Ive been incontinent, pretty much my whole life. I dont engoy wetting, when its not on purpose. I also like dry diapers better. I dont like when somthing happens to where im gona be gone, longer than i expected. I would love to have full controol over my bladder, but I would still wear diapers. I did stop wearing last year, for abotu 8 months or so. I was having accidents, quite a bit, but I dont really leave my house, so it wasnt as bad as it could have been. Now Im doing phisycal theropy, for my pelvic floor muscles, because I cant realy relax or tighten them. Its from a thing called, neurogenic bladder. Its from being incontinent so long, that my brains, dont work my bladder muscles right. I cant pee on my own, so I have to catheters. That part sux the worst. I do pee in my diapers when im relaxed though. I think that, that has alot to do with my bladder being the way it is now, but idk, and im not going to ask.lol I just wanted to put in my two cents.