Allerai

It's disappointing that these conversations even need to take place...

It's always nerve racking telling someone for the first time, but I think we build it up to be something it's not. I've told 5 women so far and none of them have had a problem with it. most of them have worn one for me (I don't wear them myself) and one of them has wet. It hasn't affected any of our friendships or relationships. Infact, the honesty, giving up your biggest secret can open up a whole new level of a relationship. My advice, be honest, and take it slow. Even if they seem cool with it, don't bombard them with everything. Don't make a big deal of it, it's just a little quirk. Finding out you've been lied to always hurts more than the lie.

I have a phobia of chairs so usually sit on the ground. Being in Tasmania, the ground is often wet. Having plastic pants over my jeans would mean I could sit down anywhere, be it at the beach in the rain, in town or on my lawn and not have to worry about the ground wetting my pants. So as opposed to everyone else keeping their wetness from the world, I'd use them to keep the worlds wetness from myself. Then at night when my girlfriend wets the bed uncontrollably and tries to blame it on me again, I can jump out of bed out of bed and yell; "Huzzah! I'm wearing plastic panties you silly english woman!" And then SHE'D have to do the washing. *evil finger pyramid of contemplation* I'm a large, well I'm not fat, just REALLY big. like Chara big. And to all the non beleivers I actually do live in Tasmania

well I'm glad I'm not the only one.

Hello, I went to log into chat and I got this error. [#CSTART-0] There was an error connecting with the chat room. Please notify an administrator. Just wondering what this means? Cheers Allerai

Well said Stick, I myself was involved in the relief effort through the Army. I spent 2 weeks up there just days after the event. It wasn't just houses and farms in the bush that got burned, it was whole towns, main streets, schools, pubs and businesses. I'll never forget that time I spent up there. A very Chilling, yet rewarding experience.

Hey, don't know if i got in this convo a little late but i'm in melbourne too. Well until i move in 4 weeks.

Hey, I'm in the process of becoming a cop in Melbourne, Australia. I've been in the Army for about 3 years.

I loved that, it was a new approach, no annoying mistakes (ie, spelling, grammar) and most of all it was complete. As much as i like to see the multi part epic stories, sometimes a story is best in one peice. It's nice to read a story that has a beginning, a middle and an end. Too many never finnish and us readers are left for days, weeks, months, or sometimes forever, wondering what happens and how the story ends. IMHO i don't think it needs a sequel or a continuation. Leave it as the great piece of work that it is.

This story is great. Keep up the good work.

My fantasy is having a girlfriend who is a bed wetter, and wore cloth nappies to bed. She would also have the occaisional accident during the day so she would wear goodnites. My Ex girlfriend was good with these fantasies and we played some of them out. But she could never bring herself to actually wet one. In some ways it's a shame we broke up, she's the only person I've ever told and she was really cool with it. Even now we are still friends and she stirs me about it sometimes but i know she'd never tell anyone.

Another awesome Chapter. Good paragraphing too, much easier to read. Please maintain this standard.

Awesome story, i agree with the more paragraphs making it easier to read. DO NOT BE DETERED your grammar and structure are fine and your content is excelent. Please keep it coming. You are one of my favorite authors. If you want you can PM the story to me before you post it and i'll check the paragraphing and help you fix it. Just an offer. Allerai

Well so far we haven't done anything, but i'll buy some gear tomorrow and i'm going around to her house tomorrow night. We had a good chat and i said to her "any night you wear a nappy to bed, I'll give you a full back massage and back scratch and if you still wearing it in the morning i'll make you breakfast in bed." She couldn't say "deal" fast enough! A small price to pay... I also mentioned that whilst it is sexual for me, i like to keep it seperate from sex and that things were awesome in the bedroom as they are and she is still as beautiful and attractive to me without a nappy. Today she also told me how happy she is that i trusted her enough to tell her about it and she understands that it would have been difficult for me to tell her. She has also been a bit more open about telling me what she likes, just little things but i guess it's a good sign. This saturday is my birthday Thanks for the heads up. I'll take that inot account. Although going by the chats we've had, even if she doesn't like it she'll still do it for me from time to time as a sign of love.

Last night i finally made the decision to tell my girlfriend about diapers. It was really hard and i was really nervous. I hadn't actually planned to tell her but it just happend after we were talking about dreams where you think you wake up she told me she wet the bed a little while ago because of one of these dreams. My main interest in the area is bedwetting girls so you can imagine how i felt when i heard her tell me this. The weirdest bit is that when i was telling her i couldn't bring myself to say the word nappy. I was surprised how well it went and i talked to her about it for about 2 hrs. She was a bit taken a back but was not disgusted or shocked, which was my main fear. I talked about how it started and the reasons behind it and what i like specifically. She has a background in gender studies and sexuality and is an increadibly accepting and understanding person. I showed her this site and told her about the community and different things that people are into (i'm straight DL). We then went on to talk about what i'd like her to do, and she seemed curious and said she would try it. She is the best girl, and i love her to bits. This site is great and really helped her understand, and it helped me come to terms with my fetish. You guys on here are great. Just though i'd share my story.

I'm leaning towards the daddy side of things, although i'm mainly a DL.

Last December - Iced Earth

Hey, haven't really had time to read everyones posts but it's good to see the metal comunity is represented in the ab/dl community. I can listen to everything and anything. my musical tastes are very broad. But i love my metal. Mainly power/ trash. Old metallica, Iced earth, kamelot, hammerfall, slayer, blind guardian, and more. as far as death and black metal goes i'm not too into it.

Thanks sunshine

G'day everyone. I'm known as Allerai, i'm 19 and from Tasmania. I play a fair bit of sport and like to get outdoors, i like going to pubs and clubs and am pretty much like most people my age. I don't really spend much time on computers but i play a bit of video games. On the whole i like life and enjoy it. I don't actually really like wearing nappies (or Diapers as seppo's say) but i fell drawn to women in diapers. I love reading good stories that are about 'real' girls in nappies(e.g. the "All i want for christmas" series and the "Hannah in nappies" series, they are good shit. although i'm not so much into the AB side but i wouldn't mind a bit of a spin as a daddy. I've been through the binge and purge thing for a while (not that i've had much to purge) but i got to the age (yes, i'm 19 lol) where i really don't care and if i enjoy it then why not. I've not not really had much exposure tp others in the fet except from a chat room once or twice I'm here because i'd like to interact more with you people and maybe meet some people. Thanks for reading, see you around Allerai

I'm from Tas, i've talked to another guy from Tas and hey knows a few girls around but on the whole it tends to be a male dominated fetish, unfortunately. But if anyone wants my msn then PM me.

Building up is very effective. I also reccomend having a few drinks before you go to bed, don't get drunk and pass out, but just a few to get you relaxed. That should take the edge off it.