*3 Year Update - My 24/7 Journey*

[Hannah YMS]

On 6/16/2024 at 9:10 PM, IWANTHOTDOGS said:

What an incredible update. You've came along way since your last update. What interests me the most is that you and many others who have gotten to your stage don't actually regret it. Its a common thought even in my own mind that we want it so much, but once we have it, we will wish we didn't make ourselves incontinent. I don't know if its just "dealing with it" is easier than the thought of retraining, or we do actually prefer being diaper dependent. Its a question I ask myself if I really should commit to untrianing or not.

My experience is this. If you want diaper training, or to be actually incontinent, or dependent on diapers, or whatever... you'll do what you need to to get it.

If someone is actually serious about becoming diaper dependent or unpotty trained, they will in fact wear diapers 24/7 and use them at all time whenever convenient.

I think, in the end, untraining is about 90% mental, and 10% physical. Yes, the physical side effects of untraining actually do happen over the years, the effectiveness from which actually comes from the mental aspect of untraining.

That said, we have a long, long time to "regret" our decisions. And in most cases, from what I can tell, most people who actually pursue this direction in life do not regret it.

Trust me, you'll know when you regret it. You'll also know when you don't.

If you don't regret it right now, you probably never will.

[Cinder]

Made an account to come on here to let you know, I read your entire journey today and it's very inspiring! While my rather active lifestyle I don't think would allow for full 24/7, but than again I've never really tried and reading your story, I want to try now

 

One thing I don't notice you talking about but how did you deal with being itchy while diapered out in public? Even at home with one on for the afternoon the itch on the bum can be a chore to achieve 😂

[Beccathelittle]

On 6/25/2024 at 7:10 PM, Cinder said:

Made an account to come on here to let you know, I read your entire journey today and it's very inspiring! While my rather active lifestyle I don't think would allow for full 24/7, but than again I've never really tried and reading your story, I want to try now

 

One thing I don't notice you talking about but how did you deal with being itchy while diapered out in public? Even at home with one on for the afternoon the itch on the bum can be a chore to achieve 😂

I can definitely understand a very active lifestyle making it harder to jump straight to 24/7.  I found for exercise / yoga / jogging I do much better with pullups for the hour before going back to diapers after. It's not too bad, but if you find yourself out and about all hours of a day it definitely can make jumping to 24/7 harder early on while you're getting used to things. 

As for your itchy questions 😛 Barrier cream & Corn Starch Baby Powder solves my problems and protects my skin. I don't really find myself particularly itchy. But I have been in diapers 24/7 for close to 3 years so it's more just my "normal". If I have some sort of itch there is nothing stopping me from figuring out how to scratch it 🙃

Definitely don't decide to commit because of my experiences  it's a very personal choice / decision and should be based on your own goals/desires. For me it was the right choice mentally and is a part of my life, but it doesn't mean it will be for you.

[Cinder]

2 hours ago, Beccathelittle said:

I can definitely understand a very active lifestyle making it harder to jump straight to 24/7.  I found for exercise / yoga / jogging I do much better with pullups for the hour before going back to diapers after. It's not too bad, but if you find yourself out and about all hours of a day it definitely can make jumping to 24/7 harder early on while you're getting used to things. 

As for your itchy questions 😛 Barrier cream & Corn Starch Baby Powder solves my problems and protects my skin. I don't really find myself particularly itchy. But I have been in diapers 24/7 for close to 3 years so it's more just my "normal". If I have some sort of itch there is nothing stopping me from figuring out how to scratch it 🙃

Definitely don't decide to commit because of my experiences  it's a very personal choice / decision and should be based on your own goals/desires. For me it was the right choice mentally and is a part of my life, but it doesn't mean it will be for you.

hadnt really considered pullups but that is a good suggestion.

Im not sure if its the right thing for me yet because of the life style i have being so active. going to start talking with my therapist about it in our next session. but i can say its something thats been on my mind for as long as i can remember like way back in elementry school or possibly before

[Beccathelittle]

Tiny update  

Hurricane Beryl was four days of no power, and a heatwave. Diapers & incontinence during a four day power outage and heatwave are definitely not the most fun experience. 

Glad to finally be out of the power outage, but oh my goodness was it bleh time. The thermostat read 82 indoors most days, and it's finally very chilly. Happy to have a wonderful shower, freshly cleaned hair, and self pampering time with power. 

Thankful to God there were no damages, amazingly a large tree landed right behind my car but did not damage it.

Also very thankful I had a hoard of diapers, I cannot imagine shipping delays at this time.

Hoping everyone in Texas also is getting through this ok, and that your power is restored soon if it's still not on. 

[IWANTHOTDOGS]

3 hours ago, Beccathelittle said:

Tiny update  

Hurricane Beryl was four days of no power, and a heatwave. Diapers & incontinence during a four day power outage and heatwave are definitely not the most fun experience. 

Glad to finally be out of the power outage, but oh my goodness was it bleh time. The thermostat read 82 indoors most days, and it's finally very chilly. Happy to have a wonderful shower, freshly cleaned hair, and self pampering time with power. 

Thankful to God there were no damages, amazingly a large tree landed right behind my car but did not damage it.

Also very thankful I had a hoard of diapers, I cannot imagine shipping delays at this time.

Hoping everyone in Texas also is getting through this ok, and that your power is restored soon if it's still not on. 

Oh wow didnt know you were in Texas. We just got power back today as well. I was hanging out at lifetime fitness cause they had power for most of it.

Having to wear during all of this must of sucked. Crazy how bad it was and how long its still taking for people to get power.

[diaperuser]

52 minutes ago, Beccathelittle said:

Tiny update  

Hurricane Beryl was four days of no power, and a heatwave. Diapers & incontinence during a four day power outage and heatwave are definitely not the most fun experience. 

Glad to finally be out of the power outage, but oh my goodness was it bleh time. The thermostat read 82 indoors most days, and it's finally very chilly. Happy to have a wonderful shower, freshly cleaned hair, and self pampering time with power. 

Thankful to God there were no damages, amazingly a large tree landed right behind my car but did not damage it.

Also very thankful I had a hoard of diapers, I cannot imagine shipping delays at this time.

Hoping everyone in Texas also is getting through this ok, and that your power is restored soon if it's still not on. 

Hi glad you are ok. You take care. 

[Beccathelittle]

Hey DD,

My third year anniversary! (technically 2 years 11 months 27 days) wowsers, time definitely has flown by, and here I am once more sitting down yet another soaked diaper. Who could of seen this coming? 😛 
I wanted to say thank you to everyone who has reached out over the years with questions, comments, or private dm's with questions etc it means a lot that people have kept up with my journal/blog thread.

My body certainly has a mind of it's own when it comes to my bodily functions downstairs, and as time has gone on I would say that the control I have had is slowly dwindling more each day.  A lot has happened since my last post in terms of life events, like a family wedding, birthdays, etc but in general most things are same ole same ole.

New core memories (yay embarrassment) have been made from the three unfortunate incidents that also have happened since my last post so I'll share those as well.

For the wedding ceremony / reception I was dressed in a cute green matching dress with the family that definitely wouldn't hide a thicker diaper well. Because of this I went with a pullup that promised 8 hours of absorbency and packed a bag with a few spares. The ceremony went well, but by the time I got to change it was so close to being full that I sort of freaked in a way. I hadn't recognized just how much I had even used it that day. For the reception after a change we had a awesome party but with alcohol involved

I kind of forgot to even check, by the end of the night when I sat up, I realized the entire hem of my dress was soaked. Dark lightning didn't help much and I'm thankful nobody was really paying attention. (I hope). I left quietly as best I could, and ran to the bathroom to change and made my way to my car, trying to hide it with my clutch that did very little to hide anything.   

The other core embarrassing memories are more messy related. Both happening in the shower. 😑

The warning signs for needing to mess are non existent now adays, most times If I do get a warning, it's moments before I'm messing. Thankfully my body usually has a good cycle where I find myself messing usually when I wake up, around lunch, and sometimes before bed. But there have been two times now where I was unfortunately not diapered when it happened and both were no fun to clean.

The first time was accidentally coughing from water in the shower that lead to a messy floor, yay fun.
The second though, I blame watermelon. I had bought some fresh watermelon from the store and enjoyed some awesome noms that day. Well my bowels didn't appreciate it I guess, because it ended up on the shower floor. 

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I'm sorry I don't really know what else to write about, to me it feels like I've reached many milestones over the last three years, but unless something major happens I don't know what else i can elaborate on.

I'm still happily padded, and enjoying life, thankful I did commit three years ago instead of just fantasizing about it daily for years and years. 

Happy to answer questions and I wish you all a wonderful month ahead!

[diaperuser]

@Beccathelittlethanks for the update. Things happen. Have you messed while sleeping anymore 

[Beccathelittle]

21 minutes ago, diaperuser said:

@Beccathelittlethanks for the update. Things happen. Have you messed while sleeping anymore 

Normally, as soon as I wake up i'm either messing or after I have a glass of water. It's only happened once or twice in my sleep? While I do wet while sleeping, I'm unsure if my bowels are moving much while I sleep. I wouldn't know how to change or retrain that as well. Or why they seem so weak in general, but don't seem to do much while sleeping. 

will see if that ever changes but I don't know  

[diaperuser]

Thanks Becca. Sorry you leaked at wedding. Did you try dress with a diaper before using pull-ups?

[DaddyCool]

Great update @Beccathelittle and huge congratulations on reaching 3 years.

I have to say that your situation at the wedding is a good reminder that sometimes there is no control over the clothes you wear. Sounds like you handled it well though even when disaster struck.

I wonder, at this point do you think you would be able to potty train again or was there a point of no return you recognised at the time?

 

[Beccathelittle]

2 hours ago, DaddyCool said:

Great update @Beccathelittle and huge congratulations on reaching 3 years.

I have to say that your situation at the wedding is a good reminder that sometimes there is no control over the clothes you wear. Sounds like you handled it well though even when disaster struck.

I wonder, at this point do you think you would be able to potty train again or was there a point of no return you recognised at the time?

 

it's hard for me to judge without trying I feel. I definitely am a dribble machine in or out of diapers when I'm taking a shower or bath and getting changed. I know that I'm generally wetting all the time, and I don't really have many warning signs anymore.

I'd optimistically say yes, and that I'm sure it's possible but it would be a very massive struggle. Constantly needing to be close a toilet all day long but that feels very impractical when out and about or at work. Bedwetting would be a giant struggle to fix as well, and the suddenness of wetting or messing during the day would give me some panic like I'd constantly have to be clenching sort of thing and praying I don't slip up.

I have little idea if my muscles have changed so dramatically that it would be impossible, but I don't feel like it would be. More just a massive inconvenience, and a pain. I'd also be worried about forgetting to hold it more then anything and the moment I'm distracted just wetting myself like I'm so used to doing. 

I wish I could tell you, or somebody with a medical background on this forums may be able to give a more grounded judgement. But at the moment I don't want to retrain, and I'm not planning on it anytime soon.  Though i'm guessing the longer I'm in diapers, the more changes that will keep happening over the years to come. Will see. 

 

On 9/5/2024 at 11:49 AM, diaperuser said:

Thanks Becca. Sorry you leaked at wedding. Did you try dress with a diaper before using pull-ups?

I did, though the dress cut and fabric made it impossible to hide the megamax I'm so used to wearing. It's why I went with the best option i had, northshore pullups instead. 

I normally use them when exercising, but after that experience I can safely say I'd much rather be in a diaper if it's longer than a few hours. 

[komi`]

Congrats on the long journey and the progress you've made.  Have you tested how long you could even hold it, when you get the urge to mess?

[IWANTHOTDOGS]

5 hours ago, Beccathelittle said:

I'd optimistically say yes, and that I'm sure it's possible but it would be a very massive struggle. Constantly needing to be close a toilet all day long but that feels very impractical when out and about or at work. Bedwetting would be a giant struggle to fix as well, and the suddenness of wetting or messing during the day would give me some panic like I'd constantly have to be clenching sort of thing and praying I don't slip up.
 

I remember reading a story in which the girl tried to retrain by holding as long as she should while still wearing diapers in an attempt to strengthen her control. Do you think this would be a more viable way to retrain instead of always having to be near a bathroom? Though as someone who is continent, even I find it harder to "control" myself when diapered, so I can only imagine how much more difficult that would be for you if you were to attempt that. But at least that way accidents wouldn't be an issue, but it would be easy to be lazy and not try to hold it.

[Tena1985]

On 9/5/2024 at 6:46 PM, Beccathelittle said:

Normally, as soon as I wake up i'm either messing or after I have a glass of water. It's only happened once or twice in my sleep? While I do wet while sleeping, I'm unsure if my bowels are moving much while I sleep. I wouldn't know how to change or retrain that as well. Or why they seem so weak in general, but don't seem to do much while sleeping. 

will see if that ever changes but I don't know  

Greetings for your goal from Italy! I want to ask you, if you don’t mind, the feelings of waking up to a full messed and wet diaper realizing it all happened in your sleep… how was the feeling the first time it happened?

[veral]

Wonderful updates! I'm glad that you are living the kind of life that you want. It's something that I have also thought about a lot

[Beccathelittle]

 

On 9/6/2024 at 4:30 PM, komi` said:

Congrats on the long journey and the progress you've made.  Have you tested how long you could even hold it, when you get the urge to mess?

No, but to elaborate I  have no intention of "testing". I do feel it would probably be harder, especially because of how sudden the sensation is and how long I've been habitually voiding as soon as the need occurs. Maybe one day I'll try again to have a day where I try to control it. 

On 9/6/2024 at 5:28 PM, IWANTHOTDOGS said:

I remember reading a story in which the girl tried to retrain by holding as long as she should while still wearing diapers in an attempt to strengthen her control. Do you think this would be a more viable way to retrain instead of always having to be near a bathroom? Though as someone who is continent, even I find it harder to "control" myself when diapered, so I can only imagine how much more difficult that would be for you if you were to attempt that. But at least that way accidents wouldn't be an issue, but it would be easy to be lazy and not try to hold it.

I feel this might work? But I have no intention of retraining 😅

  

On 9/8/2024 at 5:03 AM, Tena1985 said:

Greetings for your goal from Italy! I want to ask you, if you don’t mind, the feelings of waking up to a full messed and wet diaper realizing it all happened in your sleep… how was the feeling the first time it happened?

At first I felt that I was imagining it, I guess I was more shocked then anything. Definitely made me feel little that morning, and I was wondering if it would happen again. I don't know if it will happen again in the future or not. Or if it was due to how I ate that day, or some other unknown variable.

While I do wet my diaper every night while I sleep, my bowels don't really "push" anything until I wake up. Usually it's like as soon as I stand up, or a few minutes after getting out of bed, like when i'm getting tea in the morning etc. 

I don't know if that will change, but I wont be upset if it starts to happen more.

 

[Gnomophobe]

What an amazing insight. This is exactly what I hoped and looked for!

Thank you so, so much for sharing this. I started reading yesterday evening, feel asleep happy and right after waking up completed reading every post here.

Congrats to achieving this and most likely having this best documentation of the process with such lovely insights in the whole internet.

It sounds so amazing and I can only wish you the best with it and really hope you find the right one to share it with.

You really got my mind and brain spinning around fantasies with this.

Not sexual directly, but the whole comfort, her being happy and "free" in certain ways whole just enjoying it and being herself.

[Beccathelittle]

Hey DD,

Today is my 1184th day of diapers 3 years, 2 months 26 days! Happily padded as usual going into this Christmas season. Looking forward to spending time with family and friends and enjoying the holidays. Thankfully work is getting slower as everyone starts going on vacations.

So what's changed? In the last few months, I've had some very unfun bladder spasms that were painfully bleh. But for the most part, my bladder control is still around the same, which is not much at all. While I don't have warnings much, in the rarest moments if I do it's usually already starting to dribble out. If I do get a need, It's usually when I'm walking, but it's easy to start a small trickle and it's over quickly. Is there an award for walking while dribbling? if so I'd like to be nominated.

On the messier side of things, I've learned the difference between fast food and good food when it comes to messy habits. My bowels do not play nice with junk food anymore, and if I'm eating a bad meal, I can expect a bad time changing later. So I guess an added benefit is that it helped me want to eat better for that reason too? Still, not many changes that I can tell on this end. I am also still not messing in my sleep as some have asked about etc.

That's my small little update, I wish I had a ton to write about, but when every day is more of the same, it's hard to keep track of what's something to write about.

I am hopeful the tariff stuff in 2025 does not make my diaper necessity even more expensive. Here's hoping everyone has a wonderful Christmas and a happy New Year!

If you have any questions please feel free to leave a comment. 

[diaperuser]

Thanks Becca for the update. 

[Beccathelittle]

Hey DD,

Today marks 1,245 days in diapers That’s 3 years, 4 months, and 27 days… nearly 41 months in total as a happily padded woman.

I like using this blog post format to share little updates, but I feel like I struggle to write meaningful things if I post too frequently, especially when so many days just blur together. Reading about other people’s journeys on this board is always fun, and it’s comforting to know I’m not alone in my unique desires. When I first started down this road, I relied on others' experiences for guidance on what to expect. I read “guides” and had this desire to achieve diaper dependency as quickly as possible. This board is filled with a lot of common questions, and it seems like some people shared my early desires—wanting to become “incontinent” as if it were as simple as flipping a switch.

It’s also challenging because AB/DL is a kink, and I feel like some posters delve into fantasy rather than reality. While every person is biologically different, some paint a picture that you’ll reach your goals within a few weeks or the first year, exaggerating effects that can make others worry if their experiences don’t match up.

In reality, progress is subtle and slow, but it sneaks up on you over the years. Eventually, you reach a point where you realize, “Hey, these diapers I’ve been wearing for so long… I actually need them now.” I think guides should focus more on practical advice like skin care, clothing choices, diet, and other things people often overlook, rather than just how to achieve dependency as quickly as possible.

For me, and I’m sure for others who decide to go down this path, simply putting on a diaper and using it for its intended purpose, and choosing to void as soon as the need arises is more than enough to get there. I’ve read about others who opt for surgical routes, some who never even tried wearing diapers for an extended period, and it makes me wonder why. It’s like buying a new car without ever test-driving it. Why do that to yourself if you’ve never experienced it firsthand? For those who have been wearing 24/7 for years and choose surgery, I can understand—they know what they’re getting into, and there may be biological reasons for it. But for most, why not start with the simplest option.. just wearing and using diapers?

The slow march of time when it comes to wearing diapers 24/7 is subtle, but I wouldn’t trade it for the world in terms of the joy and happiness it brings me. The changes in your body are gradual but build over time, and eventually, you’ll find that your body truly has a mind of its own. Your brain starts rewiring itself, and you’ll wet or mess as soon as the urge strikes. Mentally, it’s also important to make peace with who you are and what you desire. When I first started, I felt silly, anxious around others, and like I was faking it. But over time, those thoughts faded as my body adapted, and new experiences solidified my identity as incontinent.

I also think our perception of “control” is an illusion after many years. In stressful or uncomfortable situations, our fight-or-flight response can make it feel like we have more control than we actually do. In reality, after years of wearing, you’re voiding continuously, and outside of stressful situations, you’re often wetting unnoticed or all the time. It’s amazing how the body adapts, but there comes a point where it no longer functions the way it used to. Eventually, even in stressful situations, you don’t have a choice—something I experienced in a slightly embarrassing situation yesterday.

Yesterday, I had to go to the office to meet with a vendor and a few colleagues. After a long meeting, they took us out to lunch, and since we were returning to the office, we all carpooled. I grabbed my laptop bag, which had a few diaper changes, and off we went. Lunch was delicious, but on the ride back, I felt a strong gut feeling, followed by a few uncontrolled toots, leaving me slightly embarrassed. There was no stopping it—I struggled to even remember how to hold it in. Whether it was the way I was seated or the movement of the car, I thankfully didn’t think I’d fully mess, but I could feel the need and was worried it might happen in the car.

When we finally got back to the parking lot, as soon as I stepped out of the car, it happened. My gut clenched, and I felt the drop. Thankfully, no one noticed, but my anxiety left me bright red. I quickly made my way to one of the private stalls in the office and spent the next 30 minutes carefully cleaning up. It made me reflect on how far I’ve come—I’m past the point of control. My body is now operating the way I’ve been living for years, and it’s on autopilot with little regard for my desire to temporarily stop it in uncomfortable situations.

Anyway, I felt like sharing a longer update because it’s a great way to clear my mind and reflect on my thoughts. I figured others might want to comment or get something out of it too.

My body is still changing every day, and I’m happy about that. Later this month, I’ll be flying out of state for a vacation with a friend to see some sights. She knows about my incontinence, and I’ve made plans to ship a case of diapers to the hotel where we’ll be staying for nine days. I’m excited to see where life takes me in the future, and I hope everyone has a wonderful week. If you have any questions, let me know I hope you’re all doing well out there in these tumultuous times. 

[PuraVidaDip]

2 hours ago, Beccathelittle said:

Hey DD,

Today marks 1,245 days in diapers That’s 3 years, 4 months, and 27 days… nearly 41 months in total as a happily padded woman.

I like using this blog post format to share little updates, but I feel like I struggle to write meaningful things if I post too frequently, especially when so many days just blur together. Reading about other people’s journeys on this board is always fun, and it’s comforting to know I’m not alone in my unique desires. When I first started down this road, I relied on others' experiences for guidance on what to expect. I read “guides” and had this desire to achieve diaper dependency as quickly as possible. This board is filled with a lot of common questions, and it seems like some people shared my early desires—wanting to become “incontinent” as if it were as simple as flipping a switch.

It’s also challenging because AB/DL is a kink, and I feel like some posters delve into fantasy rather than reality. While every person is biologically different, some paint a picture that you’ll reach your goals within a few weeks or the first year, exaggerating effects that can make others worry if their experiences don’t match up.

In reality, progress is subtle and slow, but it sneaks up on you over the years. Eventually, you reach a point where you realize, “Hey, these diapers I’ve been wearing for so long… I actually need them now.” I think guides should focus more on practical advice like skin care, clothing choices, diet, and other things people often overlook, rather than just how to achieve dependency as quickly as possible.

For me, and I’m sure for others who decide to go down this path, simply putting on a diaper and using it for its intended purpose, and choosing to void as soon as the need arises is more than enough to get there. I’ve read about others who opt for surgical routes, some who never even tried wearing diapers for an extended period, and it makes me wonder why. It’s like buying a new car without ever test-driving it. Why do that to yourself if you’ve never experienced it firsthand? For those who have been wearing 24/7 for years and choose surgery, I can understand—they know what they’re getting into, and there may be biological reasons for it. But for most, why not start with the simplest option.. just wearing and using diapers?

The slow march of time when it comes to wearing diapers 24/7 is subtle, but I wouldn’t trade it for the world in terms of the joy and happiness it brings me. The changes in your body are gradual but build over time, and eventually, you’ll find that your body truly has a mind of its own. Your brain starts rewiring itself, and you’ll wet or mess as soon as the urge strikes. Mentally, it’s also important to make peace with who you are and what you desire. When I first started, I felt silly, anxious around others, and like I was faking it. But over time, those thoughts faded as my body adapted, and new experiences solidified my identity as incontinent.

I also think our perception of “control” is an illusion after many years. In stressful or uncomfortable situations, our fight-or-flight response can make it feel like we have more control than we actually do. In reality, after years of wearing, you’re voiding continuously, and outside of stressful situations, you’re often wetting unnoticed or all the time. It’s amazing how the body adapts, but there comes a point where it no longer functions the way it used to. Eventually, even in stressful situations, you don’t have a choice—something I experienced in a slightly embarrassing situation yesterday.

Yesterday, I had to go to the office to meet with a vendor and a few colleagues. After a long meeting, they took us out to lunch, and since we were returning to the office, we all carpooled. I grabbed my laptop bag, which had a few diaper changes, and off we went. Lunch was delicious, but on the ride back, I felt a strong gut feeling, followed by a few uncontrolled toots, leaving me slightly embarrassed. There was no stopping it—I struggled to even remember how to hold it in. Whether it was the way I was seated or the movement of the car, I thankfully didn’t think I’d fully mess, but I could feel the need and was worried it might happen in the car.

When we finally got back to the parking lot, as soon as I stepped out of the car, it happened. My gut clenched, and I felt the drop. Thankfully, no one noticed, but my anxiety left me bright red. I quickly made my way to one of the private stalls in the office and spent the next 30 minutes carefully cleaning up. It made me reflect on how far I’ve come—I’m past the point of control. My body is now operating the way I’ve been living for years, and it’s on autopilot with little regard for my desire to temporarily stop it in uncomfortable situations.

Anyway, I felt like sharing a longer update because it’s a great way to clear my mind and reflect on my thoughts. I figured others might want to comment or get something out of it too.

My body is still changing every day, and I’m happy about that. Later this month, I’ll be flying out of state for a vacation with a friend to see some sights. She knows about my incontinence, and I’ve made plans to ship a case of diapers to the hotel where we’ll be staying for nine days. I’m excited to see where life takes me in the future, and I hope everyone has a wonderful week. If you have any questions, let me know I hope you’re all doing well out there in these tumultuous times. 

Thanks for the update and great job at the success :). Have so much fun on your vacation!

[oznl]

On 2/6/2025 at 2:07 AM, Beccathelittle said:

Hey DD,

Today marks 1,245 days in diapers That’s 3 years, 4 months, and 27 days… nearly 41 months in total as a happily padded woman.

Congratulations on your 3.408th diaper birthday! (somebody would do the math...)

On 2/6/2025 at 2:07 AM, Beccathelittle said:

 I feel like some posters delve into fantasy rather than reality. While every person is biologically different, some paint a picture that you’ll reach your goals within a few weeks or the first year, exaggerating effects that can make others worry if their experiences don’t match up.

Yes.  The publications that are out there that I’ve seen are both wildly optimistic and somewhat misaligned to the experience.  They feed a lot of conformational bias in the early days and disappointment later.  Another DD member (whom I won't "out" but they can "out" themselves if they choose) once told me they thought "a lot of one-handed typing" had gone into the generation of some of those documents 🤣

On 2/6/2025 at 2:07 AM, Beccathelittle said:

In reality, progress is subtle and slow, but it sneaks up on you over the years. Eventually, you reach a point where you realize, “Hey, these diapers I’ve been wearing for so long… I actually need them now.”

Again, I very much agree with this.  I’ve said before that this kind of incontinence is like mildew: it thrives in damp conditions and grows in the dark.  True changes are in my experience, noted in retrospect.

On 2/6/2025 at 2:07 AM, Beccathelittle said:

 I think guides should focus more on practical advice like skin care, clothing choices, diet, and other things people often overlook, rather than just how to achieve dependency as quickly as possible.

As it happens, I have 75% written such a guide.   Ok, maybe not so much on the diet as I have a diet that would kill a brown dog.  I just don’t know quite what to do with what I've written.  It still needs work.  It’s too long for a post and too short for a book.  Answers on a postcard please…

Anyway, congrats again and thanks for the longitudinal chronicle!

 

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Congrats! It's always great to catch your updates, and hear about someone whose taken the full plunge for 1s and 2s.

 

After years of chronic constipation as a kid, Im sure I still have some mental Hang-Ups on that particular piece which is why I don't know that I'll walk down that path, but you never know. Even after 2 years I'm having some decent success with just urinary incontinence, but I feel like my mileage is going to make me take a lot longer than the "expected timeline" because of that mental blocker. That being said, I can not echo loud enough about the early days and feeling like I'm faking it. I've just have to remind myself that "fake it till you make it" is a legitimate strategy and that's helped me alot at least.

 

I'm also glad to know I'm not the only diaper dependent travel that ships things out ahead of time. Enjoy your vacation!