I'm in my early 30s. My partner is in his 50s. We've known each other for about 10 years and have been together for the better part of 6. We absolutly love each other and are partners in every sense of the word.
However, he doesn't know about my interest in diapers and I don't know how to approach him about this.
I wouldn't call him vanilla, but he is a lot more vanilla than I am. We have done some light BDSM before and he likes seeing me in things like jockstraps, but that's the extent of any kinky things we have done together.
Ultimately, this isn't something that I need him to partake with me. I'm not interested in role play or him being a daddy. I just would like to occasonally wear diapers on my own time and don't want him to feel like he has to indulge wth me if he doesn't want to. I don't want to do anything behind his back or hurt his trust, but I also don't know if I can keep these desires a secret for much longer.
Any advice?