[Looking to become Caregiver to a baby or little boy UK]

Hi, would prefer under or just about thirty, who plays at any age, their choice btw not mine, I'm flexible,,,

I'm on the south coast near Worthing but can travel anywhere, or host at mine,,,

Age 56, DL 24/7 myself, 73kg, 174 cm tall,,,

Pete

 

 

[Diapered Christmas?]

Hi, I'm 24/7 anyway so will def be wearing, difference is though that I'll be wetting at home rather than using the loo, 

[Issues with taped diapers falling down]

Have you tried wearing underpants over the nappy? 

Or maybe find a pull-up in your size?, I've found Always Discreet plus grade as good as the tape-ups I tried,,, 

[Why diapers are better than toilets.]

Because you relieve the boredom of queues or waiting for a train by relieving yourself,,,

[Why the hell are employers not so straight forward?]

Sometimes employers advertise for staff when they're in financial difficulties, to make the business look stronger than it is, either that or the job has already been promised to one of the manager's friends or relatives, and they interview others to hide this,,,

[What do you like about diapers and bondage?]

Best thing is being forced to wet myself, I'll wear low capacity pull-ups like Tena Silhouettes so my clothes get wet as well, then get my clothing and nappy pulled down and get spanked, it's a bit pricey but just glad to have found a Mistress who is willing to indulge me lol,,, 

[atriculating why I love diapers; makes me feel feminine]

I have a strong preference for female diapers, just feels more natural to me, male incowear makes me feel like a failed male, but female incowear makes me feel strong and in control, hope that makes sense,,,

 

[Possible issue with Fetlife]

On 11/25/2019 at 6:50 AM, Firefly 35 said:

Has anyone had problems with increased battery drain on their device(s) after browsing Fetlife?  Hoping it's not a malware situation on their end.

Never had any problems with fetlife, but on a laptop that's plugged in,,, I'm Pete672 on fetlife if you feel like connecting on there,,,

[You are getting old, if….]

you're getting old if people you disclose to show no sign of surprise,,, 

[At what wettness-level do you change your diaper?]

Depends where I am, at home with my armchair protected, I'll wait until my jeans are soaked as well, out in public perhaps 50%, I clicked on 110% as that's the most pleasurable for me,,, 

[Corrupt-a-wish]

Granted, all wearers have to wear a badge advertising it, but the newspapers publish the story about you and how you made this happen,,,

I wish I could get Always Discreet Night Plus grade in my size at my local supermarket at the same price as internet, 

[Today was able to wet while driving! First time.]

As oznl says, it's an inhibition thing I would say, it took ages for me to wet myself in public the first time, but now use it to pass the time in a queue or waiting for a train, sometimes I welcome train delays as an opportunity to wet myself,,, 

[Sussex abdls]

Worthing area here, DL only, but interested in AB lifestyle, I drive so can meet outside my area, anyone is welcome to PM ?

[Anyone like getting stoned while being diapered?]

I used to love wetting while stoned, but in UK you just can't get good stuff anymore it seems,,, 

[diapers as coping vehicle for social anxiety]

I can really relate to this, wearing gives me confidence in that I don't need to be near a loo, I wear 24/7 so never have to worry if I'm on say a train station with no facilities or waiting for a bus, or finding a loo in public when I need to go, I can just pee my pants instead,,,

 

9 minutes ago, carsfan said:

For an activity that’s ostensibly supposed to be fun, this dude has been on a bit of mission of  late to post angry, negative, rambling posts.

I agree, hope he's ok but he does seem upset about something, even though for those of us whose wearing is necessary, best to make it a fun activity, personally I feel I have no choice but to wear, so might as well enjoy doing so!,,,

[Questions about Incontinence]

I started wearing about 2 1/2 years ago, mainly for insurance purposes as I was working at a job without easy access to a loo, and had bladder anxiety issues around this,,, 

I became 24/7 in about a week because I just loved the security feeling that if I did wet myself, it wouldn't be obvious,,,

So, while I am happier wearing and being able to leak wherever I am, in a queue for example, I am a little more inco than I would have been, sometimes I leak without noticing I'm going to do so, but often I just allow myself to pee because it's easier than using a loo, and actually find it pleasurable,,, 

So yes, if you wear just for pleasure you may well become a bit inco, but as long as you are enjoying it, why not?,,,

I'd much rather be a bit inco and happy than have an iron bladder and worry about wetting,,,

[24/7 startups, and unexpected pitfalls?]

"the damp side" just love that,,, 

I've been 24/7/365 for about two years now, but only the last few weeks as more than insurance, it's great to avoid public loos, and just leak to release pressure in my bladder in small amounts,,,

I took to wearing 24/7/365 really quickly, just feels normal now, and getting used to wetting when out and about also quite quickly,,,

[Men, would you wear a diaper and plastic pants and a mini in public]

Def a bad idea, and maybe an offence if the purpose of doing this was to force others to notice your diaper and plastic pants,,,

Last year I was wearing shorts on the underground, sort of slid forward and without realising it my nappy was on show, as evidenced by three young women laughing at them, or me, tbh it was a bit offun but no way I'd do it on purpose,,,

There are AB/DL parties around, I'd go to these if I felt the need to wear in public, although at home I sometimes wear a pink tartan micro skirt over my nappy, hehe,,,

 

 

[Hello Donyarii here]

Hi Donyarii, just saw you in the chatroom, a belated welcome, and yes crossdressing and nappies go very well together! 

[A wetter wets wets wetter diapers]

I like to wet mine as much as possible and enjoy the feeling for as long as possible,,,

[I’m new to wearing in public]

I've been 24/7 for nearly three years now and it feels completely normal, it took a while to pee myself in public though, it would have/would be great to have a female friend or partner who dared me to do it,,, 

I love the phrase "bored DL"!, wetting can relieve the boredom of waiting for a train for instance, or in the supermarket queue,,,

[What diapers you buying soon?]

I'll be getting some Lille Fit tape-ups next time I go into town,,,

They look a bit boring but they are proper nappies, just on pull-ups atm, but don't want to get into ABDL nappies immediately, save that for later lol,,,

[Governesses]

I would very much prefer a strict authority figure, perhaps even bordering on sadistic, I'm open to PMs on this subject from anyone,,,

[My grandma put me in a diaper]

Perhaps she wants to be sure you are wearing?, If you put the diaper on yourself and show her, she might be happy with just knowing you are ready for the night,,,

Not ideal I guess, but maybe better than her putting a diaper on you as you are not comfortable with that,,,

 

[Hello from Norfolk UK :)]

Hi Weggley, 

I'm from West Sussex, please feel free to PM me if you'd like to chat mate,,,