mahleedl Posted January 28, 2013 Author Share Posted January 28, 2013 I’m pleased that my bedwetting has gone back to being almost every night. Link to comment
whisko Posted January 29, 2013 Share Posted January 29, 2013 I’m pleased that my bedwetting has gone back to being almost every night. i'm glad to hear your wetting plans are going... swimmingly. *rimshot* (i've been waiting to use that line for weeks!) 1 Link to comment
Creepymouse Posted January 30, 2013 Share Posted January 30, 2013 I genuinely think the author of the 12MoPro was expecting the average young DL who finds it virtually impossible to wear diapers without an erection, let alone pee when needed. For those of us who have spent years thinking about this, and lots and LOTS of time in diapers getting used to the feeling, it should be easier to 'slide in' to the routine without all the defeatism. For all I know maybe he WAS one of those young people who just decided to diaper train himself, without that prior experience. Link to comment
mahleedl Posted January 30, 2013 Author Share Posted January 30, 2013 i'm glad to hear your wetting plans are going... swimmingly. *rimshot* (i've been waiting to use that line for weeks!) Link to comment
mahleedl Posted January 30, 2013 Author Share Posted January 30, 2013 I genuinely think the author of the 12MoPro was expecting the average young DL who finds it virtually impossible to wear diapers without an erection, let alone pee when needed. For those of us who have spent years thinking about this, and lots and LOTS of time in diapers getting used to the feeling, it should be easier to 'slide in' to the routine without all the defeatism. For all I know maybe he WAS one of those young people who just decided to diaper train himself, without that prior experience. Link to comment
mahleedl Posted January 31, 2013 Author Share Posted January 31, 2013 Just a 30 sec update: Link to comment
Bettypooh Posted January 31, 2013 Share Posted January 31, 2013 Living in the the south pacific? That would almost be worth going without diapers for (but not quite- having both would be nice though ) One of the things I immediately noticed about the 12 month program is that it is AB oriented which does not apply to all. Plus it aims for double incontinence, which again may not be everyone's goal It is the most widely known comprehensive road map to voluntary incontinence anyway and many have benefited from it. I've always been of the mind that the simplest way to do anything is to just do it and I think equal results would be found by simply wearing and using 24/7 while making an effort to release anytime you could till it became normal and autiomatic. It's really just creating a habit albeit a very different one so the strength of one's mind becomes the most important factor. If you want it badly enough then you can have it Link to comment
mahleedl Posted February 1, 2013 Author Share Posted February 1, 2013 Bettypooh, I'm definitely going to take your advice on airing out. Link to comment
mahleedl Posted February 8, 2013 Author Share Posted February 8, 2013 Over the last couple of days I've noticed a subtle change. Link to comment
wearer24/7 Posted February 8, 2013 Share Posted February 8, 2013 having been 24/7 for quite some time now I have never looked back. I am so happy you have support from your family it is one of the major hurdles. One tip for you, no matter what, always use a cream because diaper rash is a real problem if you have to wear 24/7, it's not like "oh I have diaper rash therefore I won't wear for a day or two" Keep clean, and really well diaper creamed. I use a mixture of sudocreme and zinc and castor oil, it really works for me. I wish you every success in your endeavour to become 24/7. Good luck. Link to comment
mahleedl Posted February 18, 2013 Author Share Posted February 18, 2013 having been 24/7 for quite some time now I have never looked back. I am so happy you have support from your family it is one of the major hurdles. One tip for you, no matter what, always use a cream because diaper rash is a real problem if you have to wear 24/7, it's not like "oh I have diaper rash therefore I won't wear for a day or two" Keep clean, and really well diaper creamed. I use a mixture of sudocreme and zinc and castor oil, it really works for me. I wish you every success in your endeavour to become 24/7. Good luck. Link to comment
mahleedl Posted February 18, 2013 Author Share Posted February 18, 2013 By way of an update: Link to comment
bwakee Posted February 19, 2013 Share Posted February 19, 2013 It's great to read that you are "turning lemons into lemonade" Link to comment
Creepymouse Posted February 19, 2013 Share Posted February 19, 2013 You're not supposed to make lemonade, you make Life take back its lemons! Link to comment
Guest fakename7 Posted February 19, 2013 Share Posted February 19, 2013 The reverse Kegels seem to be doing their job. Link to comment
mahleedl Posted February 19, 2013 Author Share Posted February 19, 2013 i think i get the "reverse kegels" concept, but i'm not entirely sure. Link to comment
DavidMW Posted February 23, 2013 Share Posted February 23, 2013 The reverse Kegel description is the same as what I called "keeping things relaxed down there" in my 30-days posts. It does take some time to get used to it when first learning it, but it gets easier with practice. And certainly within the 30 days it was becoming more automatic towards the end. I found that it helps delay orgasm, too, but have only used it when I was sure I wouldn't start peeing. Link to comment
mahleedl Posted February 26, 2013 Author Share Posted February 26, 2013 This was a good week; more progress, and at least one breakthrough. Link to comment
mahleedl Posted March 3, 2013 Author Share Posted March 3, 2013 One of the things I’d read about before I started down this road was that people who are truly incontinent don’t use a one-size-fits-all approach to “protection.† That is to say, they use different diapers/tools for different situations. Link to comment
rh1979 Posted March 13, 2013 Share Posted March 13, 2013 Your journal has been very inspiring! Link to comment
wolfpup2008 Posted March 14, 2013 Share Posted March 14, 2013 @mahleedl Please give us an update. Thanks! Link to comment
mahleedl Posted March 14, 2013 Author Share Posted March 14, 2013 @wolfpup2008, et.al. Link to comment
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