Are A B "girls" Overtaking A B "boys"?

[Kari]

If you go to a site like https://www.tumblr.com/ you will see so many AB "Daddy's Girls" these days.

I guess they have given the wake up call to other females with daddy issues or women that desire a little extra TLC that it's okay.

Wouldn't most heterosexual females agree they seek the idea of being taken care of by a big strong man in their life?

It doesn't mean it's a clone or even a replacement of their real bio father. Rather a different meaning for the same word.

So, does anyone care to help by adding their thoughts to what I started?

If you go to a site like https://www.tumblr.com/ you will see so many AB "Daddy's Girls" these days.

I guess they have given the wake up call to other females with daddy issues or women that desire a little extra TLC that it's okay.

Wouldn't most heterosexual females agree they seek the idea of being taken care of by a big strong man in their life?

It doesn't mean it's a clone or even a replacement of their real bio father. Rather a different meaning for the same word.

In the past, almost any ex I trusted with my diaper desires usually took to idea and loved to play the "Daddy's Girl" role initially.

And I enjoyed helping to fulfill the “Daddy” role with them and for them.

I’d care for them as a little girl would want and need to be taken care of. And it all gave me a sense of purpose.

From a Guys perspective, it was good for me since it helped me feel more like a Man.

Even if it was changing her wet Huggie’s or bottle feeding her. It was just a different way to show her my love I felt for her.

Being mostly a DL, I was just "Daddy" wearing a diaper. It was all about them. But it worked for me as well.

When it became sexual, it was two consenting adults either in a role/age play. Or sometimes we’d play it straight.

To me, it was never about a Father having sex with his Child. It never really crossed my mind that way.

But, eventually some of my ex's took the term too literal. And they began to feel shame and disgust for their behavior.

Especially if they shared what was meant to be private with a friend or family member. And I used to be the blame for what they did.

They usually purged the role, the idea and me out of their life in their new found disgust. It was an empty feeling to say the least.

In my 20's, I sometimes would go through the same feelings of shame and end up purging the diapers, and other AB/DL things.

Now, I know how to embrace and even be somewhat proud of being a lifelong DL.

I hope any Girl that has joined us here feels first off this is a safe place for you.

Most Guys here are decent. But if you feel you are being harassed by anyone, check in with a Moderator if needed.

Also, understand this...

It's okay, natural and sometimes necessary to want to be little again.

So if you have a consenting and understanding Man (or Woman) in your life. Calling them "Daddy" doesn't mean you’re perverted.

Most of us aren’t thinking of the real one. It's just a name. If you are uncomfortable with the name think up a new one.

Sometimes, I want to be cared for, but I cannot call anyone "Mommy". And I haven't tried Daddy, yet.

I like having a Babysitter, or a care taker. Like the one I remember from my real childhood.

Sometimes you may want to add in a childhood memory. For some it's not a good idea. I have good and bad memories.

Or sometimes, I like to even be a little Girl with pigtails and lots of PINK

[sarah_ab]

and conversely (since we are clearly talking stereotypes) most heterosexual males seek a woman they can care for and protect.....

[puffy_bottom]

I'll add my thoughts:

Hooray for anybody who finds this to be what they want.

*YAWN* at the OP's lame interpretation of what's going on:

"Wouldn't most heterosexual females agree they seek the idea of being taken care of by a big strong man in their life?"

Why can't it be that people find strength in identity matters they seek out instead of wrap themselves up in an identity of their partner? Being a "daddy's girl" "AB" or "LG" or "LO" doesn't even need a partner to create the identity. Good for those who are seeking or have a partner, but totally stereotypical.

[Kari]

and conversely (since we are clearly talking stereotypes) most heterosexual males seek a woman they can care for and protect.....

I know I have a bad habit of doing that, sorry

[Little BabyDoll Christine]

How many ladies would love a part-FairyTG/ALG with long golden tresses sitting in her lap with her head on her shoulder against her cheek. I promise I will not put her eye out with my tiara and if she has a rubber lap pad, I will not get any wet on her dress. And she will enjoy feeeling my clothes, too. I know how to give those quick, feather-light little girl kisses on the cheek. And just to show that I am not a souless barbie doll, I have one Warning Note: So I can be a bit of a Surly Temple:)

[Kari]

I guess my original intention was to see if anyone thought as I did that a lot has changed in the last recent years.

This group seemed to be a "boys club" when I joined on in 2005 as most girls didn't show much interest.

Of course the HNG's kept and sometimes still keep some away I think.

[Infernus]

No, its just women have more of a platform to air their views and there are 1000s of male drones that hang off their every word.

Alot of the young AB girls on fetlife have had this attention go to their head imo, and think they can be assholes to people especially genuine older AB men.

Apparently its only 'cool' if you are young and hip.

[gah!ghost]

No, its just women have more of a platform to air their views and there are 1000s of male drones that hang off their every word.

Alot of the young AB girls on fetlife have had this attention go to their head imo, and think they can be assholes to people especially genuine older AB men.

Apparently its only 'cool' if you are young and hip.

…and this kind of shit is why girls traditionally haven't been in certain communities. I see this same kind of complaint in "geek" communities as well. It's not helping anyone and only serves to drive the communities back to where they where 5-10 years ago.

[brain]

I'm afraid 95% of AB/DL "Girls" that you see out there are 40 y/o creepy men desderate for attention in their mothers basement. There are nice girls out there, but we will never meet them because of the creeps.

[baby-elizabeth]

I'm afraid 95% of AB/DL "Girls" that you see out there are 40 y/o creepy men desderate for attention in their mothers basement. There are nice girls out there, but we will never meet them because of the creeps.

Yes that goes back to this discussion

http://www.dailydiapers.com/board/index.php?showtopic=35878

[AbriForm]

ABDL men like seeing women in diapers. Hence the production of photos of women in diapers skyrockets.

Most of the ABDL men you see on tumblr are gay men who are already out of the closet. Most of the women you see in diapers on tumblr have done far worse in pornography.

Women truly using Tumblr for ABDL photos are not going to overtake men. Not now, and probably not ever.

[Bettypooh]

It doesn't seem to me that the ABDL girls are overtaking the boys, but their numbers do seem to be increasing On this site, we don't appreciate HNG's jumping on the girls, especially new members This was one of the main reasons we implemented our "ask before PMing" rule in our Chatroom and that has helped with this problem a lot No matter the topic, it is the bohemian-acting HNG's that drive the girls away online It would seem pretty easy to understand that such behavior is accomplishing the opposite of what the HNG's are looking for, and yet it never ceases

To counter this problem many girls simply adopt a male personna online where the HNG problem is likely to happen. We allow that here and as an Admin I know of a few who are doing this (but I ain't telling who they are). Girls will attract boys, but if any member is not acting respectfully toward any other member for any reason, we want to know about that. We're the Admin team and we care about this website!

We want this to be a safe and enjoyable place for everyone who has a genuine interest in ABDL Those who can't behave appropriately here will hear from the Admin team about that

Bettypooh

[curiositykilledthecat]

If the point of the post was that there is an increasing number of female littles compared to male littles then yes I can see where the OP is coming from, however I am not sure that's what he meant. I find it a bit difficult to search for a fellow switch or a big due to the overwhelming number of "little only" females on fetlife but again, fetlife is only a small demographic. Personally I am not fond of labels and think people should just find what works for them and their partner(s). Basically we should worry less about semantics and titles and more about how we want to integrate the kink/lifestyle/fetish into our normal life(or lack there of).