IC people do you give off signals your having an accident unknownly?

[komi`]

For people that are or have become IC do you give off signals that you are wetting or pooping without knowing and do have you ever get called out about it?

[Baby Brian]

I have a neurogenic bladder obstruction so I have to push and strain to pee. In 18 years, nobody has ever called me out yet I know it's obvious.

[Bettypooh]

Moving this to lifestyles

[billy1234]

I have a friend who knows I wear 24/7 through incontinence and always seems to ask if I need to go change or tells me that I need to go sort myself out

[rusty pins]

Maybe it's that blissfull happy contented look you get on your face as the warm wetness is filling your diaper that gives you away.

[Walesiswet]

I think I used to when I first started having problems but more through shock and the hoe that I didn't spring a leak, which I did many times due to wear tena pull ups that weren't up for the job. Now is suspect my wife can only tell if i stand up and have a flood i tend to spread my legs slightly to allow the diaper to soak it up nice and evenly.

I don't think anyone else can tell.

[babyleanna75]

No I don't send signals that I have or am wetting my self

[happyindprs]

Sounds like she is a germaphobe. People like that think the minute you are wet, you Just have to be uncomfortable. Perhaps it's just a Mother's sixth sense.

[gweg]

I asked my wife and she said not that she noticed .... but then she said well maybe you do send up smoke signals now n again.

[Bettypooh]

With women, it's a lot because they communicate differently than men. Much of their 'language' is non-verbal, so they notice expressions and body positions which reflect how you feel a lot more than guys do If you are around older babies enough and looking for those 'clues' you will discover that a lot of them do have a 'PP face' or 'poopy face' expression when they're doing it, and the expression is kind of universal. It's suttle and almost momentary which is why most guys don't notice it Most who have that expression as a baby keep it throughout life when they 'go'. If your wetting becomes automatic and you don't notice it, you lose that expression. And you can always concentrate on something else which has it's own expression (like a smile or frown) to mask it Guys can learn the language if they try but it comes more naturally with women who can often tell you what someone feels with just a glance at them. It can open you to having closer and better relationships with everyone

[billy1234]

well as long as my friend just continues to notice a tell that's fine

[drynot]

well as long as my friend just continues to notice a tell that's fine

[oleman72]

To my knowledge I don't think so. Whenever I pee it just happens with no effort at all. I've peed standing in

checkout lines in the grocery store and I think whoever is around me is none the wiser. I also use premium

diapers with good odor control when I'm out in public. I leave using my cloth diapers to home use only where

after a couple of wettings it could be noticeable. I live alone so I don't have to worry about it.

[Jennynappy]

I used to when I leaked in the day. But now I don't. It just comes out--my pee.

[Midwest Babygirl]

For me, it was all about where I was when I was IC.

[turtlepins]

Okay!