johnstone0822 Posted October 10, 2010 Share Posted October 10, 2010 taking it to that guys extremes and what I do as an AB are like saying a grenade and a nuclear ballistic missile are the same thing.... If your in the line of fire your dead either way. Link to comment
Bettypooh Posted October 10, 2010 Share Posted October 10, 2010 AHEM (clearing my throat and grabbing my moderators bullhorn) Please remain on topic. This is a special part of this website and I will not allow this thread to get back into the mess it once was. We need a lot of understanding and respect in this particular forum and if it's not offered voluntarily it can and will be enforced- something I don't like having to do but I will do that if I have to, OK? Subjects (including wanting incontinence) that are not directly related to incontinence need to be posted elsewhere. Please make things easy for me and the others who are trying to give everyone a good experience from being on this site Setting my bullhorn down now... Bettypooh Link to comment
iCrinkle2 Posted November 10, 2010 Share Posted November 10, 2010 I would love to have normal bladder and bowel control, but sort of as a coping mechanism of sorts (since I will never have normal control again) I really don't mind diapers. I go to the bathroom so much that it is kinda nice not to be a slave to the bathroom. A lot of the reason I wear is because before I did, the chance of having accidents was so anxiety provoking for me that I was not able to lead a normal life. Now, if I suddenly have to go, it is very nice to be able to go without having to rush to the toilet. I have only a minute or so before I go, whether I am near a bathroom or not, so not having to hold it means I am much more comfortable. I hate the occasional leaks we all get, but it is still better than completely soaking my pants...because I would if I wasn't wearing a diaper. I don't think I would give diapers up, no. I just would like to be able to take it off without fear of pee running down my leg or soiling myself. If this makes sense, being back in diapers gives me a sense of security. Wetgal82 i completely understand where you come from.Of course i would like to have normal bladder control once again, and not have to worry about pee running down my leg. Having to wear diapers for long period of times sucks. But of course diapers have come in handy for me at times and I don't think i would give them up completely for security reasons and connivence at times. Link to comment
dlsmd Posted November 10, 2010 Share Posted November 10, 2010 I am a bit mixed on whether or not I would go back to not needing, had I the choice. i have the same quandary have some one that loved me like i never got as a child for me its more the fact that i cannot remember my child hood, so because of this i dont remember being loved when i was a child Link to comment
Aina Posted November 15, 2010 Share Posted November 15, 2010 Simple answer to your question is 'no'! Wearing a nappy to bed is part of my 'normal' life or what I consider to be 'normal'. It is as 'normal' as cleaning my teeth last thing at night. I don't even think about doing it. I do not know any different. Yet there are times when I wish ... Link to comment
wearer24/7 Posted November 15, 2010 Share Posted November 15, 2010 now that I am urinary incontinent and made myself this way I have no problems with it. So I would have to say I will stick with the way I am. P.S. Please stop saying "prolly" the word is probably. kevino Link to comment
InconJane Posted May 4, 2011 Share Posted May 4, 2011 I would love to have normal bladder and bowel control, but sort of as a coping mechanism of sorts (since I will never have normal control again) I really don't mind diapers. I go to the bathroom so much that it is kinda nice not to be a slave to the bathroom. A lot of the reason I wear is because before I did, the chance of having accidents was so anxiety provoking for me that I was not able to lead a normal life. Now, if I suddenly have to go, it is very nice to be able to go without having to rush to the toilet. I have only a minute or so before I go, whether I am near a bathroom or not, so not having to hold it means I am much more comfortable. I hate the occasional leaks we all get, but it is still better than completely soaking my pants...because I would if I wasn't wearing a diaper. I don't think I would give diapers up, no. I just would like to be able to take it off without fear of pee running down my leg or soiling myself. If this makes sense, being back in diapers gives me a sense of security. Wetgal, I admire your thoughts on this. Even after 5 years, I am not yet that accepting of my condition that I would choose to stay in nappies if I didn't have to. Maybe with time, this level of acceptance will come. In a heartbeat, I would choose to have control over my bodily functions again and be "normal". Link to comment
Sexydiapees Posted June 29, 2011 Share Posted June 29, 2011 To be perfectly honest, I'd rather be in them for much of my life rather than in something else...I don't care if anyone hates on me for that, I do what I want and that's that! Link to comment
Aina Posted June 30, 2011 Share Posted June 30, 2011 I've never known what it's like to go to bed without a nappy. It is as much a part of me as say cleaning my teeth or removing make-up before retiring. It's automatic. I consider I am fortunate in I only require (generally) protection whilst sleeping. It doesn not stop me enjoying life to the full. Link to comment
Attendsboy420 Posted August 15, 2011 Share Posted August 15, 2011 Ive been incontinent, pretty much my whole life. I dont engoy wetting, when its not on purpose. I also like dry diapers better. I dont like when somthing happens to where im gona be gone, longer than i expected. I would love to have full controol over my bladder, but I would still wear diapers. I did stop wearing last year, for abotu 8 months or so. I was having accidents, quite a bit, but I dont really leave my house, so it wasnt as bad as it could have been. Now Im doing phisycal theropy, for my pelvic floor muscles, because I cant realy relax or tighten them. Its from a thing called, neurogenic bladder. Its from being incontinent so long, that my brains, dont work my bladder muscles right. I cant pee on my own, so I have to catheters. That part sux the worst. I do pee in my diapers when im relaxed though. I think that, that has alot to do with my bladder being the way it is now, but idk, and im not going to ask.lol I just wanted to put in my two cents. Link to comment
Amyuser Posted September 22, 2011 Share Posted September 22, 2011 This may sound stupid from an incontinent person but no i would not want my bladder control back here is the reason: With the Diseases i have my muscles are destroyed by not using them , but they are destroyed 3 X's faster by using them so if i was fully continent again from the time that i became incontinent i would at this point probably have lost my ability to stand and pivot to transfer to the toilet or to bed or to a vehicle etc so then instead of being incontinent with limited mobility i would be "functionally incontinent" and have NO MOBILITY , Functional incontinence occurs when you are physically incapable of answering natures call due to physical disease or defect (such as not being able to transfer from your wheelchair to the toilet and disrobing before you pee your pants). Nappy Link to comment
BabyLexi Posted September 23, 2011 Share Posted September 23, 2011 Before my SCI I was a bedwetter my whole life. After the SCI I was full time incontinent. So if I could be continent would I? Not at all. I feel safe and secure in my diaper and that's a part of me. Not having it would feel like I'm missing a part of my body. Link to comment
stevewet Posted May 19, 2023 Share Posted May 19, 2023 To be honest I would stay as I am in nappies 24/7 Link to comment
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