I was you 7 years ago. I asked questions, lots of them. I asked him. One mistake I made was go to random google links where I ended up in sites that scared me of abdls. Thankfully, I knew my then-boyfriend enough to not perceive him the way those sites portrayed abdls.
We’ve been happily married for 6 years and diapers are very much part of our lifestyle. We are very private about it, and somehow, we have found ways to make it beneficial to our marriage.
Feel free to message me if you have any questions!