The first step to living with a Diaper lover is exactly what you are doing. It is very Nice to see someone able to accept us.
Here are some good questions you can ask and why.
1) How to they make Him feel? this one will help you find out if he is Comforted by diapers, aroused by them, or maybe both.
2) How often does he partisipate in this fetish? this will let you know if it will be a financal burden or an obsession. if its a 24/7 thing it could interfere with personal life, so be carefull.
3) Does he want you to wear? this is so you know how involved you will be in his fetish. Ask if he wants to chang you or you change him.
4) Does he wet or mess these diapers? wetting is simple enough to deal with, as long as you toss them quickly after. messing can be fun as well, but a bit of a mess to clean up. it all may sound a little gross, but its alot of fun. try to keep an open mind.
5) the last really good question is does he also have adult baby tendancies? alot of us have told people we like diapers to test the waters, even if we are full adult babies because adult babies are a bit harder to take than diapers alone. so he may be hiding a bit more of himself than you think.
There is alot to learn about us. we have nothing to do with real kids and a diaper fetish or adult baby side is nothing that can be dangerious. its can be alot of fun, relaxing, and a great way to pas the time. good luck, and have fun!