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So yeah, here`s the story: After quite a while of being miserable because of lack of female companionship, and fully realizing the absurdity in sitting at home and complaining of the absence of potential partners and thinking that they will just drop down on your doorstep, I finally mustered up some courage and decided to create a profile on a dating-site. After a brief period of just browsing through different profiles, one profile caught my undivided attention, and I decided to send her a message. We got to talk for a bit on this datingsite before she asked me if I had MSN, and that I had. Despite just having met her online and talked to her on the phone, it`s safe to say that things have progressed quite a bit from our initial talk. As boringly clicheed and sobbingly romantical as it sounds, we both know, despite not having encountered each other in the flesh, that we love each other. After a little while chatting together, the topic of discussion soon turned to things of a sexual nature, and being a believer in honesty, it did not take that long before I divulged to her my fetishistic leanings, first and foremost that I am an infantilist. Her first response was along the lines of; "Oh, please stop talking about that, I get these nasty pictures in my head." Ok, I thought, not exactly the reaction I had hoped for, but considering that this topic was probably quite foreign to her, and not wanting to excert any pressure on her, I let it be. At the most there has been two other times I have brought up this topic, and her answer has been that she refuses to talk about that topic until we meet each other in the flesh. I accept that fully, if there is one thing I don`t want is for her to feel that she`s is getting pressured into anything, especially something of a completely foreign nature. She says that she loves me despite my fetishes, and she accepts them as a part of who I am, and I am truly greatful for that fact, but whereas for many a basic level of acceptance would be more than enough, I don`t know about me. While I love this girl, and I want to spend the rest of my life with her, at the same time I have grave doubts if a relationship possibly devoid of any AB-play will truly make me happy, seeing as this is such an essential component to my sexuality. The difference between this girl and my former girlfriends, is that while they were generally submissive in their nature, she is dominant. We have talked about other aspects that we both get into, like me being her slave, she wanting to dress me up as a girl etc., and all that is of course fine and dandy. And considering that she likes to excert control, there is always the slight possibility that maybe in the possible future she would want to play the mommy now and then, but thinking about how hard it is to find someone who enjoys this, that even many S&M people find infantilism unappealing, and being the eternal pessimist, I honestly don`t know...... Despite appreciating her acceptance of my fetishes, I can`t help but sit here with the feeling that any amount of acceptance really is void if she is going to react so strongly each time I just mention the word infantilism, I can`t help but sit with the shameful feeling of having done something totally out of order just by bringing it up. Any advice would be greatly appreciated folks!

I congratulate you with your first post here, welcome! You are one of the lucky few in having such an understanding girlfriend, but you already know that. Keep us updated on how the relationship is going! Cheers!

Yes, we are all very glad that you have joined this paedo - sanctuary, the more the merrier!!! It`s perfectly okay if you feel too shy now to let that little paedo out, but hey, you are among friends here, and we all know that the reason why you came here was because of that nagging little suspicion that you might be a happy - go - lucky paedo like the rest of us. People need time to dissolve their repressions, so it`s perfectly understandable that a tad bit of projection and animosity is needed in the beginning. You are forgiven!! After all, we all know that liking to wet your diapers actually equals liking to see children wet their diapers, you have come to the right place!! No, honestly, you are a bit of a retard, aren`t you? In that case, you are excused, what kind of a monster would I be if I actually sat here and gave you hell just because you happened to be one of the less gifted among us? I couldn`t live with that, so I apologise. Because there is not a chance in hell that you are of sound mind if you actually equate infantilism with paedophilia. And hey, if you really find this forum such a creepy and paedoish place to be, what does that say about you then? What the f**ck did you sign up here for in the first place, heh?

I for one won`t lose any sleep over this, you would think, judging by the reaction of the many over - sensitive people here, that he was guilty of rape. Ridiculous to say the least. Yeah, it seems there is a tad bit hypocrisy out and about here; is there really such a big difference between, let`s say the AB who wets his diaper in a cinema full of people, and the OP who shows a bit of the diaper - band to some girls? The only difference I can spot is that the former gets applauded for his bravery( And let`s face it, if you wear this item in public, a part of you wishes that someone will notice, it would not really be so brave otherwise, now would it? ) and the latter gets a thorough verbal beating. Is it really less intrusive just because someone doesn`t notice? I beg to differ. The moment you choose to take a fetish out into the public domain, you have thereby severed the line between private and public. So in other words, diapermommie`s stand on this hereby seconded.

" The Legacy " by Iron Maiden!

It seems you are getting closer to the mark, yes. This is probably the sanest approach you could take, easing her into things. Really nice that she lets you suckle her breastmilk, lucky, lucky man!!! Maybe you could just hint to her the next time you do this, that it makes you feel like a bit of a baby, and that you really enjoy it? I don`t know......anyway, looking forward to hear more, and good luck!

Well, to be honest with you, your girlfriend`s response to your coming out, didn`t seem all that positive. But hey, maybe you just caught her completely off guard, and that she really needs a bit of time to process the information. Hopefully she will accept it, fingers crossed! About you saying to her that there was a few sickos in the AB/DL-community, and when asked what you meant by that, you said "Paedophiles"; well, when have paedophilia ever had anything to do with this community? Of course paedophiles are disgusting sicko fucks, but considering what we actually get off to, I would imagine they actually would venture elsewhere to get their rocks off, don`t you think? Unless you want to perpetuate further ignorance concerning this community, I suggest that you leave that out of future conversations with her. And of course, you yourself may be heading for a fall if you don`t. Discuss this issue with her in a positive manner. Keep your misunderstandings and negatives to yourself, I`m sure the likelyhood of getting acceptance out of this whole ordeal, will to a considerable degree be increased. Good luck to you!

If my parents had talked to me like that now, I have a strong suspicion that something green-yellowish with chunky bits in it would have felt the need to exit the tunnel in desperate light of day, that`s for sure!! He, he, Prudence`s advice was all good in my book, the parents really need to get a grip!

Yeah, it has been discussed before, and I have seen the AB-clip in question. Monica Bellucci is certainly a dream-mommy, to be her baby would be paradise indeed!!

Sorry to be the bringer of bad tidings here Allen, but the harsh reality is that the chance of finding a woman or couple to baby you, is quite slim, to put it mildly. The chances are even slimmer, or non-existent in this forum. But then again, you probably know that by now, so I`m puzzled that you choose this forum to find partners/ a partner? Try your luck at diapermates.com or similar, at least then you have, let`s say a 5% better chance of finding love. Good luck!

Nah, no poor substitute- robot for me thanks! A mommy in the flesh on the other hand? Now we are talking!

Ok, that`s what I thought. Anyway, she seems quite open minded, so I wouldn`t be surprised if she fully accepted the infantilism, should you choose to tell her. Good luck with whatever you decide!

Hey, good for you man!! You are damn lucky, that`s for sure!! But one question, and maybe I`m being dim here; did you actually tell her that you are an infantilist, or does she just think you wet yourself on occasion, and that is it?

In my humble opinion, not at all!

Yeah, the clean up is a bitch for sure!! But to avoid this, I lay out a proper amount of toilet paper on the bathroom floor, crouch and do my thing. Then I fold it into a neat little package, place it carefully in my nappy, and pretending I have just pooped myself. And yeah, unlike many I actually enjoy the smell, really reminding me how much of a baby I am!! The ideal thing would of course be to just wear the nappy and poop straight into it, but as mentioned, the clean up is too much of a hazzle to be doing it on a regular basis. I feel my method is a decent compromise.

Despite being extraordinarily stupid, I think Sarah Palin actually could be a worthy candidate as a dream-mommy. Would not mind one bit being breastfed and changed by her, nosirrrreeee!!!

For me, this is first and foremost a fetish. Pretending to be a little baby is for me is my primary sexual expression. The only exception I can think of is when I used to sleep beside my ex, suckling on a a paci, then it definitely was more of a comfort/cozy occasion, and a non-sexual matter.

to chew on

Joely Richardson has not committed suicide after all?!! God damn it, what a f**king prankster you are!!! Here I am, hoping that yet another human being has succumbed to the meaninglessness of life, and decided to end it all, and what do you know? You, Spokane Girl shamelessly exploit my innocent wish of a celebrity-suicide, by tricking me into the alluring world of the half finished sentence. Shame on you!!

Nope. Actually, could not disagree with you more. But hey, I hope you will recover soon!!

Listening to the soundtrack to "Der Todesking."

You don`t say?!! I was just sitting here and thinking, "now, this board is definitely missing a vital component, what can it be I wonder? Hmmmm.....yeah, I got it now: A bigoted moron!!!" Thanks for stopping by to spew out more of your ignorant bullshit, much appreciated! Still on repeat, I see? Considering your condition, I would think that very fact would breed a greater sense of liberal mindedness concerning issues of a sexual nature, but what do I know? Maybe, just maybe, the bitterness simply has clouded each and every possibility of a sound judgement? Or, there is always the slightest possibility that your condition has nothing to do with it, maybe you just aren`t that intelligent? If you don`t like the fact that men actually desire to be sissies, keep your mouth properly shut about it!! End of.

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