looking for help to show my girlfrend what sissy/abdl dinamic look's like

[leking3001]

hello everyone,

Recently my fetish came up in a conversation and i told her that i like diaper and sometime i like to dress like a sissy. We are both well verse into the BDSM community and what I'm asking is some site,story or maybe a book, that i can show her to let her know what i feel and what i would like in the perfect world to be treated as. Everything i read it too hardcore or too much about sex and not enough about the power dynamic and the feeling of the submissive. i would like some recommendation that i could read and show to her if its something that i like. I'm sorry if i make too much mistake English is my second language.

thanks you

[~Brian~]

@leking3001

2 hours ago, leking3001 said:

hello everyone,

Recently my fetish came up in a conversation and i told her that i like diaper and sometime i like to dress like a sissy. We are both well verse into the BDSM community and what I'm asking is some site,story or maybe a book, that i can show her to let her know what i feel and what i would like in the perfect world to be treated as. Everything i read it too hardcore or too much about sex and not enough about the power dynamic and the feeling of the submissive. i would like some recommendation that i could read and show to her if its something that i like. I'm sorry if i make too much mistake English is my second language.

thanks you

You should probably look on Amazon:  I have a couple of books that I have read that helped me:  It helped me because it explains what a diaper fetish is, and why people like it.  I will have to pull the list of books that I have that explain that stuff they are:

"A Woman's Guide to Babying": Gwendoline Summers

"The Full time Permanent Adult Infant": Maggie Joyce

"Diaper Dominance and Discipline": Evelyn Hughes

"So Your Teenager is Wearing Diapers": Rosalie Bent (This one was one I read, trying to understand the fetish, and learned that there is NOTHING wrong with liking, wearing or using diapers, and it "clicked with me", and helped me to understand the feelings I've had since I was 8 years old, and the way that the author explains the "why" is very helpful in understanding the feelings that I still feel to this day)

Have your gf read a few of them, and she will see the connection:  who knows, you may be able to interest her in the fetish

All of the books I have listed are available via amazon, so they should be able to explain some of what you may be seeking

Brian 

Edited September 1, 2024 by ~Brian~
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[Little BabyDoll Christine]

Have here come here and read "Sissy Room". She can see for herself. If she will not do that then she is not interested

[le Hollandais]

17 hours ago, ~Brian~ said:

 

"So Your Teenager is Wearing Diapers": Rosalie Bent (This one was one I read, trying to understand the fetish, and learned that there is NOTHING wrong with liking, wearing or using diapers, and it "clicked with me", and helped me to understand the feelings I've had since I was 8 years old, and the way that the author explains the "why" is very helpful in understanding the feelings that I still feel to this day)

 

 

I might want to read that book myself.

[ValentinesStuff]

The problem with recommendations like this is that only you know what you want. I could find a bunch of sissy baby stories, all different and none what you want.

 

Things like how much control, how often, involving your adult life, how much sissy, what exactly do you mean by Sissy? There are so many questions. 

 

So if you can fill in some blanks, we can give better suggestions.

[bigbabygee]

lots of stories on this site search for ones that fit your circumstances wants that was how i introduced my wife to my nappy fetish and she started to explore herself sometimes its not always about oneself the partner needs something out of the relationship

[Little BabyDoll Christine]

On 9/2/2024 at 2:03 PM, ValentinesStuff said:

The problem with recommendations like this is that only you know what you want. I could find a bunch of sissy baby stories, all different and none what you want.

 

Things like how much control, how often, involving your adult life, how much sissy, what exactly do you mean by Sissy? There are so many questions. 

 

So if you can fill in some blanks, we can give better suggestions.

Absolutely right! That is why I recommended the Sissy Room. Books are read through the prism of the author, with what they thought is important. Forums contain the words and thoughts of those living the life, what you might call "ballet slippers on the ground". Somewhere in that would be access to the sissy sites which have more information and even some sissy lit although that would be more likely in Story and Art. As usual DD has a line on what you can use. You can pick out the sissy sites from the Knowledge Base in my siggy. When you and she have all that, you have the basis for discussions since you will be operating from the same data and premisies

So there is plenty of first-hand material right at home here