Is It Wrong For Me To Email 20 Wemon When I Wear?

[moore_diapers]

so heres the downlow.

I feel kinda bad cause I just Emailed like 20 wemon around my area but my question is......

is it right for someone who needs diapers not just for fun but also cause of a weak bladder to have Emailed so many people in hopes to go out with them?

i'm not a pig... I think i'm just in a weard fun loveing mood that caused me to act instead of think. so tell me what should I do. or what would you do in this situation?

smiles

[Topguy]

apologize to the ones who bother to get back to you?

[tenderheart]

apologize to the ones who bother to get back to you?

I think that is a great philosophy

[rusty pins]

so heres the downlow.

I feel kinda bad cause I just Emailed like 20 wemon around my area but my question is......

is it right for someone who needs diapers not just for fun but also cause of a weak bladder to have Emailed so many people in hopes to go out with them?

i'm not a pig... I think i'm just in a weard fun loveing mood that caused me to act instead of think. so tell me what should I do. or what would you do in this situation?

smiles

Well, I don't know the answer because I don't know what wemon are. I know what women are and if that's what you mean, then I guess I would say it depends on the text of your emails. It seems that you are looking for a relationship with someone and if so the fact that you have to wear diapers (even if you enjoy wearing them) should not matter. Do you already know any of these women and are looking to see if they might want to go to dinner or a movie with you? If so, then a phone call or meeting in person to ask for a date is probably a much better way to go about it. On the other hand, are you e-mailing women from this or other diaper sites in your area for casual diaper play because you both have an interest in diapers? If so, I would say 3 things. Read their profiles first and make sure they are willing to do what you are looking for them to do with you. A lot of women who are AB's get hit up all the time to be someone's "mommy" or hit up for diaper sex when that is not at all what they are looking for. You both have to have common interests. The second thing is to start slow, get to know someone first casually and talk about common interest other than diapers. It's been said many times on many sites that you can't have a relationship based only on diaper interests. In other words, don't e-mail someone and blurt out, "Hey! You want to change my diapers?" Introduce yourself first and talk a little about yourself in basic terms, just as if you were talking with someone you meet in person at you office or a holiday party. Think of it as a job interview and you are the potential employee and the woman is the employer. You have to impress them enough to get hired, so to speak. The third thing is it can't be all one sided. If you are looking for someone to change you or play mommy to you, you also have to be willing to switch and do for the woman what she would like, even though that may not be what you want to do.

Not to seem like I'm criticizing but it does make a better impression on someone when your message is spelled correctly. This site and some e-mails do not have spell check but it's a good idea to use cut and past and first check your spelling in a word processor and then paste your message in your e-mail (if there is no spell check) before sending it. Good luck to you!

[tris]

I have a question:

What exactly motivates you to send out that many emails to women? Do you only send that many when you are diapered? Is this a sort of exhibition for you?

I would be concerned if you only feel the 'need' to send emails to women when you're wearing a diaper. Like as was said before -- You can't base your relationship on diapers. I'm sure every single one of us would LOVE to have that kind of relationship with someone, but until we actually get 7 of 9 and her sisters, that won't be a possibility. Pray to Gene Roddenberry.

Until then, take your eyes off the prize: You want a great woman? Don't hunt for her. Just like heroes aren't born, great wives are MAID.

[Repaid1]

Well, I don't know the answer because I don't know what wemon are. I know what women are Not to seem like I'm criticizing but it does make a better impression on someone when your message is spelled correctly. This site and some e-mails do not have spell check but it's a good idea to use cut and past and first check your spelling in a word processor and then paste your message in your e-mail (if there is no spell check) before sending it. Good luck to you!

You beat me too it..but anyhow... I read this note wrong this morning and figured it out now. I say No there is nothing wrong with Emailing 20 women, only if you wish to meet someone. Like Rusty said only after that fact that you start to develope a relationship. You bring out the little secret before you break her heart. Then what Rusty Pins says Ditto! Besides, go meet a real girl not one on the internet, If your that Desperate then you can imagine that they are too!

What the heck did we do before the internet??? Think about it! Oh yeah real life.!

[Guest Baby Peter]

What the heck did we do before the internet??? Think about it! Oh yeah real life.!

play on my nintendo and sega *giggles*

@moore:

just be who you are.. its not that odd, thought might be wiser for the future to take it a person at the time *smiles*

hope you will get some replies though~!

*snuggles up with his blankey

[pctrasher]

Lol, we need some kind of online diaper matchmaking service just for us. The only problem(s) that I can see with it though is:

A. the service would have mostly guys signed up and VERY few women.

B. There might not be enough of us to really make it worthwhile.

But in my opinion, I don't think it's propper to mass-mail a bunch of women in your area to try and hook up with one. You are basically giving your first impression out as a pig. Try one at a time, get to know them though chat (ask them if they will be willing to talk about similar interests in online chat), and then move it to phone conversations and then follow up with a meeting, and there you go. Ofcorse you should choose exactly how you should start up a relationship, just don't come off as a jerk, I don't think women like that.

[tris]

pctrasher - www.diapermates.com also sponsored by DDi.

[attends_99]

pctrasher - www.diapermates.com also sponsored by DDi.

Yes diapermates indeed. and pctrasher it is like you said. the majority of the members are guys. I thought I had lucked out though found a woman who lived in the same state as I and looked really cute in her picture. Then I started chatting with her on Yahoo messenger, and found out she was in the same city! I thought i was in heaven!!! But then she starts asking me about money and credit cards. Turns out it was one of those Nigerian Scams. I am sure that the majority of the people on there are legit but you do have to be careful. Oh well, back to being lonely for me

[pctrasher]

Ah.. Competely forgot about them. lol. I've heard of them before but never found a use since I already have a woman of my own to love. So it seems as though all the good ideas are alread taken.

[Gennie]

Personally, I'm reminded of the guy who text messaged that poor teenaged girl in the US a few months ago, with pictures and the text 'I'm wearing a diaper, pass it on to your girl friends.' HE ended up in jail.

Unless you know these women very well, and have for years, and your e-mail specifically states in a humble way that you are doing this to let them know that you do this because you have an emotional need or something like that, then if any of these women actually know you and may have gone out with you in the past, you've probably just created 20 women who now want nothing to do with you.

As you said, 'in hopes of getting them to go out with you' is probably the last thing that's going to happen.

[Topguy]

I think this is one of the big problems on sites like this. Guys seem to only look at thier fetishes-and other people as fetish enablers.

Let's face it-women want more than that-like other things they can do with a guy-and an emotional bond that saitisfies thier needs. I've had men try and use me as wank fodder as well-or worse yet-want to get into something real life. It pissed me off. Not just because I happen to be straight-but that it was all about them.

You keep a crappy attitude like that-all about you is sure as hell going to stay that way-by yourself.

[tris]

^ Yeah, what they said!

But I wasn't about to attack him over it --maybe he sounds creepy all the time. :/ But I too got the visions of 'txt message perv' dancing in my head.

[phogendpf]

Its guys like you that make it hard for decent guys like me to find a nice diaper girl. They are too busy going through your "will u be my mommy" emails.

[b0xer21]

i'm not a pig... I think i'm just in a weard fun loveing mood that caused me to act instead of think. so tell me what should I do.

start thinking.

[Topguy]

Firstly women are not delicate little flowers that we have to protect from wankers.

Bu they do get annoyed and burned out if all they get are idiots in thier mail boxes that view them as some sort of a fantasy opportunity. But those guys seldom read these boards-they are too busy looking for porno.

[moore_diapers]

I see that some people got my meaning behind what I was saying.

for those of you who got it thank you to those of you who didnt all I was saying was that i'm lonely and that I sent that many Emails out in hopes that I would get atleast one response. and as for the perverted minds that think i'm going to go around sending pictures of myself to anyone who asks for them your mistaken.

and the person so said that this guy got arrested for sending pictures of him self through a text thats only half true. the media edited that little misshapp and they didnt tell you that he was also stalking the person and sending perverted texts to her aside from the picture but because he didnt use the same phone it was circimstantial.

to all i'd never degrade myself to being as perverted as what all your sick little minds thought up.

YOU GUYS THOUGHT IT NOT ME SO BLAME YOUR SELF FOR SUCH PERVERTED THOUGHTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

AS FOR THE REST OF YOU THANK YOU FOR ACTUALLY UNDERSTANDING.

smiles.

[moore_diapers]

it seems to me that I need to phrase myself better from time to time.

so......

1. I have a bladder problem thats why I wear diapers. nothing sexual.

2. I generally prefer men however I would love to have a child of my own.

3. out of the 20 wemon I Emailed I am now friends with 2 of them because of the Emails I sent.

4. I may be lonely but I have enough friends that I dont normally notice it.

5. what I say is what I mean. I dont beat around the bush if I want to ask someone out.

so those who were perverse in their comments from my last post, maby you should look at yourself and wonder why YOU thought perverted instead of me.

and my utmost thanks to those who understood what I was saying.

but I wish no one ill and I apologise If I have hurt any feelings from my previous post. I did not realize that people would take what I said in such a wrong fashon. I hope that all confuseion from that last post has been cleared up.

smiles.

[moore_diapers]

P.S.

6. I didnt mean that because I was wearing a diaper is the reason I Emailed those people. I was simply wearing a diaper (as usuial) and ended up going online and Emailing people.

smiles

[rusty pins]

Everyone probably would have understood better had your first post been a little longer, more complete and more detailed about yourself and why you were e-mailing 20 women. As it was, and I think if you look objectivly at what you wrote, it does sound like you were putting on a diaper and then randomly e-mailing women about how you wear diapers. I think that would cause many people to answer as they did. Your explination in this post clarifies some things. Good luck to you.

[Topguy]

What got you flamed was the emailing twenty women in one shot.

Spamming is the reason the women leave-or stop writing back. It's not a very good behavior-no matter what your reasons.

[Diapers4Me]

Not to mention that some of us cringe when we see blatant mis-spellings like wEmOn, just to mention one of a number of grating spelling issues in your post.

I know.....we aren't all high school graduates.....but I have to be honest too and perhaps help explain why some (wasn't me) might reply comically to WEMON. chuckles....(I think I can hear the accent in my head.....WEEEEMON) LOL

[diaperwearntigger]

I think I'm more annoyed at people who can't spell than those emails I get about being their mommy, some how they always seem to get deleted before reading them.

Word of advice from a married AB .... being lonely is only going to get you more lonely. When a guy tells me he is lonely that is when I run for the hills. No one wants to hear that you are lonely, nor do we want to see actions that scream this. Its a bad sign that not you're not only lonely, but horny as hell as well, which usually turns out to be someone that is a big pervert, which your actions of emailing 20 WOMAN shows.....

The only way you are going to find one half decent and not settle on the first one that says hi to you, is to be happy with yourself and also be happy being ALONE....until then, you most likely will be alone for a long time

[tenderheart]

to all i'd never degrade myself to being as perverted as what all your sick little minds thought up.

YOU GUYS THOUGHT IT NOT ME SO BLAME YOUR SELF FOR SUCH PERVERTED THOUGHTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

AS FOR THE REST OF YOU THANK YOU FOR ACTUALLY UNDERSTANDING.

I've found THE CAPS LOCK KEY IS NOT CRUISE CONTROL FOR COOL so please stop yelling .