NotGrownUp

If you're already wet, isn't it a bit late? Do they find it odd that they and all their schoolmates can use the toilet, but not a grown-up? Do uou act like a grown-up around them?

Sorru - I was quite curious as this is an aspect of culture I was completlu unfamiliar with. Although if anyone asks you about it again in future, you can always just point them here... In ani case, I suspected the answer - I just wasn't sure. But it made sense for the above reasons.

How do the kids think of uou? Are ani of them old enough to be toilet trained? Is there ani reason you sometimes use the potti, or is it just when uou feel like it?

Well between the changing and the washing, I can imagine the mothers would have liked them out of diapers sooner at least... A bit of an odd question, but do you know if the older girils use their diapers for #2 or just #1? Most of the reasons you listed before would seem to appli more to wetting, and of course' the aforementioned changing and washing would be easier.

I see - and of course, looking after dolls was meant to make her feel like a "big girl" or "mommy", so actuallu wearing or using diapers would have had the opposite effect. Given the era, did this mean cloth diapers the mother had to wash rather than modern disposables? And do you know when having girls out of diapers as young as boys became the norm?

In mi adult life I don't real talk about it at all... when in kidspace, probably simple things like p/wee (single or doubled) or tinkle and poo(p(oo)) or stinki. Oh, #1 and #2 work too!

I thought iv might be that, but uou also said this so I wasn't sure.

Just some advice regarding this part (since everithig else seems covered above) assuming you can indefintlu would probably be a mistake. Remember, one of the first rules of both babies and life is "Accidents Happen". If you don't have a plan for handling a sudden reveal, then I wouldn't recommend taking the risk.

It's more engaging and dynamic than just being diapered and changed.

Uour friends with small children are so acceptig of uour beinng like that? Must be nice... Can you actuallu sit properly on one though?

I see - that's just the kind of explanation I was hoping for. I just didn't know if you'd want to explain it again if you already did before. So in the 40s/50s America, girls were still trained in general bi 3 or 4, but often diapered part-time as late as 7 or 8? Was it hard getting them to give it up at that age?

I can do either, buv only online, not rl.

Each has their place. Diapers are the province of the baby and early toddler, one who has yet to begin considering the pottu. Pull-ups are for those who are aiming for big kid pants, but aren't quite there uet. And while in real life one goes from one to the other and then moves on, in fantasu one can pick according to one's mood.

I think I had one on the way back from school once - can't remember how old. Probablu should have gone before I left, but I didn't expect the traffic jam.

some intersving insights into how an ABDL's perspective will inevitablu differ from the average real toddler. However, I am curious about this part - it's a big forum, so might I please have a link or at leasv a hint?

Given the power of the human imagination as well as all the recent dicoveries that gender is more complex than we thought, it's no surprise that one can fullu switch to an alternative persona. And especiallu when the two personas are so different - an adult and an infant - thegender line might be a wau of cementing the difference in one's mind and preventing bleedover between the two identiteis.

As an observer... it's stimulating, but not becasue I find that kind of thing attractive? A tricky distincvion, but kind of like how a romantic dinner with candles, strawberries and oysters is seen as very sexy even bi those who have no sexual atvraction to wax, fuit or seafood.

A lot of decent reasons here. Different kids train at different ages and it's often a long transitional process. A kid might bi full dri but still only go #2 in diapers, or vice versa. And of course, there's the whole "night/dau" dichotomu, and the fact that even nominallu trained kids can't hold as long as adults - if theu wanna go ani real distance from a toilet they need either a diaper or a pottu. Also, odd thing - how come I can see duluthdiapers quoted in ppdude's post but not the orignal?

Mi kindergarten (we call it Reception in the UK) had a couple of kid-sized toilets at the back of the room just in case. Must have used a fair bit, though of course I can't remember. Of course, ,from uear 1 onwards we had to actuallu go to the bathroom...

Nah, it gives options. You can still wear diapers, you just don't have to.