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I guess the thought had been floating around in my head for a while but I finally really realized it when I was about 18 (almost 19) and I wanted to kiss my best friend (who is a girl).

I'll admit to reading radical and saying "ohhh no...I'm not that leftist..." lol. But judging from that definition I guess it suits me just fine. I don't believe in pushing sexuality on others and calling attention to myself (I can't see myself hanging a rainbow flag outside my home or something like that). But I do believe in equal treatment of people (not based on gender and/or sexual preference) and I do believe in gay marriage and all that (which really does go against the norms that were taught to me). Oh, yeah, and I guess I could be considered queer (or somewhat queer).

Britney in Diapers...that might just be the next thing Entertainment Tonight and Access Hollywood cooks up. I'm seriously sick of hearing the girl's name. I would go crazy if i were in her position hearing my name being said everywhere!

^^ ohh a diaper party...that should be interesting. lol. I'd like to meet andy, moogs, and Tabby...those are the people I can think of off the top of my head.

Hello from the warm tropical sunshine Welcome to DD don't lurk too much! See ya around the boards and chat

Hiya Knuxie Fawks from Chicagoland Pleased to meet you.

^^^ Hey paci showoffer...where is the next question? lol. Just teasing ya fox.

Woohoo welcome to Miami! Well...Miami Beach to be exact. That is the South Beach you speak of is it not? lol. Just warning ya though...parking spaces are extremely limited over there. Oh, and South Point beach is much nicer than the one in the art deco district. Hope you like it here.

^ is the fox who eats the chickens in the coop next to my barn

^ does super fast typing on a computer count? lol...In actuality I like soccer, hockey, and baseball best. Though I was a great kickball player on the school playground! < shivering from the cold cause I got wet in the rain...always am forgetting an umbrella. v What's the most meaningful piece of music to you?

^ my curiousity got the best of me when i took a sip from my baby brother's bottle once upon a time. Gawd it tasted nasty! < watching a movie v so, whats the best reason to watch the super bowl? the actual game? the commercials? the hot wings?

^ is the good reverend at Julia's church

^ I sat through one session of aikido and I ended up with bruises, a half injured arm and muscles I didn't even know I had hurting...lol. Needless to say it was my first and last class. Who knew there was an art to falling V Have you ever had to learn all the capitals of the world?

^ swears that he is michaelangelo and painted the ceiling of the sistine chapel

^ Yeah, the swings at the park...they remind me of the simpler times. < folding clothes v Do you have a favorite college football team?

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hiya madison...welcome to DD. Hope you find what you're looking for here. Lots of friendly people around. Enjoy yourself. See ya around

Happy birthday Jennie...I hope its a great one!

*gasps* it is THE Tabby's birthday today?!!!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY babyboy. I hope its a great one and that you enjoy yourself lots. Hugs n Kissies from Justy!

omg wow! that took me back in time. I remember watching it way back when. Damn I feel old!

Everyone has their reasons for being in a diaper. Whether someone finds that arousing or not is up to them. Tris, it kind of comes across as if you are brushing off the fact that there are those amongst us who are in fact using the diapers as a coping mechanism. Do you believe that you have to be totally unable to function and be in a mental institution to have coping mechanisms? Because I know people who have never had physical/sexual trama and they have coping mechanisms. It is a human response. I bet you have coping mechanisms for certain things...just as I do. I know I talk too much when I get nervous, or I shy away from confrontation, and I sometimes avoid certain situations because they make me uncomfortable. All of these are coping mechanisms. Diapers are just one of the many in the world. The wonderful thing about a forum like this is that we can all express our views in a safe environment. But we must do so with care, respect, and consideration. Diapers can be a very powerful symbol for some people, and dismissing it or belittling it as an object solely for masturbation and/or arousal is something akin to calling it a dildo. Something Tabby said really caught my attention. "Abuse as a child (regression can be caused by this). Therefore when a person is in 'baby-space' they do not want adult things in that space. Sexual activities in that space can be the equivalent of molestation in their eyes." When an AB is in AB mode...they are not the adults that their bodies seem to indicate. Touching and sexually stimulating an AB when in that frame of mind might be seen as inappropriate to many people. And to some might even be the cause for further trauma. These are just my thoughts on this topic. Lots of it is from observation and interaction. Its not fair to say that the majority of people use the diaper for masturbation...I think there are quite a few who are hesitant to do that. And some who clearly cannot see it that way.

^ likes wearing his straight jacket to fancy dinners and saying he's gonna eat people's liver with some fava beans and a nice chianti...

^ is the incarnation of Robespierre...he likes to guillotine people even in this lifetime!