I have been wearing girls goodnites for years. I have about a 34 waist and weigh 165.
While they don't really tolerate a super fast soaking, I've learned to wet slowly, which is fun for me. I also luv that they conceal well, are quiet and very snug.
I can't order online - I'm in the closet about this - but if I want a more accommodating diaper, CVS or Walgreens has a women's small diaper that works better but is still snug and small enough to easily conceal.