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Just found out BF has diaper fetish

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My boyfriend recently confided in me and told me he wears diapers for comfort. We talked about it, I asked any questions I had and he answered them, he showed me pictures, and I told him i support him 100 % and we can explore this step by step.  Yesterday, I was supposed to go visit him for a couple of days, and as I was pulling out of my driveway, he completely panicked and cancelled the trip, saying he was not ready to show me in person (he has told me he is afraid i will no longer be sexually attracted to him when i see him in the diapers).  i don't know what to do to be helpful to getting him into his comfort zone...do i bring it up? do I carry on like everything is fine? I am just concerned he is going to get so overwhelmed with this situation that I am going to lose him.. 

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First off, I just want to say what a wonderful partner you are to your boyfriend that you are not only supportive but willing to engage and understand this side of him.

That being said, if he is having a panic attack at the thought of you seeing him in diapers, then you need to take this easy. Be encouraging of him but let him know that you're ready whenever he is. Maybe he never brings it up again, maybe he tries again to do this with you next weekend... just take it slow and let him set the pace if you're ready but he's not.

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you are an amazing person for being very supportive of him. thats one thing he needs and your loving.

It is very hard for some people in the ABDL community to open to our partner fearing of being rejected, made fun of, and being told by their whole family and friends. It will take time for him to open up to you and show his DL side to you. Let him take baby steps around/to you. Let him wear under his pants around you so he can let you know, "hey i'm taking steps slowly but it's progress." If you have to tell him i'll always love you no matter what, i will never stop loving you. I wish you both the best of luck

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