Wives who don't want to know.

[Baby Brian]

Sounds like a positive result to me. The big thing you need to take away from this is that you ARE able to wear diapers when you need to, and your wife is willing to put up with it even though she doesn't like them herself. Remember, baby steps. Go slow with your wife and don't push it with her. She may eventually come around and like you being diapered, she may not. Still, your wife has given you a lot of leeway here so remember to respect her just as much too.

[Dill_Pickle]

I told my wife before we married.

[Walesiswet]

I have to say I got a bit emotional reading some of the responses here

[oliver d]

I have to say I got a bit emotional reading some of the responses here .

How terrible to have to hide a part of you yet stupidly, although she/he doesn't want to know about your naughty habits then she will no doubt be thinking about it every time you've been left alone in the house or your away with work.

I can pretty much say hand on heart that whatever my wife was into I would indulge and encourage her to enjoy whatever floated her boat.

What is the point in being married?

And to be honest its not just a diaper issue, hobbies and social things can be effected when partners don't even want to listen about how ace your model aircraft flys or who won the 'best embroidered willy warmer' contest.

We should all be there for one another, especially family and partners.

What you have said is something I agree with 100% because when I had to do it behind her back I felt I was being dishonest with her.

[Walesiswet]

Dishonest......kind of but not dishonest in that she knows your doing it anyway.

I don't understand the mental proccess of saying you don't wanna know, but knowing full well it's still happening behind your back. Surely this situation is even worse as you'd constantly be wondering what your partner was wearing when you called them up on a business trip, asked them what they where up to, knowing full well they would be sat watching abdl porn wearing a diaper. "Yep just knackered dear, long day with my export customers, watching ghostbusters!".

What small minded people, and to not be there for/get involved with what is part of their partners personality is just lazy and wrong.

[Walesiswet]

Dishonest......kind of but not dishonest in that she knows your doing it anyway.

I don't understand the mental proccess of saying you don't wanna know, but knowing full well it's still happening behind your back. Surely this situation is even worse as you'd constantly be wondering what your partner was wearing when you called them up on a business trip, asked them what they where up to, knowing full well they would be sat watching abdl porn wearing a diaper. "Yep just knackered dear, long day with my export customers, watching ghostbusters!".

What small minded people, and to not be there for/get involved with what is part of their partners personality is just lazy and wrong.

[Baby Brian]

Dishonest......kind of but not dishonest in that she knows your doing it anyway.

I don't understand the mental proccess of saying you don't wanna know, but knowing full well it's still happening behind your back. Surely this situation is even worse as you'd constantly be wondering what your partner was wearing when you called them up on a business trip, asked them what they where up to, knowing full well they would be sat watching abdl porn wearing a diaper. "Yep just knackered dear, long day with my export customers, watching ghostbusters!".

What small minded people, and to not be there for/get involved with what is part of their partners personality is just lazy and wrong.

[kellysbaby]

This thread makes me sad. Lee B, i really hope you get to be happy some day. I have an ex that hated diapers and our relationship sounded just like yours aside from the bible. Getting rid of her was the best thing ever! I found a woman that initially was curious and had grown to the point of wetting and having diapered orgasms! The night gets darker, but eventually the sun comes up.

[Dill_Pickle]

In my case, there is no "dishonesty" involved, she just would prefer not to be reminded, so I make a point of not reminding her.

[BigC300]

My wife wants nothing to do with my fetish. She knows this is "imbedded in my brain." I really don't think she has ever considered what effect it would have on our relationship if she all of a sudden came home one day and dragged me to the bedroom while telling me I was going to be diapered and breastfed! I don't think she would do this to pleasure me even if I jumped in the hot tub with her and pleasured her with oral sex. When she has become irritated with me for some thing or other in our daily routine, she will make jabs at me with statements like "you just want somebody to wipe your ass!" Obviously, when thinking of my diaper desires, her mind goes to the mechanics of cleaning a diaper mess while my thoughts of being diapered are just that...the enjoyment of being diapered and not producing messes to be cleaned up by a caregiver.

[2sail2]

What is the point in being married?

And to be honest its not just a diaper issue, hobbies and social things can be effected when partners don't even want to listen about how ace your model aircraft flys or who won the 'best embroidered willy warmer' contest.

We should all be there for one another, especially family and partners.

[Walesiswet]

How old is your wife??

[happyindprs]

I met my wife three years before we were married through a mutual friend. Although I had been indulging in diapers for years before we met, I really felt I could give them up after meeting her. We were a perfect match as she had an open mind, was adventurous and there didn't seem anything was taboo as far as she was concerned. My wife even confided in me her life long desire of spanking but only as the "er" not the "ee."

[Lee B]

It's the other way around for me. I have a husband that knows I like them and how much they turn me on, but despite saying "What turns you on, turns me on." he'll have nothing to do with them. I've worn a couple of times around him and he really likes the effect they have on me, but he never mentions them or suggests I wear one. He seemed ok the times I have worn one around him so I don't think there's any issues there.

So yes, I sneak around and enjoy them behind his back still. He knows I do it because I've told him.

The only involvement I'd like from him is for him to suggest I relax and wear them sometimes. I don't want anything more than that from him.

I don't think he sees me any differently since I told him. I think he still sees me as a household item, like he always did.

Yes, it is stressful. It hurts an awful lot because it's a part of who I am and it makes me think he's not the slightest bit interested in me.

I'm a guy and I feel the same way you do about my wife.

[Baby Brian]

I'm a guy and I feel the same way you do about my wife.

[TBlazer]

Theres actuallu nothing in the Bible from God or Jesus about sexuality-all of it was written by men, and the most quoted verses from Leveticus and Romans which are interpreted to be anti-gay, are still up for interpretation. Also, at the time of their writing, pedophilia was common amongst the upper elite, sholars and the priesthood, so I could see where the church would condemn it at the time only to have it later interpreted as being anti gay in general, not just anti-pedohpile.

Ive read a few of your posts Lee and theyre terribly sad. Have you considered divorce?

[Justdiapers]

This topic is depressing but it is real life. I can add my two bits also but it would be mostly negative. There were however a few bright spots and that I will treasure in memory.

[BigC300]

This topic is depressing but it is real life. I can add my two bits also but it would be mostly negative. There were however a few bright spots and that I will treasure in memory.

[Bettypooh]

If I were to get into another relationship there would have to be an understanding beforehand. If I were not accepted the way I am, the relationship most likely would end.

[Justdiapers]

"I have had a similar situation and am curious. Did you ever incorporate age play into your sexual activities? My wife seems to draw a blank mentally if I ever express my desire to be diapered and breastfed. I feel like this sort of age play would enhance our sexual activities."

[Baby Brian]

To Bettypooh, agreed with an exception. A marriage does not last 24 years if it is driven only by kinky desires.

[aldl4811]

I agree. My wife knows, but refuses to participate, or even acknowledge it. I'm only allowed to wear when she isn't home, which isn't very often, as she's a stay at home mom and part time server at a restaurant. It stresses me out quite a bit when I go extended amounts of time between wears. I just wish that she'd be a little more supportive of it so I don't have to constantly feel like I'm going behind her back, even though she knows I wear when she's not home. It'd be nice to just come home from a long, hard day at work and slap one on, snuggle up next to her, and watch a movie or bs about our days.

[timmyc]

Might be why I remain single.