My Journey to becoming a nightly sheet soaker

[oznl]

2 hours ago, SoakedSheets said:

 

Very true. It's one step at a time, the micro wetting though, how long did you do this until it was automatic in your sleep? I might need to try this approach.
 

The thing about it is that it's initially very difficult to spot bedwetting as it is camouflaged by being already wet.  I think I had noticed a dissonance between how wet I thought I should be and how wet I actually was after about 6 months and "pee dreams" had appeared which was probably another clue.  It was probably closer to 10 months when I "caught" an event.  I regret to advise that it remained rare until about year 3 and even now, isn't every night but is common enough to be expected every night.

[foreverdl]

16 hours ago, SoakedSheets said:

 

Honestly, that's a great idea. 

Very true. It's one step at a time, the micro wetting though, how long did you do this until it was automatic in your sleep? I might need to try this approach.

I did venture over to the thread about stents last night. Seems like a super quick way to achive what I desire. Not sure how I feel about putting it all together and putting it in my body though, seems like high risk high reward kinda deal. If I do venture that route I'll be sure to post here

I use crappy diapers for stuffers a lot, I can't just throw away money .....

[stevewet]

If bedwetting is your goal don't worry about how long it takes to achieve this. Just enjoy the journey. 

[diaperdl]

Any progress @SoakedSheets?

On 7/11/2023 at 5:10 AM, stevewet said:

If bedwetting is your goal don't worry about how long it takes to achieve this. Just enjoy the journey. 

 

[SoakedSheets]

Hey @diaperdl actually, yes! 

First off, sorry for the long time between posts, it's been almost a year! Still going strong with the untraining at night. A few things have happened.

- I have had several nights since the new year where I have had dreams of just randomly wetting my self, only to wake up to a wet diaper! (and a few times a wet bed). This seems to be VERY inconsistent and if I think about the dreams before going to bed it's almost a guarantee that it will not happen. 

-If I do wake up at night dry, or needing to go. I just empty into the diaper. This happens much quicker than when I first started "untraining". 

- I don't think I posted this in pervious updates, but something that has helped speed up the "process" is whenever I'm home and need to pee, I would instead of going to the toilet I would just strip down, get in bed then pee in the bed. For a few days sitting up once that was easy, then lying down. No diapers. No underpants. Just strip down naked and I guess as my username suggests soak the sheets first on my back, then got use to doing it on my sides (both sides). Didn't bother laying on my front as that's not something I do when sleeping. My mattress is completely covered with a plastic covering (and I have 3 extra mattress covers) so this wasn't a big deal other than the time it takes to do it and time to clean it up. I obviously started doing quiet a bit more laundry but this really drove home the point consciously that a bed is just as good as a toilet. After about 3 weeks of doing this, I started introducing diapers into the same routine. Would start to fill the diapers which obviously (when they do their job well) cut down on the clean up after. 

-I have completely stopped carrying who knows about my bed wetting. At first I tried to hide everything when friends came over, but one of them discovered it last year and I was just like, it's a medical problem I've been working on (technically not a lie 🤣) and played it off as no big deal, so did they. Now I just leave my supplies in the closet and when people come over I don't really think about it anymore. 

My original goal was to be a complete bed wetting within 12 months (December of last year). So I didn't meet that goal, but that's okay. I'm still going strong and especially since the new year am very happy with the continued progress I've made. I am now hoping to continue to get increased wettings and remaining asleep when wet. 

I have thought about just soaking my sheets with water before going to bed to get used to the wet sensation so my body hopefully wouldn't even notice any longer if I had wet or dry, however the one time I tried this it was very unpleasant (obviously) and would probably take the most getting used to of anything I've done this far. 

I'll be back to update more frequently. I promise it will be less than a year until I post again! 
 

[foreverdl]

1 hour ago, SoakedSheets said:

Hey @diaperdl actually, yes! 

First off, sorry for the long time between posts, it's been almost a year! Still going strong with the untraining at night. A few things have happened.

- I have had several nights since the new year where I have had dreams of just randomly wetting my self, only to wake up to a wet diaper! (and a few times a wet bed). This seems to be VERY inconsistent and if I think about the dreams before going to bed it's almost a guarantee that it will not happen. 

-If I do wake up at night dry, or needing to go. I just empty into the diaper. This happens much quicker than when I first started "untraining". 

- I don't think I posted this in pervious updates, but something that has helped speed up the "process" is whenever I'm home and need to pee, I would instead of going to the toilet I would just strip down, get in bed then pee in the bed. For a few days sitting up once that was easy, then lying down. No diapers. No underpants. Just strip down naked and I guess as my username suggests soak the sheets first on my back, then got use to doing it on my sides (both sides). Didn't bother laying on my front as that's not something I do when sleeping. My mattress is completely covered with a plastic covering (and I have 3 extra mattress covers) so this wasn't a big deal other than the time it takes to do it and time to clean it up. I obviously started doing quiet a bit more laundry but this really drove home the point consciously that a bed is just as good as a toilet. After about 3 weeks of doing this, I started introducing diapers into the same routine. Would start to fill the diapers which obviously (when they do their job well) cut down on the clean up after. 

-I have completely stopped carrying who knows about my bed wetting. At first I tried to hide everything when friends came over, but one of them discovered it last year and I was just like, it's a medical problem I've been working on (technically not a lie 🤣) and played it off as no big deal, so did they. Now I just leave my supplies in the closet and when people come over I don't really think about it anymore. 

My original goal was to be a complete bed wetting within 12 months (December of last year). So I didn't meet that goal, but that's okay. I'm still going strong and especially since the new year am very happy with the continued progress I've made. I am now hoping to continue to get increased wettings and remaining asleep when wet. 

I have thought about just soaking my sheets with water before going to bed to get used to the wet sensation so my body hopefully wouldn't even notice any longer if I had wet or dry, however the one time I tried this it was very unpleasant (obviously) and would probably take the most getting used to of anything I've done this far. 

I'll be back to update more frequently. I promise it will be less than a year until I post again! 
 

I Love your commitment . If I didn't have to worry about my wife not liking the old pee smells. I would do just as you did here, and go sit and pee, or lay and pee, But I wouldn't wash my bedding . I Love the old and new pee smells. So I some day will make a pee bed, that will smell like a kids bed that has peed every nite, without changing the bed.  Weather you wash your bedding , like you do or like I want to do. Keep up the good work.

[stevewet]

6 hours ago, SoakedSheets said:

Hey @diaperdl actually, yes! 

First off, sorry for the long time between posts, it's been almost a year! Still going strong with the untraining at night. A few things have happened.

- I have had several nights since the new year where I have had dreams of just randomly wetting my self, only to wake up to a wet diaper! (and a few times a wet bed). This seems to be VERY inconsistent and if I think about the dreams before going to bed it's almost a guarantee that it will not happen. 

-If I do wake up at night dry, or needing to go. I just empty into the diaper. This happens much quicker than when I first started "untraining". 

- I don't think I posted this in pervious updates, but something that has helped speed up the "process" is whenever I'm home and need to pee, I would instead of going to the toilet I would just strip down, get in bed then pee in the bed. For a few days sitting up once that was easy, then lying down. No diapers. No underpants. Just strip down naked and I guess as my username suggests soak the sheets first on my back, then got use to doing it on my sides (both sides). Didn't bother laying on my front as that's not something I do when sleeping. My mattress is completely covered with a plastic covering (and I have 3 extra mattress covers) so this wasn't a big deal other than the time it takes to do it and time to clean it up. I obviously started doing quiet a bit more laundry but this really drove home the point consciously that a bed is just as good as a toilet. After about 3 weeks of doing this, I started introducing diapers into the same routine. Would start to fill the diapers which obviously (when they do their job well) cut down on the clean up after. 

-I have completely stopped carrying who knows about my bed wetting. At first I tried to hide everything when friends came over, but one of them discovered it last year and I was just like, it's a medical problem I've been working on (technically not a lie 🤣) and played it off as no big deal, so did they. Now I just leave my supplies in the closet and when people come over I don't really think about it anymore. 

My original goal was to be a complete bed wetting within 12 months (December of last year). So I didn't meet that goal, but that's okay. I'm still going strong and especially since the new year am very happy with the continued progress I've made. I am now hoping to continue to get increased wettings and remaining asleep when wet. 

I have thought about just soaking my sheets with water before going to bed to get used to the wet sensation so my body hopefully wouldn't even notice any longer if I had wet or dry, however the one time I tried this it was very unpleasant (obviously) and would probably take the most getting used to of anything I've done this far. 

I'll be back to update more frequently. I promise it will be less than a year until I post again! 
 

I don't hide the fact I am a bedwetter. 

[oznl]

On 4/22/2024 at 11:43 AM, SoakedSheets said:

- I have had several nights since the new year where I have had dreams of just randomly wetting my self, only to wake up to a wet diaper! (and a few times a wet bed). This seems to be VERY inconsistent and if I think about the dreams before going to bed it's almost a guarantee that it will not happen.
 

In my experience, this has been one of the most counter-intuitive phenomenon I have encountered.  All the stuff about "affirmation" and "visualising"?  Forget it.  ANYTHING that brings the thought of bedwetting top of mind would stop it from happening.  Forget to think about bedwetting?  That's when I'd wake up to find myself already wet with further effort unnecessary.

It's gotten more "robust" over time (if that's a thing) but still, planning for bedwetting has a chilling effect on it.

[stevewet]

On 12/6/2022 at 2:26 AM, Goerge said:

There is nothing nicer then laying down on your back and feeling the worm pee dribble down in the seat/back of your nappy. It took me years but now I can wet in any position. I sleep on my side and can easily wet in that position too but because its only dribbling and gushes my nappy never get oversaturated and it can handle the wettings. I wake up multiple times a night and wet straight away then go back to sleep. My bladder is rather sensitive now so will wake up when there is a little urine in there.

Unfortunately I'm not a bedwetter yet but I do uncontrollable wet when I've a quite a few beers, my nappy is always wet in the morning in that case and I can't remember wetting but have a full nappy.

I love being a nightly bedwetter.

[foreverdl]

17 hours ago, stevewet said:

I love being a nightly bedwetter.

I have said before , I would love to be able to not wear diapers to bed, and just let it flow in bed, but I wear my diapers so I can pee when I sleep, and sometimes I wake up when I start to pee and just let it flow in my diaper. But I do sooo much Love to lay on my back in bed and be naked and pee on myself and the bed, and I Love the pee smells in all of it's forms from fresh to days old. I wish my wife loved the pee smells etc like I do.

[stevewet]

5 hours ago, foreverdl said:

I have said before , I would love to be able to not wear diapers to bed, and just let it flow in bed, but I wear my diapers so I can pee when I sleep, and sometimes I wake up when I start to pee and just let it flow in my diaper. But I do sooo much Love to lay on my back in bed and be naked and pee on myself and the bed, and I Love the pee smells in all of it's forms from fresh to days old. I wish my wife loved the pee smells etc like I do.

I love the smell of bedwetting I always have

[longislandguy]

I need to find that sweet spot of fluid that will increase my wetting at night but not make me wake up!  I’ve made decent progress with wetting, but it’s pretty light. I’m not sure if it will get heavier as I go deeper into the rabbit hole or if this is what it’s going to be. Ultimately I’d love for what winds up in the diaper when I wake up and have to pee to be already there when I wake up and I’m empty. I guess we’ll see as time moves on over the next few months. 

[stevewet]

1 hour ago, longislandguy said:

I need to find that sweet spot of fluid that will increase my wetting at night but not make me wake up!  I’ve made decent progress with wetting, but it’s pretty light. I’m not sure if it will get heavier as I go deeper into the rabbit hole or if this is what it’s going to be. Ultimately I’d love for what winds up in the diaper when I wake up and have to pee to be already there when I wake up and I’m empty. I guess we’ll see as time moves on over the next few months. 

Even though I pee heavily in my sleep I don't always wake with an empty bladder. I just release it as I wake.

[WBxx]

2 hours ago, stevewet said:

Even though I pee heavily in my sleep I don't always wake with an empty bladder. I just release it as I wake.

Not me, I want to admire and bask in my accident in an unaltered form.  I know … strange.