Have Any Of You Been To University Or College- How Have You Coped With Your Ab Sides?

[babymarie123]

Hey everyone

Me am just wondering, out of those of you who have lived at your university or college halls of residents, How did you guys cope with being an adult baby? Hiding your nappys and other things? i'm used to things at home and at the ex's being able to wear them without problems but with university just around the corner i'm getting a little worried. As i wear at night and i think i'm going to have to stop that when i go to uni.

Please help me - me confused about what to do and i'm rather scared about it all because i know my lil marie side is going to go crazy without them!

Have you guys got any advice about what you did or do? i know i'll be ok with my bears and my dummy but my naps oh i don't think so please helpy mwe.

babymarie

[sarah_ab]

I know when i was at univ in the UK everyone had a private single room... the only thing shared were the toilets/shower rooms... so if you have a private room this shouldn't be a problem as you can just keep them in your closed/wardrobe.... if you have a roomate, you can risk wearing while they are in there and having them find out, and it could be fine, or it could be a big deal..

unfortunately part of being an adult is making compromises including when you can engage in your 'alternative' hobbies and interests and when you cant.....

either way, get a locking trunk.... if the roomate asks whats in it.. just say "private things" or even better "all my sex paraphenilia" and fill it not just with ab things, but random shit like a tarp, hoses, petroleum jelly etc.... then the diapers will just blend in with all the other weird stuff.

[babymarie123]

the thing is me don't want to. i've got a single room and ensuite, so thats not too big of a problem. but the problem i've really got is the fact that i'm going as a mature student (as i'm 22) and that'll make it worse. Plus my parents think marie will disappear when i go to uni but i know she won't I'm scared thats all.

[gotdiapers]

Im currently in college getting my masters in social work. Now I don't live there but I wear molicaer super plus everyday. I haven't had a problem yet.....but did find my shirt up in the back exposing about 5 inches of my diaper. I caught it but not sure how long it was up and who saw. I also don't know if it has happened before. I use a back pack and I guess it makes my shirt ride up.

[Diapered Jason]

I went one year in the dorm, but I was lucky as my roommate went home everyone weekend (His parents lived close bye). I kept all the supplies in a black duffel bag hidden in the closet. Still, dorms suck and they are not recommended. If you can get an apartment off campus, do it.

[sarah_ab]

you have a single room with a private bathroom... who cares how old you are.. you have privacy, no one is allowed in unless you let them... if you are worried you can still get a locking trunk and keep it in the closet ... but seriously.. you are 22... stop letting what your parents think about your private life worry you....

its YOUR private life... not theirs!!!!!

with no roomate to worry about then whats the big deal? its like having your own apartment or house.. its YOUR PLACE and YOUR private life... LIVE IT UP!!!!

[Rihanna]

Hey everyone

Me am just wondering, out of those of you who have lived at your university or college halls of residents, How did you guys cope with being an adult baby? Hiding your nappys and other things? i'm used to things at home and at the ex's being able to wear them without problems but with university just around the corner i'm getting a little worried. As i wear at night and i think i'm going to have to stop that when i go to uni.

Please help me - me confused about what to do and i'm rather scared about it all because i know my lil marie side is going to go crazy without them!

Have you guys got any advice about what you did or do? i know i'll be ok with my bears and my dummy but my naps oh i don't think so please helpy mwe.

babymarie

Be yourself and wear when you want! Most people will not notice or care. The only thing you might have to worry about is if you were to get a room mate.

Personally, I never lived in dorms while attending college. I was a resident of the area and was able to attend classes a "short hop" from home.

Babymarie, wish you the best.

[curiositykilledthecat]

I did college but lived off campus, so I wore a few times.

[Patrick L]

I'm a University student and I wear to class everyday (I'm in a wheelchair) A few friends know and don't care. Being in diapers is great esp. when your out drinking LOL.

[BabyLex]

I've been a university student and am now a medical student. I've lived in dorms and off campus. When I lived on campus I kept my nappy interest a private matter, however when I moved off campus and came out to my lover about my lil'side I became more open about it. Since then, I've become more open with friends and other baby types and it's been awesome. :-)

--Lex

[AutieAB]

I would imagine there are very few dorm style student halls left in the UK, if any. You'll almost certainly have a private room with a locking door - use the lock! That's good advice in general, not just for ABDL things. The people in each flat tend to become good friends over the year so people walking in is not that uncommon. While you may trust your friends, you may not trust your friends' friends so locking the door when you leave for more than a few minutes or want privacy is the golden rule of uni accommodation...

[Peanut-head]

either way, get a locking trunk.... if the roomate asks whats in it.. just say "private things" or even better "all my sex paraphenilia" and fill it not just with ab things, but random shit like a tarp, hoses, petroleum jelly etc.... then the diapers will just blend in with all the other weird stuff.

That is an awesome idea!

[babymarie123]

Thank yous guys me will be ok i think and i will just Hope i can cope with it all

[square_duck]

Well sport, I don't know if me being a D/L means I have a different mind set or what not. I went to College but lived off campus as well, so I have my own privacy. Something that you lean while in school is how to manage your time and differentiate between activities and other things. You will be taking different classes, so you have to be able to seperate them, and not be thinging about art, while in your math class etc.

The same goes with your private life, yes you are an AB/ LG but, thats not all you are. You are also a 22 year old young adult. So while you are active in school taking classes on campus, you have to be a big person to do so.

while you are back in your flat, you can be little again...just as long as you get your assignments all done and get good grades

All yourAb stuff can be locked up in a trunk, or closet, and as mentioned above, also remember to lock your door to keep unwanted visitors out.

If you want to mix it up a bit, you can wear nappies to class...and this is actually beneficial during exams, so you don;t have to worry about needing to go potty and believe me....LOTS of people do this, and they aren't AB types.

the thing here is you have to learn to seperate things. You have your 'big girl/ responsible person" life and things you do, then you have your little girl AB things. and you have to pick and choose when and where to play. You can't be a LG all the time, though I can imagie it would be appealing..but thats life.

MAybe if you win the lotto or something and can afford to live that life and don't have to work...thats something else.

Also, ladies can hide and bland in cute AB stuff a LOT easier then us guys can. wearing a nappy under a skirt or dress, and a cute print top etc is more acceptable than us guys can get away with. If we try and wear 'fun' colorful clothing, people think we are weird

So all is not lost, you have options and choices...and always remember that...there is ALWAYS a choice, you just have to be aware of them and choose correctly...

'K??

Hope this helps and good luck in your studies

[belinda_sue_fox]

Halls of residents are for wusses and sticky beaks.

[babymarie123]

Hmmmmmm will i actually be allowed to go?? got my place and all the rest of it but my parents want me to let the place down becuase i shouldn't be a baby at uni!!! They think i have to find another way to de-stress my self but ha nothing WORKS I'm not in a good place and maybe time to give up my career with working with learning disabilities. Then be in a job that will do my head in and be stuck in the Family house with parents and sister who think i'm revoluting They just dont believe that i'm "Normal" God i hate my life at the moment - i want to go uni for the studying, independence and friends but looks like all my Happy PLANS May end up in the drains again Wish my family weren't so closed minded as they are. not even allowed to go out and celebrate my sisters good A2 Results. I'm Stuck at home because my whole family cant stand me Marie

[DiaperBoyKR]

Marie, I guess my question to you is: How could they stop you?

From what you've said, you're 22 years old, which is well over the legal age of majority in any European/Western country of which I am aware, including England. Unless there is something of the nature that they have to co-sign on a fairly large student loan in order for the bank to approve it, there's nothing they can do to stop you from going. They can pressure you all you want, and make your life a living hell anytime you're around, but it sounds like that's happening anyways. If need be, tell them you have to do this for yourself and let them know that if they can't support you in this its time to go your own way for awhile.

Its your life, your dreams, and your future, not your mom & dad's. There's always ways to achieve you're goals, even if the road may not be as easy or rosy as the one we'd like to be on. It may mean having to take a night job while going through university.

[Rihanna]

Can't help much here.

I'd suggest following DiaperBoyKR's advice.

When I was going to college, it was local and evening/night classes. I wore basic protection at work during the day. I would stop at home and make sure I was well padded as classes were long and we sometimes went to a bar after. Some were kind of sleazy and no way did one want to use their johns. Made sure the skirts or pants I wore were large enough to not reveal what was under them. lol

[babymarie123]

Aww thanks guys. I'm going thats for sure - just hope that i can cope with everything that comes with being away and studying and all that! Sorry for my ranting but my life is pretty shit at the moment and i just wish things werent like they were. I'm going to do this no matter what happeneds - just hope that some things will sort themselves out or at least help me. I want my happyness back! marie

[Rihanna]

Aww thanks guys. I'm going thats for sure - just hope that i can cope with everything that comes with being away and studying and all that! Sorry for my ranting but my life is pretty shit at the moment and i just wish things werent like they were. I'm going to do this no matter what happeneds - just hope that some things will sort themselves out or at least help me. I want my happyness back! marie

My life has been "pretty shit" many times. I'm at least three times your age Marie, and I survived it all. If I could do it, you can too. I and others support you. I am here for you if you want to talk further in this thread or in private message.

You are strong, focus on your goals, wear and do what you want.

Best wishes on getting back on the "happy track." I would write more about me being on a giant roller coaster ride of "normality" to deep depression, but it would be useless babbling. lol

[babymarie123]

Hey everyone

3 weeks into uni and i'm doing well! Haven't been to stressed to need my lil marie soo much which is Good news and not in some respects. I feel kinda arkward to be on here and have that time which i need for my self but i'll work around it! I've come home for the weekend so picking up some of my marie things to take with me and see if that helps me feel better when me there.

I'm going to be fines

babymarie

[Necros]

I got a big bin and hid them all in there my girlfriend at the time called them my little stash happiness.

Hihi, it won't be so bad don't worry :3 I recommend getting an apartment out of of campus though ... if you want to be serious at all with your studies. Residents are crazy stupid places not made for peaceful studying

Just keep it in mind <3

[Diapers4Me]

I wore diapers all through University....just be discrete

[diaperguy85]

i had a single room in a more or less private dorm. most of the people in the dorm kept their doors shut, so when i kept mine shut too it wasnt a big thing. i kept my diapers hidden in plain sight in a box on a shelf along with a few other boxes and stuff up there. for the disposal, just tied up in a grocery bag and dumped it with the rest of my trash in the dorm garbage cans. i even wore a few times around friends, no one seemed to notice anything. i usually wore just in the room, disposed of everything pretty quickly so there wasnt much of an odor (if any), and tried to shower afterwards to keep clean and happy

just keep quiet about it, be smart, and dont worry be happy

[sarah_ab]

while i didn't get into this whole ab thing until i was 21, and by then not living in the dorms, i had diapers, pacis, and sippy cups/bottles in my apartment, my pacifier was on my bedside table, sippy cups in the cupboards. I had friends over alll the time... heck there were friends at my place even when i wasn't home...

when i had a dorm room, i had lots of different sex toys, and while i didn't display them all over the place for people to see, if my friends happened to see one of my porn story magazines or something.... whatever...

1. i was an adult

2. if they are truely my friends they really won't care what i do in the bedroom

3. i'm not afraid or ashsamed to like what i like, and know that engaging in sexual fetish behaviors is completely natural, sane, and healthy, and there is nothing wrong with doing it,

4. there will always be someone somewhere who finds what i like weird, disgusting, gross, disturbed etc.... and well....if thats how they feel, then their opinion just doesn't matter to me....

so live your life, there is no need to leave stuff out in the open, but theres no need to spend all your time freaking out if a friend knows.... because true friends won't care.... and theres no point in surrounding yourself with superficial friends who will drop you at the first sign of trouble..