Do your parents know?

[AngelBaby]

Have your parents discovered your little side?

Assuming they did, do they treat you differently now, and in which way?

Or did your parents discover your spouse is a little?

I would love to hear how that changes dynamics.

[PaddedWarriorPrince]

They might? I remember years ago my mom sitting me down and telling me about 'Private' browsing so my siblings didn't run into the stuff I was looking at. She didn't mention anything specific though, so whether she saw what it was or I was just at that age I don't know, and now it was over half my life ago so I don't know if she would remember what it was if she did. She asked me to give the same talk to my brother when the time came a few years later, so it is a pretty generic thing to say. As for dynamic changes, I would think most families would be in the 'as long as it's not hurting anyone keep it to yourself and your partners' camp. The age you would be around them the most you aren't going to have enough money to go full time realistically, but maybe nighttime, at which point maybe your sister gets bathroom priority and that's all you say about it.

Edited January 9, 2023 by PaddedWarriorPrince
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[Kawaharu]

My parents know and they full support me being an adult baby and diaper dependent. They even allow me to be diapered out in the open and around them. Even at the same time, they treat me as an adult baby instead of an adult or grown up.

[barnburner]

My immediate family knows, Im sure my sisters let it out to their friends, my mom wasnt approving about it

[AngelBaby]

Can you tell us about that?

[BabyJune]

To my knowledge, my family doesn't know about my "other" side and I plan to keep it that way.

[babyheadspace]

 My family came across sometimes history on the computer or depends I hid a backpack in my room I use to print out stories and pictures back in the days of dial up.  My parents thought it was gross and weird and asked me why I would like something like that.

I was shamed... I learned to hide it all the time sadly It took a while to come out to my spouse, years...,I had Hidden a few packages of abena and molicares in my attic and I was in fear of being discovered.   one day I finally opened up  to her and was accepted by her not everyone can be accepting 

[Goerge]

My foster parents knew, To stop me from stealing nappies from my special needs school where they were readerly available and after talks with a child psychologist it was decided that social service would purchase IC nappies for me but I could only where them to bed and with a good behaviour chart. I was 11.

[Demon-hunter]

My family knew my TB/AB/DL since I was a kid. I would steal from my little sisters, from my relatives, and from my church nursery. when even I got caught from my parent , it would get yelled at, lectured, shamed, and "need to repent my sins". The last time I was caught as a kid from my parent was from the browser history on my dad laptop when i was 12 and i was in trouble BIG TIME. but the more i got caught when i was a kid/teen, the better I've become on hiding my ABDL stash, my parents are not supportive. and with my sibling? well they made fun of my calling me names like Diaper Boy and one of my sisters outed me when i was in 3rd grade and i got bullied more in school. 

and the last time i had an ABDL situation with my parent was in 2017 when my former online ABDL friend ( he got caught by his pastor dad and forced into therapy and brainwashed him( long story on that)) outed me to my pastor and  he would not marry me and my wife cause of my ABDL lifestyle and my porn issue. so i had to tell my parent of the situation, But my own mother said i am an embarrassment ( even though im the only child thats married, have a great job and not a messed up) and my dad barley said anything but is voice sounded disappointed. 

I wished my family was supportive.....   

[diaperguy]

13 hours ago, Demon-hunter said:

My family knew my TB/AB/DL since I was a kid. I would steal from my little sisters, from my relatives, and from my church nursery. when even I got caught from my parent , it would get yelled at, lectured, shamed, and "need to repent my sins". The last time I was caught as a kid from my parent was from the browser history on my dad laptop when i was 12 and i was in trouble BIG TIME. but the more i got caught when i was a kid/teen, the better I've become on hiding my ABDL stash, my parents are not supportive. and with my sibling? well they made fun of my calling me names like Diaper Boy and one of my sisters outed me when i was in 3rd grade and i got bullied more in school. 

and the last time i had an ABDL situation with my parent was in 2017 when my former online ABDL friend ( he got caught by his pastor dad and forced into therapy and brainwashed him( long story on that)) outed me to my pastor and  he would not marry me and my wife cause of my ABDL lifestyle and my porn issue. so i had to tell my parent of the situation, But my own mother said i am an embarrassment ( even though im the only child thats married, have a great job and not a messed up) and my dad barley said anything but is voice sounded disappointed. 

I wished my family was supportive.....   

My heart goes out to you bud. I feel for you. 

[Demon-hunter]

On 1/17/2023 at 11:52 AM, diaperguy said:

My heart goes out to you bud. I feel for you. 

and with the whole situation with my pastor not marrying my wife and I, it made my wifes heart harden over my abdl side and 6 years later shes 100% against it :(

[TheJ]

When I still lived with my parents I had at least one slip up with a onesie left out on my bed that my mother might have noticed. I know she had been in my room when it was out on my bed. If she has put two and two together, she hasn't mentioned nor shown it which is how I prefer it to stay.

On 1/19/2023 at 5:22 AM, Demon-hunter said:

and with the whole situation with my pastor not marrying my wife and I, it made my wifes heart harden over my abdl side and 6 years later shes 100% against it

Was she okay with it beforehand? It just sounds wrong to me to let someone's narrow mind make me judgmental towards something for years. 

[Young1]

My father passed in 2003 and my mother does not know, she did catch me wearing when I was younger so I wouldn't be suprised if she thought I wore now 

[Little Cub Pants]

35 minutes ago, Young1 said:

My father passed in 2003 and my mother does not know, she did catch me wearing when I was younger so I wouldn't be surprised if she thought I wore now 

Big hugs @Young1!?♥️? Happy Valentine's Day! Love you buddy!♥️??????????♥️??

[newpad101]

I told my parents last week after multiple days of insomnia and not being able to stop thinking about it. I thought long and hard about if I was truly ready to share my deepest, darkest secret. I came to the conclusion that I trusted them enough to hopefully be open that I would do it. I planned on doing it on a Sunday but decided to do it on Thursday instead. I was prepared if they ended up rejecting me and possibly kicking me out or disowning me to just take it regardless, but I am happy to say that they completely and fully accepted me with open arms and have no issues with it.

They told me that they wished I told them sooner, they only want me to be happy, that they love me (for a long time I wondered if they did...). They said they had no issue with me ordering diapers/other things to the house, and they said they would start reading some books which I recommended to help them understand why I am how I am, which the book has helped me so much too. My mom said she looked at an ABDL diaper store site (she thought the designs were funny), and I've overall been very open about it since telling them.

I told them it's not something I plan on flaunting around. It's still a private thing. But it's who I am and I can't change it or 'cure' it. They've since started reading the book I mentioned and we've been talking a lot more openly now and it really does feel like a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders - one I had been carrying for over 20 years. 

Now, I know I'm very lucky to have very open and accepting parents. My heart aches for all the people that were either rejected or people fear would reject them. I'm also thankful my parents don't mind my openness about it. They don't care if I wear around them, although I do hide it under my pants. They also recommended therapy for me, at least to get my emotions and feelings organized so I can begin to move past this. I know it won't go away, but I want to learn to accept myself better and regain my self esteem and confidence. 

Overall, I'm a lot happier since I told them, and I'm on the road to recovery in terms of trying to improve my confidence and learn to both love myself and those around me. I'm trying a lot harder not to be angry as much anymore, and to be more compassionate and emphathetic. I'll also note that I haven't told my twin brother yet, but I do plan on eventually telling him when I'm ready.

PS: I want to emphasize, don't get discouraged if your parents aren't as accepting as mine or some others. We can't change who our family is, but they'll always be our family. Hiding this part of us or not, we still have that capability to live this out.

[Little Cub Pants]

6 hours ago, newpad101 said:

I told my parents last week after multiple days of insomnia and not being able to stop thinking about it. I thought long and hard about if I was truly ready to share my deepest, darkest secret. I came to the conclusion that I trusted them enough to hopefully be open that I would do it. I planned on doing it on a Sunday but decided to do it on Thursday instead. I was prepared if they ended up rejecting me and possibly kicking me out or disowning me to just take it regardless, but I am happy to say that they completely and fully accepted me with open arms and have no issues with it.

They told me that they wished I told them sooner, they only want me to be happy, that they love me (for a long time I wondered if they did...). They said they had no issue with me ordering diapers/other things to the house, and they said they would start reading some books which I recommended to help them understand why I am how I am, which the book has helped me so much too. My mom said she looked at an ABDL diaper store site (she thought the designs were funny), and I've overall been very open about it since telling them.

I told them it's not something I plan on flaunting around. It's still a private thing. But it's who I am and I can't change it or 'cure' it. They've since started reading the book I mentioned and we've been talking a lot more openly now and it really does feel like a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders - one I had been carrying for over 20 years. 

Now, I know I'm very lucky to have very open and accepting parents. My heart aches for all the people that were either rejected or people fear would reject them. I'm also thankful my parents don't mind my openness about it. They don't care if I wear around them, although I do hide it under my pants. They also recommended therapy for me, at least to get my emotions and feelings organized so I can begin to move past this. I know it won't go away, but I want to learn to accept myself better and regain my self esteem and confidence. 

Overall, I'm a lot happier since I told them, and I'm on the road to recovery in terms of trying to improve my confidence and learn to both love myself and those around me. I'm trying a lot harder not to be angry as much anymore, and to be more compassionate and emphathetic. I'll also note that I haven't told my twin brother yet, but I do plan on eventually telling him when I'm ready.

PS: I want to emphasize, don't get discouraged if your parents aren't as accepting as mine or some others. We can't change who our family is, but they'll always be our family. Hiding this part of us or not, we still have that capability to live this out.

You have a twin brother?!? I think that's pretty cool buddy! And I'm very happy for you that your parents are supportive of your ABDL/Little side.?♥️??? Big hugs!?♥️??????????

[AngelBaby]

9 hours ago, newpad101 said:

I told my parents last week after multiple days of insomnia and not being able to stop thinking about it. I thought long and hard about if I was truly ready to share my deepest, darkest secret. I came to the conclusion that I trusted them enough to hopefully be open that I would do it. I planned on doing it on a Sunday but decided to do it on Thursday instead. I was prepared if they ended up rejecting me and possibly kicking me out or disowning me to just take it regardless, but I am happy to say that they completely and fully accepted me with open arms and have no issues with it.

They told me that they wished I told them sooner, they only want me to be happy, that they love me (for a long time I wondered if they did...). They said they had no issue with me ordering diapers/other things to the house, and they said they would start reading some books which I recommended to help them understand why I am how I am, which the book has helped me so much too. My mom said she looked at an ABDL diaper store site (she thought the designs were funny), and I've overall been very open about it since telling them.

I told them it's not something I plan on flaunting around. It's still a private thing. But it's who I am and I can't change it or 'cure' it. They've since started reading the book I mentioned and we've been talking a lot more openly now and it really does feel like a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders - one I had been carrying for over 20 years. 

Now, I know I'm very lucky to have very open and accepting parents. My heart aches for all the people that were either rejected or people fear would reject them. I'm also thankful my parents don't mind my openness about it. They don't care if I wear around them, although I do hide it under my pants. They also recommended therapy for me, at least to get my emotions and feelings organized so I can begin to move past this. I know it won't go away, but I want to learn to accept myself better and regain my self esteem and confidence. 

Overall, I'm a lot happier since I told them, and I'm on the road to recovery in terms of trying to improve my confidence and learn to both love myself and those around me. I'm trying a lot harder not to be angry as much anymore, and to be more compassionate and emphathetic. I'll also note that I haven't told my twin brother yet, but I do plan on eventually telling him when I'm ready.

PS: I want to emphasize, don't get discouraged if your parents aren't as accepting as mine or some others. We can't change who our family is, but they'll always be our family. Hiding this part of us or not, we still have that capability to live this out.

Do you see a future where they see you dressed as a little or behaving like a little?

[newpad101]

6 minutes ago, AngelBaby said:

Do you see a future where they see you dressed as a little or behaving like a little?

Possibly, but it would likely be roleplay in a relationship. For me, I don't get excitement or massive sense of soothing for re-creating my life as a babytoddler. But, the tendencies are still there and I think if I had the right partner, I probably would want to act out some of those things. Like, I have a pacifier now but I only used it once and it doesn't do anything for me. I like my adult shows/videos, I don't care how I dress. I'm the laziest person when it comes to clothes, for the longest time I just wore $2 shirts from Target lol. I am looking forward to getting my discreet black onesie today so it can help hide my diaper and keep it in place. 

Would I want a stuffed animal, toys, kids books, kids shows, probably not, but that could change over time. I'm not saying I would never have an AB side, I just have no desire right now to act out on it. The soothing feeling I get is from wearing and using a diaper primarily. I love the thought of being changed into a diaper and treated like a baby by a mommy some day. I often fantasize about the baby things, but I don't have an innate desire or urge to act out on them myself. The most babyish thing for me is my fixation on baby diapers and baby diaper designs. 

I'm currently wearing Pampers Baby Dry size 6 in ConvertUps and I love pampers, my favorite brand. I ordered some ABDL diapers and I made sure to get some with super cute babyish designs. I'd love to get Little Kings from ABU because they remind me of the modern day pampers (I'm less connected to the vintage style). I love the smell, feel and feeling of babyishness I have when wearing baby diapers like Pampers. That's the main AB thing I can't live without.

[AngelBaby]

I assume you don't live with your parents, and they never see signs of you wearing a diaper. Now that they know, you will feel more relaxed, and likely not

• How do you feel about the possibility your parents, having read some books, will call you by a babyish name?
• How do you feel about the idea of using a pacifier infront of your parents?
• How do you feel about the idea of wearing AB style clothing infront of your parents?
• Would you accept your parents, on their own initiative and within appropriate boundaries, treating you a little more babyish?
• As part of roleplay in a relationship, would you set a limit on ending the roleplay if your parents are visiting?

[Demon-hunter]

On 1/27/2023 at 7:06 PM, TheJ said:

Was she okay with it beforehand? It just sounds wrong to me to let someone's narrow mind make me judgmental towards something for years. 

Yes. But it's complicated 

[AngelBaby]

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@newpad101

[Spanky]

No, never told them

[newpad101]

1 hour ago, AngelBaby said:

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@newpad101

First of all, I do live with my parents right now. That's part of the reason why I told them. I wanted to explore it further. They were completely accepting. I can answer the rest.

• How do you feel about the possibility your parents, having read some books, will call you by a babyish name? I don't care at this point. It may even make me feel good. I don't think they would, though, because that would be teasing and they aren't the type to want to tease or belittle/insult me.
• How do you feel about the idea of using a pacifier infront of your parents? It's a possibility, but for now I keep my AB stuff to myself and don't ask them to participate in anything. So far, I've walked out in just a onesie covering the diaper before. I've had several moments where they've helped me out or playfully joked about the diaper stuff, so it isn't really a problem with them.
• How do you feel about the idea of wearing AB style clothing infront of your parents? I already have, theoretically. I walk out in a onesie quite often in front of them now. It's in discreet colors, but I still walk out in them. They don't mind my wearing but still prefer I not show off my diaper right now.
• Would you accept your parents, on their own initiative and within appropriate boundaries, treating you a little more babyish? I would 100% accept my parents if they wanted to treat me a little more babyish, but I'm not going to push it if they don't want to. It can be a natural thing to happen if/when they are more comfortable with it. It's a bad idea to rush things.
• As part of roleplay in a relationship, would you set a limit on ending the roleplay if your parents are visiting? I haven't thought about that, but I likely would limit it for courtesy because I wouldn't want to force anyone to be involved in something that in many ways is a private matter. I'm not one for public humiliation, honestly.

[AngelBaby]

* Would you want your partner to humiliate you?

* How far can your parents, on their own initiative, go in treating you like a baby with your consent?

* What I meant baby babyish names, I mean a baby version of your real name, or a baby nickname. How would you feel if your parents started calling you by a new name reflecting your baby side?

[Little Cub Pants]

1 minute ago, AngelBaby said:

* Would you want your partner to humiliate you?

* How far can your parents, on their own initiative, go in treating you like a baby with your consent?

* What I meant baby babyish names, I mean a baby version of your real name, or a baby nickname. How would you feel if your parents started calling you by a new name reflecting your baby side?

I would actually really enjoy that. My mom used to call me Jeggy when I was an actual baby, hence why I use it here.☺️??❤️? But I'd really like it if my heavenly Daddies and Mommy called me that, Ian and Tyler and Lisa! All taking care of their little Jeggy!????♥️????❤️??☺️??