DiaperedAllTheTime

After ten years of wearing diapers in my marriage I can promise what you are going through is quite normal. There are most definitely peaks and valleys in all relationships but being with a partner who desires to wear diapers can make it an extremely wild roller coaster ride. My wife goes through different diaper participation cycles even on a monthly basis. When she is ovulating she has tendancy to be more playful and Domme Mommy like. Coversly, when she is on her period and immediately before she will have nothing to do with me and my diapers except an occasional diaper change. During this time she too seems annoyed and bothered by Mommy time requests. Obviously this is most certainly hormonal and I have grown to try not to complain about it too much. I try and focus on the fact that I have a loving and understanding wife that accepts my need to wear diapers permanently and less on the fact she is not being "Mommy" enough. Once most of us has found that special woman who plays Mommy so well it is hard to not want that all the time. After all we are babies and we can be quite selfish. If we do not get our Mommy the way we want her then we can throw temper tantrums. It is easy to say to hide the diapers for awhile and focus on her needs but that is much harder to do in reality for some of us. Diapers are simply that important. So what do you do. You ride down to the bottom of the hill and wait for the ride to change course again. Communication and openly expressing both of your feelings can help to provide the roller coaster's ride trajectory. If over time the ride stays the the same and you find yourself miserable then you may find yourself deciding to get off the ride. I do not recommend this as you really have to have patience in this situation. I hope the ride changes for you and please feel free to PM if you need to talk.

How this Princess woke up this morning. Protected in dreamland by a Tykables Unicorn diaper with a booster.

I will most definitely be diapered throughout the holidays in Tykables Unicorn diapers.

My doctor already has recorded my incontinence. As far as she knows I do not want to seek any treatment of any kind and I am completely fine with wearing diapers the rest of my life. I assume this is enough to have documented for an impromptu hospital visit but I do not really know.

It has been awhile since I have posted any updates here so I thought this thread was about due. Tonight I decided to experiment how far I have advanced becoming unpotty trained. I sat down and had a few drinks with a coworker for less than a half hour. Upon standing up I felt an immediate urge to pee pee. I headed to my room and removed my diaper in the bathroom. I proceeded to walk ten times back and forth from wall to wall in the bathroom. I was startled to see how much pee pee I leaked onto the floor. I could feel my legs getting wet but it was honestly difficult to even tell I was wetting. Please see the first attached pictures. The last picture it what happened when I was standing at the sink and passed gas. Just like with post void dribble I had a completely involuntary release of pee pee in a rather large amount. I am not sure if this means I am now officially diaper dependant and am officially incontinent or if my mind is simply playing tricks on me. I most definitely experience involuntary pee pee release at times. With all this said I still do not wet uncontrollably at night. This makes me believe I am not incontinent. I am honestly ready to have no control. I have now committed years of my life to becoming unpotty trained and yet I still cannot manage to wet the bed so to speak. I have never experimented with catheters or stents but I am almost wondering if that should be my next plan. On the home front my wife is still understanding and accepting of my decision to become unpotty trained. It is a normal part of our marriage now. She has had ups and downs as far as participation as a Mommy which I grown to understand. Not really much else to report other than I am currently out of diapers and have had to resort to store brand diapers in Mexico. Somehow my protective panties were able to contain the leaking today.

It was a long day at work. When I got home my protective panties were ABSOLUTELY soaked. Tomorrow I think it will be better to wear two diapers maybe. It is almost impossible to change here discreetly. The bathroom has about 26 stalls and they are always completely full. God I need my premium diapers.

So the day has finally came where I had to go out to the local pharmacy while traveling in Mexico and buy diapers. I ordered some Rearz diapers and sent them here but after two weeks they still have not arrived. I am saving my last few ABU Simple Ultras for my return travel. Behold the Tena Slip Nocturno.

I travel seventy percent of the year and wear diapers permanently. I can personally promise you that simply having a wet diaper does not flagged you in a body scanner. Having a completely soaked diaper most of the time does but not always. For example, many times after a long international flight there is not enough time or no bathroom to change my diaper in before getting through customs and heading for my connecting domestic flight. You must clear security again and I have done so many times with a soaked diaper. I have never been pulled aside and patted down in this situation. As far as being pulled aside be calm and allow the TSA officer to do their job. I have never found one TSA officer who realized I was wearing a diaper and treated me with disrespect. Generally you do not even have to let them know you are diapered. If you are not wearing a onesie then they will see thw waistband of your diaper when they check inside the waistband of your pants. They always check the waistband first and once they see you are diapered they understand the bulkiness between your legs when they use the back of their hand against your crotch. I have been asked several times what I was wearing and I simply say a diaper. I tried to use the word incontinence products in the past but that had confused some TSA agents. Everyone seems to know what a diaper is. About six or seven times I have been asked to go to a secondary room for further inspection. Of those times I have had to pull my pants down four times. Once I was even wearing a Rearz Princess diaper. The TSA agents were always very nice and respectful. In short wearing diapers while flying is honestly not a big deal. Have condidence and most importantly enjoy the benifits wearing diapers afford you while flying.

In my opinion you most definitely can completely hide the fact that you wear diapers from those around you. A lot of wearing diapers is in your mind. Every movement, every shift in position, every little crinkle, you feel and hear. Add the fresh aroma of baby powder or baby lotion and being in a diaper is a pleasurable assult on your senses. Just because you are reminded every second that you are padded makes you wonder if those around you notice as well. The answer is a resounding no. After wearing diapers permanently for over two years I have grown comfortable enough to share my secret with some very close coworkers. Both of them were completely flabbergasted and honestly had no clue I was around them all the time wearing a diaper. One of them even had a background in the medical field where diapers were a common place and she still had no clue I was thickly padded. Even after telling her she said she would often find herself looking at my diaper profile area and simply could not tell. Hiding the fact you wear diapers is all about your wardrobe. It starts with a onesie to prevent any accidental diaper exposure and includes wearing some sort of constrictive pants or panties to slim down your diaper profile. This works even with the bulkiest of overnight diapers. Add a pair of pants that are one size bigger and an untucked shirt and your diaper secret remains safe with you. It really is all about wearing the right clothes and being confident in your diapered walk. You most definitely can also make it painfully obvious to those around you that your are diapered but that is for another story.

With ABU Simple diapers and Rearz brand diapers I feel that they most definitely have a bigger "bulge" when dry. If I look at myself in the mirror when my diaper is dry the bulge is more prominant. After heavy use, instead of bulging, my diaper sags between my legs and without question my diaper profile is less noticable in my opinion.

Most definitely by my wife.

I have been wearing diapers permanently since September 30th, 2017.

It really depends. I have been unpotty training my bladder for over two years and you reach plateaus along the way. In the beginning you notice any slight change that occurs with your bladder and seem to be more aware that yoir continence is changing. However, it could be months, even years, before you experience any significant involuntary bladder loss. I would say if you are experiencing OAB and urge incontinence from wearing diapers to much you are already experiencing incontinence. If you continue along this path it is quite possible that your continence will diminish.

Detroit area and on the above mentioned list. He does have a few month waiting list just to let you know.

I have not been able to find any in my area but I know of a great one in Michigan. I wrote him explaining my situation and he said having patients who are ABDL is mild compared to some of the fetishes his patients have. Unfortunately a three hour trip to the doctor is really unfeasible. There is a website that lists kink aware professionals by area and I would start there. https://ncsfreedom.org/key-programs/kink-aware-professionals-59776 Your best bet honestly is finding a doctor that specializes in gay relationships. They have tendancy to be a lot more open and understanding. I simply just write them an email. If they do not respond then email the next one.

There is a big difference between mental dependency and a physical dependency. To honestly be physically dependent on diapers you would have to be unpotty training for years and I know this through experience. Mental dependancy comes much sooner. When not in a diaper you feel naked and completely uncomfortable. I lived life like you for years. In and out of diapers until finally I decided I would only be happy wearing diapers full time. It is a big step but something I knew I needed to do.

You and I share very similar desires. I attempted to go through this adjustment period in the past when my wife would be unaccepting of my diaper wearing and I would mentally find myself miserable and unfocused. For me these feelings did not get better and even started to lead to resentment towards my wife. Diapers have become a need for you and that want and desire will most likely never go away. I honestly feel you need to share how you feel with your wife. At first with my wife I never really articulated my true NEED to wear diapers and by not doing so she did not really understand how important it was for me to wear them. Remember, at this point diapers will be on your mind constantly and I imagine your wife is barely giving the padding that was once between your legs a second thought. If it was me I wouod sit down with her again and be truthful about your feelings.

I think your decision to not wear diapers permanently is a very wise one. At the end of the day you have to decide what is more important to you, diapers or your partner's happiness. You are a better person than I am because for me personally the answer was diapers. Making the decision to wear diapers permanently and becoming diaper dependant changes both your life and your partner's life forever. For most female partners it is such a mental burden to bare particularly if they do not share the same diaper desires. When it comes to a partner who is with a significant other that desires to wear diapers often times feelings and acceptance changes over time. This can be for better or worse. I know for my wife, as our relationship grew and our love became stronger she learned to accept and understand why I needed to be diapered permanently. She most definitely is in love with me, not my diapers. I am surprised in the short time you were wearing diapers permanently that your children found out so quickly. Before I decided to wear diapers permanently I did take the necessary steps to keep my diaper wearing as discreet as possible. Onesies and fixing panties go a long way keeping your secret a secret. Where I could not give up wearing diapers for my wife I do know purchasing and researching ways to be more discreet about being diapered was greatly appreciated. With your children knowing it does complicate things and I am sure makes it hard for your wife. Biologically she is programmed to protect her offspring and generally a man in diapers will put most women in protection mode. This cannot be good for your sitiation. It is great you are communicating openly and honestly. This is so necessary despite the feelings that can get hurt. I applaud you for your decision and I hope over time your situation may change for the better.

It really depends on what your need is to wear diapers. If it is an every once in awhile thing than I suppose simply finding times when you are alone and have some privacy should suffice. If your desires to be diapered demand you wear them more frequently than you may find it impossible to hide from your partner. If caught you always have the choice to simply say you are incontinent. I know if my children ever find out that I wear diapers permanently that is what they will be told. If a partner has problems accepting that you need to wear diapers for WHATEVER reason then maybe it is best to reevaluate your partner. If diapers make you happy and your partner makes you happy then you may have to decide what is more important to you. Honesty is really the best approach in this situation, both to yourself and to your partner. I know my wife could not truly accept my need to wear diapers until I was completely open and honest with her. You would be surprised. Love can and does find a way to see past dirty diapers.

Here is my masturbation pillow. After years of using one of our regular pillows to masturbate with from our bed it was decided that I needed my own pillow to hump. Mommy did not want my pee pee leaking out of my diaper and staining our good pillows. Now I get a chioce who I want to make love to...Princess Aurora or Princess Belle lol.

I use an internal deodorizer. Most people think that Nullo pills are simply to help control the smell of feces but trust me it works for the smell of urine as well. My wife is honestly the one who has the super senses and if I have not been regularly taking my pills she knows immediately by the smell when she changes my diaper. I take two a day, one in the morning and one in the evening. It takes about a week of taking the pills regularly before you notice the results. Should you not want to take a pill a good old pair of old fashioned rubber panties work great for odor containment.

I most certainly agree lil girls should be cleaned shaven. Unfortunately being shaved really upsets my wife because she feels that our children will notice that I am clean shaven. Since she is nice enough to accept and understand that I need to be in diapers permanently I respect her requests for me to NOT shave my disgusting man hair.

I have the exact same desires. I am always a baby girl in the bedroom and also wear diapers permanently. Sometimes my desire to be a baby girl is so strong that I will wear pink diapers and even frilly princess panties underneath my clothes while at work or out and about. The outside world sees me as a strong and aggressive male but if someone were to ever pull down my pants the truth would be known. In fact yesterday if you were to pull down my pants you would have found me in a Rearz Princess diaper with pink protective panties and Disney Princess frillies. When I got home and my wife went to change my diaper she seemed a little surprise I was wearing my frillies. She did not say anything but you could tell by her facial expressions. One thing is for sure, sitting in scratchy lace all day underneath your jeans does leave you a little irritated. That is the price you pay for being sissy I guess. This was me yesterday....

These videos are so wonderful. Thank you so much for having the courage to make them!

I have noticed the same thing. My doctor actually calls my diaper my underwear. Coversly, when I have gone through airport security I have used the word briefs and incontinence products before to explain why my crotch was flagged and I get blank stares. Now I only say that I am wearing DIAPERS and there is no longer any confusion lol. Adults just automatically associate the word diaper with babies.