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    Strange days indeed - a 24 x 7 experiment

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    On 10/26/2020 at 10:15 AM, BedWetMark said:

    I think you're spot on about the cessation of active complaints. In my experience they have lessened so far, but there is definitely an undertone that rumbles along.  Still, I can't really complain, I do feel like I am lucky in many ways.

    As for the "Australian tax", I had never realised it was that much more expensive for you guys. It makes a mockery of the programme over here where families compare their UK lifestyle to one in Oz.  Personally I still don't get why so many people make the move (my own friends included) when EVERYTHING can kill you and now you're telling me it is so much more expensive. I'll stay in Hampshire thank you ;)

    @oznl @BedWetMark Australia does have higher rents , minimum wages and penalty rates is my understanding.  Balance between price , what the price goes to is it corporate profits or peoples jobs / wages.

    Non-Incons - Peeing while walking? Self-challenge

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    On 9/4/2020 at 9:32 PM, DaveeBEd said:

    YEs you're right there its not so much doing it but being able to do so with no change to your facial expression which takes a while to learn

    I started being able to pee whilst walking within a couple of weeks of my journey to IC. Being able to poop whilst walking took a little longer

    @DaveeBEd how long did it take you to poop while walking? Is it more natural and easy to do now? how long did it take?

    Conflicted Abdl, Could Use Advice

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    On 9/15/2019 at 3:34 PM, spark said:

    For me- it took a combination of things.  One was the fact that I got a gut check in March 2010 that nearly knocked me to my core.   If I didn't have friends and family that I had, I wouldn't have overcame the hit that I took in my personal and professional life (mainly my professional life).    I was working to come to grips with what happened, and still beating myself for my desire to wear diapers and little tendencies.

    This board helped me, especially with the perspective from some of the long-term members like Rusty and Angela, who we people I handled this in a way I could related and understand.  

    In reality there are two posters who specifically helped me come to understanding of my tendencies.  The first is Bettypooh.   She shared that she had emotional need for diapers, which was medically equivalent to a physically need for diapers.  I accepted that, and it took away my guilt for wearing a diaper.  I don't feel 'dirty' or 'bad' when I wear diaper, like I'm doing something wrong.  I need it because it makes me feel comfortable and allows me to be me.  It also did something else.  Before, whenever I would be padded I felt the need I felt the need to be totally authentic and using the toilet was a 'bad' thing.  Like I letting down my AB brethren.  Think about this- I felt like I was being 'bad' when I wore a diaper, and I felt 'bad' when I used the toilet.

    And then there was Rosalie's initial draft of her 1st book.   I read it one night, and it was like Charlie Brown when Lucy says, "Maybe you have pantophobia, fear of everything," and Charlie Brown goes "That's it!"   I read her description of her husband and said, "That's me!"   It's not 100% me, because Michael is a little girl and I'm a little boy.   I wrote my case study, and sent it to her, and my case study in her final draft.   If you read, and know my posts, you'll know which one is mine.   Writing that case study was cathartic, and immediately set me free.   AFIK, that's the first time I heard the term 'little'.    I didn't have to define myself as an AB, nor a DL, because neither one really fit.  I'm a sweet little boy who doesn't master the toileting- doesn't mind it, and sometimes just needs a hug and life to slow down.

    I have never shared this part of my life with anybody outside of this world, but if somebody who knows me in real life and understood this- would say "I knew that all along."

    great post

    A permanent baby?

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    @oznl @rosalie.bent interesting and detailed perspectives.  It's hard to know if the stories are true or an urban legend for 24/7 full time “Fulltime, Permanent Adult Infant” (FPAI).  I suspect the banality and boredom would be the thing to make the difference.  It is an interesting perspective on what we put "old" people through though.

    A permanent baby?

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    2 hours ago, rosalie.bent said:

    I dont think anyone would ever actively SEEK this kind of permanency as a baby. IN fact, I dont know if it is ever truly possible to choose it. The book we just published was about someone who actually had this happen to them when their partner regressed permanently to infancy. The point is that this DOES happen albeit it incredibly rare. 

    I certainly wouldn't want it and nor would my baby. But a lot of people can imagine what it would be like to be a baby for an extended period and wonder what hat would be like.  There are plenty of ABs that have been complete infants for many days at a time.

    Amazed that there are some living like this and while agree with others above that it's selfish 110% if AB is part of your make up I can easily see how it could become permanent.

    Favorite Position To Go Poopy In Your Diaper?

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    I'm kinda similar with the breakfast time thing.

    My two favourite places are firstly when I'm left all night in my cot (crib) and wake up early before the grown ups get me out, lying on my back waiting to be let out and then that urgent morning BM happens and you surrender to the inevitability of it. Then I'm not changed into a clean nappy till after I've been fed breakfast in my highchair.

    Secondly I like to be left in my highchair long after I've been well fed, fidgeting, fidgeting, fidgeting, trying to delay the moment, until there's just no way to stop that belly full of milky baby bottles and mushy whole grains or oatmeal from forcing it's way past a hard pressed sphincter.

    Trapped in the highchair the mess spreads all about, and you get to feel every moment of it.

    Sounds brilliant !

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