JDL23

I did a double-take at that line.

I was born in the late Eighties, so I was wearing Huggies as a baby.

I find music is a great stimulant for when I need to start writing. Something with good rhythm gets my creative juices flowing. Also, sometimes my ideas aren't strong enough for an actual story, but only trying to write them out will tell me if I've got something solid. And sometimes when I'm in the middle of writing an idea, I get more ideas in the process on where I can build on the plot or develop character.

There's also the chance of seeing a package full of diapers in her roommate's closet, bathroom cabinet, or shopping bag. It might start with an innocent search for some item they'd have in common, or a glimpse of the diapers when the one roommate didn't think the other was looking.

Maybe they're not homosexual so much as bisexual, though? I mean, I don't know that they're ignoring women just because there aren't as many of them in the community. More like finding relationships with the guys who are actually there instead of the girls who aren't.

I use Pinterest and found out that it's possible to set up "secret boards" on there that no one can see through a public profile. I use one of those boards to store AB/DL images I find. There's not a lot on Pinterest except on a few people's boards, so I collect pics I find from Tumblr or other AB/DL sites.

That makes sense. Thanks!

I have a question for other users, regardless of orientation. As a straight male, I find I'm more physically and emotionally attracted to women than I am to men. There are some images of men I find attractive, but I notice that, as a Diaper Lover, I'm more interested in pictures of skinny or well-muscled guys in diapers and repulsed by any other pics of diapered men. When it comes to pictures of women in diapers, I tend not to have such high standards--skinny, svelte, overweight, doesn't matter, they're all lovely. My question is, would this kind of physical discrimination about pics of men in diapers have more to do with my specific fetish or is it reflective of my overall sexuality?

I like the story's buildup so far. I don't always believe in putting a character back into diapers right away. There were one or two parts so far where I noticed a word missing, but otherwise I think your writing's just fine. Keep up the good work!

My rules are that I wear only at night and that I don't wet my diaper unless I know I'm going to get rid of it the next morning. I try to wear the same diaper a few nights in a row (usually around the weekends) so I don't have to keep racing to the local pharmacy to buy more. I've occasionally broken some of my rules, like wearing during the day or messing in it, but the cleanup and disposal is usually too much of a hassle that I hardly ever do it again. My focus is on wearing for comfort and psychological reassurance, both of which I like to have when I go to bed.

For both your questions, the best thing in either case is to talk things over with your boyfriend in a calm and friendly tone. If you have trouble with him using a diaper around you, then express that concern and see if you and he need to set boundaries about his diaper wearing. If you think he might be dealing with some childhood trauma through his fetish, talk to him about it and share some childhood experiences of your own if it helps him open up. Communication is going to critical, especially if he feels so ashamed about his fetish. The fact that you're trying to understand him and ask questions among other Diaper Lovers is a sign you're headed in the right direction.

There's a link to it in the story list in my signature. It's right in between "Christmas with Claire" and "Neo-Nursery."

I'm not that big a Futurama fan, so I don't think I could do the show justice if I tried to write a fic about it. I'm a fan of shows like Doctor Who, My Little Pony, and Neon Genesis Evangelion, which is why I decided to write stories about them. I know enough about them to see how I can work diapers and ageplay into what might be the plot of a typical episode.

Obviously, bad grammar and spelling errors would make any story difficult. But specifically, for stories I read on this site, I can tell within the first few lines. A good story shouldn't spell out every single detail of the protagonist in the first five sentences. How a character looks, unless it's essential to the plot, should otherwise be left up to the audience's imagination. Also, I lose interest when the story moves along at an awkward pace or when there's no conflict. The stories I like--both to read and to write--will try to stretch things out, build up suspense or introduce character development. It shouldn't just be, "And then he was in diapers and loved it and she was his Mommy forever and ever!1!!" Our fantasies might work like that, but our stories aren't just daydreams. They're glimpses into someone else's life, even if that person is fictional or inspired by someone in real life.

My fetish is a private pleasure and no one else's business. Even so, I only really came to terms with it when I told my aunt about it a few years back. She's someone I absolutely trust and who can be counted on to keep a secret. When I told her and found acceptance, it helped me appreciate that my fetish was just a surprising but natural side of my personality. After that, we never really talked about it again and I was able to find more comfort in wearing diapers and talking to people here on DD and on other sites like Fetlife.

Recently, I've come to terms that I'm as much an AB as a DL. And last night, I started to think about what my AB side would look like, especially in a roleplay session. I've read about other members here, ABs and Sissies and such, and how they've got their own personas for when they're not grown-up. So I'd like to hear more about them. So here's my AB persona: His name is Ali. He's a toddler, about 3 or 4 years old. A precocious toddler, too. Able to speak coherently, though he's still a little kid who needs looking after. After a long struggle with potty training, his Mommy and Daddy let him stay in diapers, though he tries to use the toilet when he can and mostly wears his diapers at night. Ali is the kind of kid who likes cartoons and stuffed animals and imagining whole new worlds when he's playing with his toys. He's a good kid, even if he sometimes makes a mess when drinking juice or eating ice cream and cookies. Physically, picture Chuckie from Rugrats but with a diaper under his shorts.

Around age 12, I started fantasizing about diapers out of the blue. Then I decided to do a Web search and came across DPF and Sally Brown's homepage, and from then on, I was hooked.