DO generally wet them in bed and sleep wet. 1. Do you lay on your back, sides or stomach when you sleep? I am almost invariably a side-sleeper. 2. Do you wake up when you have to pee and just pee in your diaper in whatever position you are laying in, or do you change your position so as to better wet your diaper without it leaking? My preference is to wake up (as little as possible) and wet myself in whatever position I happen to be in. That way, I can drift back off to sleep almost immediately. 3. If you bedwet and don't wake up when you have to go, do you leak or do you sleep in any special position that helps avoid diaper leaks? I don't sleep in any special position and I don't adopt any special position to use my nappy 4. What brand or type of diaper do you wear to help avoid leaking, especially if you sleep on your side? I wear terry towelling cloth nappies (diapers) pinned under gary plastic pants. The nappies are folded in the UK 'kite' style. These will very rarely, if at all leak. 5. Is there anything special you do with your night diapers to help prevent leaking, such as a special way you put them on or the use of plastic pants over disposable? I make sure that my plastic pants are big enough to cover ALL of the nappy. I use the 'high back' pants as a thick nappy can leave terry towelling exposed to the bedding at the small of my back (only a problem if I DO lay on my back) but smaller plastic pants can also expose wet nappy to the bedding at the leggings. Size matters. 6. Has anyone found a particular diaper or brand of diaper that works best for someone who sleeps on their side to minimize leaking? Cloth, cloth, cloth. I have NEVER found a disposable that has come even close to working for me as a side-sleeper. Even the so-called 'overnight' diapers. I once made the mistake of dreamily urinating in a Depends overnight. I may as well have just peed straight into my bed for all the good the diaper did. I don't wear diapers to bed very often, but sometimes when I do I do wet them a lot and sometimes they do leak a little. I often use booster pads inside, but even when my diaper isn't even close to capacity I leak a little around one of the legs. I do use disposables with elastic leg gatherers, often with plastic pants over them and when I wake up to pee, I don't flood my diaper but I usually let it out slowly so my diaper will have time to absorbe everything. It may be that laying on my back when I pee, the pee backs up due to my "nuts" damming up the crotch and causing the pee to work it's way down the sides instead of down the middle. All this is when I'm awake, mind you! What happens to those who wet in their sleep without waking up? Add that they may be sleeping on their sides and may pee all at once and not just slowly. How in the world do those people keep their beds dry without their diapers leaking at the sides or legs? Thats what I'm interested in hearing about from those of you who regularly sleep in diapers. Yes, my experience is that every disposable I've tried leaks either around my thights of just pools in my crotch and pours out one side into the bed. If I wear disposables during the day, they're not nearly so bad (I am upright). My preference when wetting myself is to just 'let go' and not have to worry about getting the bed wet. Having said that, when wearing at night, I will generally pee every time I wake so it's unlikely that my nappy is copping a full bladder load every time.

Yes. +1 on that. If I was any kind of genuine bedwetter (where laying down peeing is the situational norm) it would have to be terry nappies and plastic pants. The few times I've worn disposables to bed, they've either leaked or I've had lousy sleep because I've been worried about them leaking. I tend to sleep on my side. My terry nappies are soft, comfortable and my bed stays dry. I can also lay on my back and pee with my member facing up, down or wherever and enjoy the sensations without risk of leaking.

Wetting your nappy is practically mainstream. It’s clean, practically odour free and a snap to clean up. Let’s face it, even non ABDL would probably get a kick out of that comfortable sensation of creeping, heavy warmth from between their legs if they could get over their inhibitions enough to try it. But, if that’s all you’ve done in your diapers – you’re really just paddling in the shallow end of the pool. A dirty nappy is a darker and far more subtle pleasure. If you can put aside some strong childhood conditioning, the experience is subtly and richly sensual with powerful and primal psychology adding to the excitement for those adventurous enough to try it. Like many things, its anticipation can be as good as the realisation. An hour or so, sitting around sipping a coffee with a warm, wet night nappy secure under my jeans – silent permission for me to “do it in my pants

I don’t think that religion owns the copyright on intolerance – people have done a pretty good job of hunting down and oppressing minorities with or without it from what I've seen. Still, it is especially galling when you see religion (supposedly some kind of moral authority) used as a justification for such appalling behaviour and for many religions, there has been an unfortunate track record of them “leading the charge