BabyLexi

There really isn't anything wrong with it.

Alex, I was asking doopey though.

Thank you Alex for the welcome and we should talk sometime dopey.

I don't get anything special out of it just enjoy it. I've always liked diversity and going against the grain.

Yes I am but I'm careful about giving it out.

One could use the same argument for incontinent and continent people not to sit in a wet diaper.

Everyone, before you come on any website and want to blame something for your ills please make sure your not responsible for them in the first place. The OP blamed diapers for his relationship issues. Sorry but diapers are not responsible for interpersonal issues. Blaming diapers is not only an insult to me but everyone else who is medically incontinent Lots of incontinent people wear diapers as a result of their condition and are in a successful relationship. If you have a problem with diapers then don't buy them and use them.

I would think that it would feel good to be bathed in someone elses pee.

I'm sure someone will say something to this just by the title alone. Anyways before I start with it I know I'm not alone because I've found it on the internet. Anyways, I like drinking menstrual blood like from a menstrual cup (diva cup, moon cup), sucking the blood from a tampon applicator, sucking on a used tampon, and licking the menstrual blood off another girl. So anyone else here share in any of that. Yes, I am serious about all of this.

craziest watersport thing you're into? For me I love drinking someone ele's pee, being peed on, and being peed into. I would like to try having someone pee into my diaper.

I've always been into the whole watersports scene but someone would have to do it into my diaper seeing I'm not continent.

That's make me want to ask this question. As anyone bugged you about why don't you just get a foley or ISC? There have been people who have told me I should get a foley or just ISC. I've had to tell them that foleys really bother me and ISC would do no good because my bladder is always draining.

Before my SCI I wore depends during the day with the regular diaper at night (bedwetter). No one ever noticed them. Then again how many people are going to be checking out someones bottom?!

Thank you dopey how long have you been here?

I knew some with CP who was independent for the most part how about yourself?

Sure no problems!

I just want to help a fellow woman out. My friend was having bad periods till she went to an gyn and it was found out that the afterbirth was still there. Now things are soo much better for her. I know the toll menstrual issues take on us. I really have no problems buying you one.

They cost around $35 but then that's all you have to spend whereas with tampons/pads you're spending $4-8 a month times your reproductive years which gives around $2,160. There are two sizes. One is for women who have never had children the other is for one who has. If your willing and living in the US I would be willing to buy you one but I wouldn't be able to do it until October 1 (so a week away). I have no problems ordering it and then just having it sent to your address. Side Edit: I think there's nothing wrong with wanting to measure your flow. If I wasn't incontinent and not in a diaper I'd do the same thing.

What I think you need to try is getting a menstrual cup (such as diva cup, moon cup, etc). Those cups hold way more than what a super tampon does. Everyone's whose tried them has always loved them. Diva Cup: http://www.divacup.com/ Moon Cup: http://www.mooncup.com/

I don't think you've mentioned it but if you have please forgive me. Do you use tampons, pads, or both? I'm imagining that you only use pads? Which pads are you using? I really would recommend you try the Poise Hourglass Shape Ultimate Pads. You can even request a free same from them. I really don't think you need to throw away panties that had menstrual blood on them. What I would do is of course wash then and then just wear those pairs when your on your period. This commonly what my friends and I call "period panties."

Before my SCI I was a bedwetter my whole life. After the SCI I was full time incontinent. So if I could be continent would I? Not at all. I feel safe and secure in my diaper and that's a part of me. Not having it would feel like I'm missing a part of my body.

I wish you two the best of luck. I just recommend not pushing her to do anything she's not ready for.

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May I ask why you mind if your lil ones hear/see it (by accident)? So they know mommy/daddy (don't know which one I should call you) wears a diaper. I doubt they think anything of it much less care.

Hate to say it but alot of community sites are like that. I'm on several and seen it on all of them. The state of them really can be blamed on the fact that the internet is an anonymous medium so it can bring out the worst in people. Things you wouldn't say in person are easy when you never have to see the person.