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I maded a cwayon dwawing while watching some shows on Sprout last night. =] It's of my Jackiewope character. I tried to make it look kiddy-ish, but I'm an actual artist, and no matter how hard I tried it's diffucult to "un-learn" how to draw, hehe. I hope you guys like it, though! If I make more I'll post them here later.

Just got my bloodwork results from my last doctors visit. It says I am a health 30-something woman.

Your wrong!!! We NEVER said anything about any of those diapers you must be talking about the absorbency of the Secure XPlus.. we where talking about the absorbency of the Secure Plus witch is as the same if not even worst then Depend..NO swell at all just leaks!!!!!! I don't need the absorbency of any of those diapers the ABU diapers hold a good 2 or 3 wettings and that's fine for me who wants to sit in a wet diaper all day? not me after like 2 wettings I get changed

*Huggles Da Mooogs*...hang in there, friend....my favorite author wrote something once: "Pain is Life. Only the dead feel no pain". Sounds about right to me. Life sucks. Even the easiest of things seems to be a major hassle. I'm not gonna go into "my sob story" because that probably wouldn't be helpful to you. All I can think of to say, is that we have to keep going no matter what ("stiff upper lip" as the British would say). Someone else (can't remember who) once said "We are all trapped in solitary confinement inside our own skins" or something to that effect. That also sounds right to me. But you are NOT alone in life, and you are certainly not alone in having "less than happy & positive" thoughts and feelings. As far as that goes, you've got a lot of company , especially in here amoungst all of us. So, go ahead and feel shitty. There's nothing wrong with that! And, all things considered, your feelings are completely understandable.....and justified. The trick is to not let these bad things overwhelm / control us. That's the hard part. Last but not least, consider the immortal words of William Shakespeare..."Tis better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all". At least you and Foxy had your time together......better than a lot of us have ever had. *Super-Huggles!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!* I don't know if my words are considered soothing or aggravating, but obviously I'm hoping for the former. Please do your best to hang in there, Moogs!

I always called them damaged goods. I worked with a very cute Jamaican girl and would have made a move however two kids and two different dads put that fire out fast.

I would offer this. You say you may only occasionally wet while you sleep. That being the case there is no need for a highly absorbent brief or in this instance a bulky one. To read your post you may wet while asleep and if so it will just be the one time. Most any decent brief will contain a single or two wetting. I wear a Molicare Super daily and can easily hide it under normal day wear, but when wet it does tend to bulk up and exaggerate features if you catch my drift. So using a step down version from a maximum brand name would probably be best for you in this situation. I have found that when you wear larger clothes that just heightens the crinkle factor and makes you wear something over top for a "muffler". I think you would be fine with a day wear Abena, molicare classic, or even a tranquility slimline. Wear standard underwear over it. Before the flight lands whether wet or not, simply go to the washroom, discard in the bin. You now have a standard wear under your clothes and go about your day! For a simple safety measure, put a handfull full of Butterscotch or whatever cellophane wrapped candy in your front pocket. As the plane is about to depart offer them to either side of you. If any noise is heard the person will equate that to the candy in your pocket. So diaper up, get some sleep.

Some people would sneak around wearing regular underpants hoping not to be caught by their mom, girlfriend or co-workers! "What are you wearing? Are those underpants? Why are you wearing underpants instead of diapers? How long have you been doing this? I just don't know where you get these perverted ideas! Your going for counseling and I want you to get rid of any more underpants you have in this house young man! I better never ever catch you again wearing anything but diapers, DO YOU HEAR ME?"

I am with you on this one KittenAB they actually have better absorbency than Secure Plus and any brand you will find in any store they fit better then bambino!!! and they have a great price. I am an A/B and I wear my diaper 24/7 and proud of it!!!

o.O Actually, it's great for need, the medical styles have a very strange fit and are rarely any better, especially for the price. Not to mention, again, the cute patterns make them actually look more pleasant, making you worry less is someone does spot them when wearing short skirts (I always do and am incontinent). As for his choice to wear 24/7 ... I'm glad he's at least that courageous, needing them is tough, the need itself isn't the toughest part, it's the morons who think it's "strange" or "wrong" for someone between 3 and 80 years of age to wear them for need or otherwise. This is a discussion of the pros and cons of this brand, not a discussion of judgment on someone for their choices. I pointed out that the recent shipment had the wrong plastic, which actually sounds more like a plastic bag than a diaper anyway, and that doesn't sound right no matter what. The plastic they normally use sounds just like a classic 80s style diaper, which isn't much noisier than any of the medical brand anyway though someone wearing them may notice the noise themselves more because they are thinking about it more, they are cute and unique. But the brand is a very good quality, they actually have better absorbency than Secure Plus which is only $20 less than the SDK's normal price. Single tapes fit better, as long as they are wide like ABU's diapers, and the cut is much better than the typical adult ones ... so ... essentially it's easy to see why anyone (even those who need them like me) would choose this brand over even some of the "medical" brands. Just because something is needed doesn't mean it has to look ugly. Walkers get paint jobs, people dress up their wheelchairs, glasses come in many colors, shapes and sizes, why not diapers?

I simply don't buy that. Their small Classicos were sold out at least half of the time. And, furthermore, if they were to cancel one of their two products that they had at the time, they should have kept the UNIQUE one, not the one that's like half-a-dozen other diapers out there (minus wetness indicator). But yeah. I'm pretty much done buying Bambinos until they decide that I'm worth selling to again. Sorry, Bambino. You just lost what was once a VERY dedicated customer since your very inception by telling her she wasn't worth your effort.

not much, most of our leaders have the emotional capacity and ability to take responsibility for their actions along the lines of an infant already.

Im free to attend so count me in. RSVP

Actually NOpe!.. It's a bit before your time, but the band A-Ha comes to my mind..the second pic, black teeth was scary..then again I'm funny about that. Oh BTW Google.."take on me" by the band. Then you will understand.. Phil Collins?? how do you even know who he was..

Nah, I don't see that happening. We'd have to get permission from Mommy and Daddy first.

I hope they don't start to actually regress Brandon

Hey look, it's shadow link!

dontcha love it when fantasy meets reality and how some people can not differentiate between the two.

-Sky

most of hte pot smokers i know have at least a bachelors degree, it not higher than that, make at least 50-60 k a year, and that is on the low end, own their own home, car, have low debt, etc.... maybe its just who you surround yourself with. funny most of my moron friends who drink all the time... don't smoke pot at all.... and the friends who smoke pot, don't drink much except maybe a glass of wine etc... it is impossible to categorize all pot smokers, just as it is impossible to categorize all ab/dl's .... so why people try i will never understand... at any rate... we allow people to drink alcohol, which by the way certain types are extremely easy to make, just ask any college kid who kept a container of apple cider under their bed for a month.... we allow people to have vicodin, percocet, ativan etc.... we allow people to grow mushrooms... but we dont let people have a toke now and then... awwwww hypocracy... oh well...

Well said sarah!

so why isn't alcohol illegal then? can you tell me of one instance when someone who was ONLY stoned on marijuana killed someone witha motor vehicle? every time pot is involved, so is alcohol or other drugs... prescription medication can cause much more disorientation than pot , and can also be considered controlled substances... besides the fact that i know lots of morons who drive when they are so tired, they may as well be drunk, but we don't put them in jail if they drive, fall asleep and cause injury we say "ohhh gosh thats awful" and let them go home... so shouldn't sleep deprivation also be illegal then? pot is illegal because in the 1920's the govt' caught on that the use of hemp in paper and clothing products was going to kill the paper business in the usa, so made it illegal, and spread all this great propaganda about it... funny, we can readily accept that nazi propaganda was absurd, be so many people still believe that pot is this awful drug... yet have no problem taking vicodin, percocet, oxycotin etc......

I got the weekend off so I will be there.

I'll be there!

I'm sorry, but I don't know how I can make it any more simple and clear. I don't like adult-baby stuff. I don't partake in any of it, nor do I enjoy looking at it. Yet by your logic, I'm still an adult-baby. Am I not allowed to just like diapers? What does a diaper fetish have to do with babies? I don't like infantilism.

I am really sorry this is happening diaper baybe what ever happen in the end , counseling is a good idea even if it is not marriage counseling . you can go to a counselor just for you . do your kids know about the diapers and cross dressing ? could your wife or her mother be upset about something to do with the kids ? how long have you been out of the house ? if it's been a week or more i think it's time you went back . just stay out of her way . she is abuse you to force you to be homeless . And you can always come to daily diapers .

The only thing that now makes me feel more babyish than a poopy diaper is a poopy diaper with poopy leaks. Nothing more helpless than crawling on the floor with a soggy diaper totally leaking runny poop onto the floor and notbeing able to do anything about it. This only happens when my regression gets triggered, typically when I hear lullabies. I regress into a poopy baby for a few hours.

Well using a toilet is a direct violation of ABDL rule 1: NEVER USE THE POTTY. Like, what's the point of wearing if you don't use it to maximum capacity? And like I said be-fore, I have a towel permanently draped over the toilet at my apt. I haven't seen inside for a long time. I'm quite sure it's reaally moldy and orange. But hey what you don't see can't hurt. Anyway, yea what's the point of diapering up if you don't use it? I makre sure I get the most pee and mess I can possibly get into each diaper. Sometimes I shift the mess around to make room for more before I have to change myself. If you aren't dragging around 5 pounds of feces in your diaper by the end of the day, you failed. Load that sucker up with turds and hope it doesn't burst open. What do you call a defective diaper? Answer: A liquid mudslide.

Not really because I tend to take it up the rear from my bf using the unwiped poopy as lube

Uh, what makes it more disgusting is that "LovesDiapersnDick" is a guy, not a girl!

Those of you who choose to date and/or become involved with people who already have children are morons. Do you really think that because they have a real child that they're totally into baby? If they're anything close to being a good parent, the needs of their child will come first, and I can guarantee you that they're not going to want to perform double diaper duty just because one of you gets a hard on during the process. You know why your parents wanted you out of the house? Because children significantly hamper your ability to have a normal sexlife, let alone one like ours. Kids grow up, and kids are nosy, and sooner or later, they will find out what you're up to, and whether you tell 'em or not, they're gonna go talk about it to everyone that you'd rather they didn't tell -- including people who can and may further investigate on the welfare of the child. Fellas, do yourselves a favor and: STAY AWAY FROM WOMEN WITH CHILDREN -- If they're available to be dating, they've got enough problems already! Clearly she's not with the father -- okay, that's great -- But unless he's doing life in prison, he's not going to be entirely out of the picture, no matter what she may say. And if this is the case, again, I say walk away because clearly she has shitty taste in men. (Ugh, what's that say about YOU?) It also says she puts out on the first date. Again, a bad omen. Angela, our resident and de-facto consigliere has said many times that ABDLs should avoid schools, childcare centers, and places that cater specifically to children in order to avoid any potentially negative scenarios. I highly suggest you add to this advice that you avoid dates and mates that have children, despite your relationships with them, for much of the same reason. @OP: Not all of this is aimed directly at you; you're not the first, and you certainly won't be the last poster here to ask about how to broach the subject when the object of your affection already has children. I just think that it's unfair to all parties involved -- you're placing a cap on how far the two of you can explore this when she has a child. If you're looking for something serious and long-term, you're selling yourself short; just because she loves having a baby now, doesn't mean that she's going to enjoy babying you for any significant length of time once that child has surpassed the baby and toddler stages. Children grow, and their parents grow with them. There are plenty of fish in the sea; and even if you're on the verge of starving, it's okay to throw a few back no matter how big or shiny they may be.

I'm a Self Harmer and have been since growing up. It kinda sucked at school when you wouldn't be allowed out or to intereact with other kids. Also sucked being bullied cause you were different. Everybody at school knew I wore and with the info my bullys had it made my life a living hell. I still get picked on when I bump into my old school friends but I kinda ignore it. I have thought about ending my life but why let the bullys have the last laugh. I'm happy now as I have alot of friends even if that mean online friends, well its better than nothing. I still cut myself but haven't cut deep for about a few months. Well thats in the open now.

err same deal, lab or doctor office. This 24/7 thing..WTF... pffftttt Just stupid to down name a brand that is clearly NOT a medical garment and clearly NOT meant for true incontinence use... It's a FETISH garment. funny how you down name then cause some guy heard them as you walked by and blah blah blah.......nevermind. Quite a GF yo uhave there...putting up with her baby 24/7 err.

^ I am going to have to disagree highly on the absorbency fact. This has been discussed many times over and multiple people have said it through out this thread that the absorbency is no where near a Bambino, Secure, Molicare, Abena...this is well established already. Maybe the one tape thing appeals to certain people and some people like the design better but thats about all it is...it is truly a novelty diaper because it lacks the absorbency that Molicare, Abena, Bambino and Secure have. Which is why they charge so much because they realize people looking for a novelty diaper will pay that price.