WE ALL HAVE OUR FETISHES

[Albert-1701]

We all have our fetishes. We all have our likes and dislikes. With some of you on this website it is wearing diapers as adults. With some of you it regressing in age and acting like a baby. There are those of you are male and like to act as a female or the other way around.

There ar those of you who have contacted me and expressed an interest in doing to me what my fetish is. My fetish is being given enemas. I am willing to take them for any reasons you may have to give them to me. They can be to punish me, humiliate me, for torture, or for any other reason you may have to give them to me. They can be as large as you want them to be, even to the point where it makes me cry and beg for them to stop. However, I do not expect that you will stop them just because I am crying or begging for them to stop. I don't want to be restrained in any way for these enemas. I promise you that I will  lay there and take it all. I will not try to stop you from doing it to me.

I do not care if you are a male or a female. I am a male. My true age is 76. However, you can treat me as if I was any much younger age. It can even be as if I was only a year or two old. If they are to punish me, they can be as large as you want them to be. Even to the point that it makes me have to throw up. If they are to humiliate me, you can do it in any way you wish. You can even call me nasty names while you do it to me. If they are to torture me, they can be given with retention nozzles so I cannot let it out until you tell me that I can. They can even be as hot as 115° F. This will hurt, but not cause any damage to my insides. Yes, I will cry and beg for it to stop. But as I said above, I do not expect them to stop. It can even be from groups of males, groups of females, or groups of both males and females.

I have only one requirement. The requirement is that you host me days only and either live in the Las Vegas Nevada USA area (Las Vegas, North Las Vegas, Henderson or Boulder City) or plan on visiting the Las Vegas Nevada USA area. I cannot host you. I cannot travel to you our of the area.

I look forward to any of you contacting me soon. Please contact me directly at the email address below.

Thank 😊 You,

me-1701@proton.me

Albert ---- or, you can even call me Alberta to humiliate me even more.

[willnotwill]

Yes, but not silly ones

Sorry, I couldn't resist.

[ValentinesStuff]

6 hours ago, willnotwill said:

Yes, but not silly ones

Sorry, I couldn't resist.

Now I want to see a Monty Python Ministry of Silly Fetishes sketch.

[Albert-1701]

What is so silly about a man who enjoys enemas? Do not knock my fetish and I will not knock your fetish. By the way, what are your fetishes Will Not Tell and Valentines Stuff? As I said, we all have our fetishes. Mine is enemas. I know many of you on this website enjoy wearing diapers. I have nothing against that. However, I just do not like to wear them. If you like to wear them, then where them. I will not say that it is in any way silly.

Albert

me-1701@proton.me

[rusty pins]

And don't forget those who are overly sensitive to comments meant to be light hearted with no malice intended. 

[ValentinesStuff]

@Albert-1701 I'm not saying your fetish is silly. It just struck me that seeing something like a cross between The Ministry of Silly Walks and Cheese Shop sketches would be quite funny. Receiving enemas would be one of the more normal ones in my opinion.

[willnotwill]

I wasn't commenting on your fetish in general, just that it started out with "We all have our fetishes..." 

 

[Spanky]

10 hours ago, Albert-1701 said:

What is so silly about a man who enjoys enemas? Do not knock my fetish and I will not knock your fetish. By the way, what are your fetishes Will Not Tell and Valentines Stuff? As I said, we all have our fetishes. Mine is enemas. I know many of you on this website enjoy wearing diapers. I have nothing against that. However, I just do not like to wear them. If you like to wear them, then where them. I will not say that it is in any way silly.

Albert

me-1701@proton.me

About as silly as a man who spends a lot of money on diapers so he can poop and pee his pants and then get his bare bottom paddled. 

Enjoy whatever you enjoy as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else. 

[spark]

On 5/8/2024 at 8:04 PM, ValentinesStuff said:

Now I want to see a Monty Python Ministry of Silly Fetishes sketch.

Everybody should watch that sketch: 

 I just love how deadpan John Cleese is throughout the sketch.

[TammyG]

On 5/9/2024 at 3:42 PM, Spanky said:

About as silly as a man who spends a lot of money on diapers so he can poop and pee his pants and then get his bare bottom paddled. 

Enjoy whatever you enjoy as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else. 

Exactly!

[Babypants]

Although "fetish" has crept into the dictionary, it is actually a Victorian acronym, short for "friends and enthusiasts of tiny insignificant shoes and hair."  It dates from an era when proper women wore blouses buttoned to the neck, and skirts that reached down to the top of the shoes.  This is where the expression "show 'em a bit of leg comes from."  Shoes are the original totem, because proper women also wore bonnets when out in public.

So, no, we don't all have fetishes.  I for one don't pay attention to a woman's footwear, and the only thing about her hair that matters is whether it's clean or dirty.  I have my enthusiasms and even the odd passion, but no fetishes.  If you'll pardon the pun, this term is much abused.    

[Albert-1701]

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3 hours ago, Babypants said:

Although "fetish" has crept into the dictionary, it is actually a Victorian acronym, short for "friends and enthusiasts of tiny insignificant shoes and hair."  It dates from an era when proper women wore blouses buttoned to the neck, and skirts that reached down to the top of the shoes.  This is where the expression "show 'em a bit of leg comes from."  Shoes are the original totem, because proper women also wore bonnets when out in public.

So, no, we don't all have fetishes.  I for one don't pay attention to a woman's footwear, and the only thing about her hair that matters is whether it's clean or dirty.  I have my enthusiasms and even the odd passion, but no fetishes.  If you'll pardon the pun, this term is much abused.    

Babypants,

Yes, the word "fetish" can mean a lot of things. However, we all use it for things that we like that others feel are different than the norm.

Albert

[diaprbayb]

This reminds me of GOLF

Gentleman

Only

Ladies

Forbidden 

[Albert-1701]

Yes, there are men only golf teams However, there ae also women only golf teams. I do not play golf. However, here in the community that I live in there are many who do play golf. They have men only teams as well as women only teams. There is also a mens and womens team who plays golf in my community.

 

Albert

[willnotwill]

11 hours ago, diaprbayb said:

This reminds me of GOLF

Gentleman

Only

Ladies

Forbidden 

Which of course is complete bunk.    I'll give you a simple truth:  acronyms didn't really exist before the 20th century.   Any attempt to ascribe an etymology to them like golf, posh, etc... is just bunk.   Etymologically, golf more likely derives from the Dutch, kolf which is the word for club and used for several striking the ball games there (though none really resembled the eventual Scottish game).

In fact, women have historically played golf.    Mary Queen of Scots brought golf to France.  

 

[spark]

22 hours ago, diaprbayb said:

This reminds me of GOLF

Gentleman

Only

Ladies

Forbidden 

That line might be 100 years out of date.  That is definitely not the case anymore

[ValentinesStuff]

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[jeremy12312]

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[Babypants]

On 5/29/2024 at 7:39 AM, willnotwill said:

hich of course is complete bunk.    I'll give you a simple truth:  acronyms didn't really exist before the 20th century.   Any attempt to ascribe an etymology to them like golf, posh, etc... is just bunk. 

Donning professorial robes here.  Will is quite right; this discussion takes us back to the latter stages of the Victorian era.  The word "fetish" as we understand it today was coined by Havelock Ellis in 1897.  It has been falling out of fashion since the 1980's, when the term "paraphilia" began to displace it.  So, this site is crawling (pardon the pun) with paraphilic infantiists.  

[spark]

On 5/30/2024 at 8:23 PM, Babypants said:

Donning professorial robes here.  Will is quite right; this discussion takes us back to the latter stages of the Victorian era.  The word "fetish" as we understand it today was coined by Havelock Ellis in 1897.  It has been falling out of fashion since the 1980's, when the term "paraphilia" began to displace it.  So, this site is crawling (pardon the pun) with paraphilic infantiists.  

Paraphilia is the medical term, but in informal conversation the term fetish is still used.  I've never heard somebody say "foot paraphilia" in an informal conversation.

I also don't think the term 'paraphiphilic infantilist' is accurate.    It definitely doesn't explain my situation.  I'm assexual, and don't have a strong sexual drive.  I do masterbate, but it's not the primary focus with me wearing diapers.     In my case, it's more of a desire to return to time I remember as stress-free  Paraphilia is defined as: involves intense, persistent, and recurring sexual interests, urges, fantasies, or behaviors that are considered abnormal or culturally non-sanctioned.  It's not intense, or persistent sexual interest, nor is abnormal.  Infantilism is defined a fantasy to return to infancy, which is also not the case.  It completely fails to describe any part of my experience.

A fetishist is a person who has a strong liking or need for a particular object or activity in order to experience sexual pleasure and excitement.  

I have a strong linking or need for diapers in order to experience pleasure and comfort.  7/8ths of the definition of fetishist is accurate, but the missing words are very important to the meaning.

[Babypants]

2 hours ago, spark said:

A fetishist is a person who has a strong liking or need for a particular object or activity in order to experience sexual pleasure and excitement.

This is where the rubber meets the road.  Since the days of Ellis and Freud, it has been accepted that the term "fetish" only applies to an individual who cannot achieve sexual pleasure in the absence of the totem.  This term does not appear applicable to either of us.  I wear and use diapers because I'm incontinent; I wasn't wearing them to bed on the occasions when my three children were conceived.

I suspect that many people think that they have a fetish only because they are ignorant of the clinical definition in play.  It might be useful in this context to explore the differences, if there are any in the popular mindset, between fetish and kink.   

[Albert-1701]

2 hours ago, spark said:

Paraphilia is the medical term, but in informal conversation the term fetish is still used.  I've never heard somebody say "foot paraphilia" in an informal conversation.

I also don't think the term 'paraphiphilic infantilist' is accurate.    It definitely doesn't explain my situation.  I'm assexual, and don't have a strong sexual drive.  I do masterbate, but it's not the primary focus with me wearing diapers.     In my case, it's more of a desire to return to time I remember as stress-free  Paraphilia is defined as: involves intense, persistent, and recurring sexual interests, urges, fantasies, or behaviors that are considered abnormal or culturally non-sanctioned.  It's not intense, or persistent sexual interest, nor is abnormal.  Infantilism is defined a fantasy to return to infancy, which is also not the case.  It completely fails to describe any part of my experience.

A fetishist is a person who has a strong liking or need for a particular object or activity in order to experience sexual pleasure and excitement.  

I have a strong linking or need for diapers in order to experience pleasure and comfort.  7/8ths of the definition of fetishist is accurate, but the missing words are very important to the meaning.

Babypants,

I agree not just 100%, but 1000% about what you said. We all call what we like a fetish. You like to wear diapers. I like to get enemas. as for diapers, if the Dom giving me the enemas also wants to put me in diapers, I will allow him or her to do that to me. However, he or she must supply them and be willing to change them and clean me up when they get soiled. Also, to clean me up after the diapers are removed from me. It is the enemas that I really want to have given to me. That is my fetish. <+++ Notice that I used the word fetish and not the word paraphiphilic .

Albert

me-1701@proton.me

[spark]

2 hours ago, Babypants said:

This is where the rubber meets the road.  Since the days of Ellis and Freud, it has been accepted that the term "fetish" only applies to an individual who cannot achieve sexual pleasure in the absence of the totem.  This term does not appear applicable to either of us.  I wear and use diapers because I'm incontinent; I wasn't wearing them to bed on the occasions when my three children were conceived.

I suspect that many people think that they have a fetish only because they are ignorant of the clinical definition in play.  It might be useful in this context to explore the differences, if there are any in the popular mindset, between fetish and kink.   

Assuming that you incontinence is not self-induced, I don't see how your desire to wear diapers can be considered a fetish.  It's more likely a coping mechanism for a physical issue.   Using sexual pleasure as requirement and that wasn't required to conceive your three children, by definition that can't be paraphilia or a fetish.

In my case, there is no physical issue.  I was once potty trained.  It took a while, but I eventually got there.   Once I got there, I remained potty trained for almost 45 years.  FTR, I don't think I am potty trained anymore.   I'm so used to wetting my diaper that I would have accident without one.  I might have a physical need to wear a diaper, but that's based on an emotional need

[Albert-1701]

18 hours ago, spark said:

Assuming that you incontinence is not self-induced, I don't see how your desire to wear diapers can be considered a fetish.  It's more likely a coping mechanism for a physical issue.   Using sexual pleasure as requirement and that wasn't required to conceive your three children, by definition that can't be paraphilia or a fetish.

First, it can be a fetish if you do wear diapers just because you want to wear them and do not really need to. I can understand it if you are incontinent and need to wear them for that reason.

If you are going to have sex, it is hard to wear a diaper and have sex. If you are male and have your penis in a diaper you cannot put it in a females vagina. If you are a female and you have sex, your vagina is not available for the male to put his penis itnto it.

In my case, there is no physical issue.  I was once potty trained.  It took a while, but I eventually got there.   Once I got there, I remained potty trained for almost 45 years.  FTR, I don't think I am potty trained anymore.   I'm so used to wetting my diaper that I would have accident without one.  I might have a physical need to wear a diaper, but that's based on an emotional need.

I can see where if you were potty trained as a baby, then started to wear diapers again after you became 45 years of age that you may get to a point where you must wear them again to keep from going in your pants. And that may last a long time if you continue to wear them for a long time.

With me I only wore them as an adult when I was 53 years of age and had an operation down there. I could not hold anything in for about 2½ to 3 weeks and had to wear diapers. Once it all healed and I stopped wearing diapers, all was then okay. Today I do not have a need for diapers and do not wear them.

My real thing is to get repeated enemas. If the Dom giving the enemas to me wants to put a diaper on me and have me let the enema out in the diaper, I will allow the Dom to put a diaper on me for that purpose. However, I will require that the Dom later remove the diaper and clean me up before I put my underpants and other clothes back on.

See my comments between the paragraphs of this quote. I have put them in bold to make them stand out.

Albert

me-1701@proton.me