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Did they still have the powdery smell out of the bag? Those were my firsts, back in the late '90s. I can still smell them in my mind.

Not sure if joking or serious. But. Let me relate a tale about discussing diapers with a formerly reluctant spouse. If she thinks she just plying you in good fun, with no malice intended, it’s probably best to roll with the punches. Because if she’s having fun with the concept of you being diapered, and you get upset with that (in essence, taking her fun part away), it could whipsaw on ya and she could sour on the entire concept for an undetermined period of time.

If it makes you feel any better, friends that already knew I wore diapers, at all, were simply shocked that I had been 24/7 around them for the past couple years. Never suspected a thing, never saw anything.

Start with the recommended amount and drink lots of water. Too much, and you can get an intestinal blockage.

Ha. I went to the ER once, and after everything was cleared up and I was getting ready to leave, the nurse said, “Let me put down the sides of your crib, here”

I recently came across BOS bags on Amazon, gave them a shot, and was incredibly impressed. Highly recommend. From what I understand, different kinds of plastic film have different spacing between polymer chains, so very small particles can still permeate from certain types of plastic bags. These bags block all odor. And I mean, all. The most foul diaper, sealed up in it, leaves zero indication of the disaster inside. (Well, it’s a little translucent, so watch out for that). I was traveling last week and disposed of the day’s dirties in a trash can by the hotel’s elevator, each wrapped individually in a BOS and then all in a plain garbage bag, and that bag was still in that can at the end of the day, apparently no one the wiser. They’re specifically marked for adult diaper disposal, and the large size easily holds a balled up large Megamax or Str8up. And my favorite part? No perfume scent or branding like Northshore’s. It’s just a plain white bag.

My goodness, I love this. ‘Werther’s” is my safe word.

Ha. I was just going to bring up Midwestern US dialect of: No, yeah = yes Yeah, no = no Yeah, no for sure = definitely

Speaking of, I recently bought the somewhat uncommon US export version of the Holden Commodore (the last of the V8s!) and have come to appreciate how common transporting dead bodies must be in Australia, given the prodigious volume of the boot. My mother, upon seeing the car for the first time, noted that you could probably fit 2 or 3 of them in there.

One piece of advice with airoliver/save express, give them a day or two (or three) to process and ship the package and add that to the shipping time estimate. I tried the ship-to-the-hotel trick, and ended up having to take a commuter train to the Parisian suburbs to a UPS office on our last day in town, lest a giant box of diapers went forever unclaimed at the hotel front desk. On the plus side, though, the pharmacy across the street had Tena Maxis available for same-day purchase.

Reading through the comments, this may have been a hoax anyway. There was a mispost between the OP’s main and alt account, and has since deleted the alt.

I don't know how quickly you're leaving for your trip, but look for the Japanese disposal bag called BOS. They're available at the common mega internet retailer. Despite just twisting the bag into a knot to seal, they work very well and are perfectly opaque. The Large size hold us-sized diapers quite well.

And there's the rub. The police don't always have the finest nuance of the law at hand, so they cast a wide net, arrest/detain first, and ask questions later. If you're ok with the possibility of going down to the station and dealing with all the processing, knowing that it'll be tossed out (hopefully) by the DA, then have at it.

Agreed that she is absolutely 100% in the right, disagree that this all "makes us all look bad". People who goof on this kink will do it regardless of how wonderful or awful its participants are.

If there's a chance that the relaxation, distraction, candles, and gentle soothing music means that there's a non-zero chance of an unexpected and unauthorized release, all while you're laying on your stomach (adios, store pull-ups)...I think that takes exhibitionism off the (heh) table. I haven't even gotten to regular bedwetting, and I still have had accidents when just not thinking about it while airing out. The only reason to NOT do it is it might preclude you from a gluteal massage, which, for a regular office-sitter, is a godsend.

Is that you, Milpool_________?

Not a recommendation, but an option. Instead of going with an unlikely story of long covid, if you’re that untrained you could go to the doctor and just say “I don’t know what’s happening”. They’ll run the tests, not find anything, and if things get touchy at work (I know public sector, too) you’ve got your documentation. Though, i’ve been 24/7 for years and have gotten away with office restroom changing a with no one ever bringing it up. Someone asks, insensitively, why you’re taking a bag to the restroom? Medical stuff. Still pressing for details? Diabetes supplies, medicated wipes, various other creams or shots, or the only real answer “I prefer not to talk about my medical history at work” It’s very common for people to not tell their doctors about light incontinence, so you have a backstory there as well. You thought it would get better on its own, but it got worse instead.

@Little SherriAre you placing a liner all the way in the top front? I wonder what migration and effectiveness would be like if you only used 1 that starts at the low point of the diaper, just to help wicking ‘around the horn’. Don’t know about you fine folks, but I don’t need any assistance in getting the front of the diaper good and saturated.

Last time I was in Paris you could get Tena Maxis at any pharmacy.

I remember all 3 of the post-potty training first diapers: First baby diaper (attempt), when I was 3 a buddy and I found a bag in his closet, and "dared" each other to try them on. Too small for me. First makeshift diapers at 13, folded up towels for peeing and cutting leg holes in plastic grocery bags for pooping. First adult diaper at 16, literally weeks after getting my driver's license. Attends 6-tape.

Aren't they, though? The pelvic floor is engaged with both sphincters, so it would seem that weakening both at the same time is doubly related in weakening the floor.

I mean this in the most loving way possible. What are life goal are you going to work on achieving next once you finally declare success with this one? You've invested so much time and energy, and it seems like you're trying to hold onto this goal even though you're already there.

Everything ok, LS? I always get nervous reading about big relationship fights followed by LONG silences...

Oh my friend. Pointing out your spouse’s hypocrisies is like sailing to that spot on the map that has a dragon on it.

Nobody said it was good for you. Just that not everyone who drinks is a spouse beater or a reckless driver. There are friendly drunks and mean drunks. Your disposition when drunk is your true personality, since your sober inhibitions are removed. A drunk spouse-beater was a bad person with major issues to begin with. And yes, those people shouldn't drink. To the actual question at hand, do the crime, do the time. Once you master discreet changes and have the confidence to carry a bag to the restroom, you can change whenever you need it.