dlnoir

Weekend nothing but cloth diapers and plastic pants

For me just diapers cloth preferably and plastic pants, the rest I can do without.

Male, Heterosexual, 100% DL

Been there, done that, raised some eyebrows with the TSA agents nothing special. If they don’t ask don’t tell and if they ask tell them you wear a diaper and that will be the end of it.

Personally I am happy with topics and discussions like these they help me channel my own thoughts and feelings. And in all fairness, I see good valid points both in the pro and con side of it all. Still, today, incontinence sounds and seems very appealing to me as I share the same feelings as Jojorabbit, Reddy, Bobby brown and maybe others I do not know about. Over time and reading all the stories I came to the decision not to pursue my feelings and for multiple reasons to be honest. That doesn’t mean the feelings and thoughts vanished all of a sudden, no way. I found ways to find a proper balance between the two worlds and that works for me, no need to pursue any further actions. To me posting topics on a public forum is an open invitation to share your own thoughts as long as they do not go against rules and policies of the forum. Advice is something that comes free. I think and belief it is a part of sharing your insights otherwise the whole topic becomes very superficial. More than once unrequested advice triggered me to investigate different perspectives only to find they had a valid point or were spot on. Nobody tells you to follow the input from other members and if you don’t like it just ignore it and move on, that is also a free option. Telling other to refrain from sharing their thoughts well think about it, it is also free.

CLoth diaper and some snug fitting plastic pants

The truth is always the better option if you would ask me. They find out one way or the other.

I prefer when the pee spreads out throughout my diaper. Slowly filling your diaper or constantly filling your diaper like I do is a big plus for SAP needs time to spread your pee throughout your diaper. That’s basically why flooding or emptying your bladder all at once isn’t the best idea especially a second wetting. And I agree, cloth diapers do a better job wicking pee that is also why I prefer cloth diapers.

Diapers by themselves are pretty boring I agree, I talked to them, no response what so ever. On the other hand, I love the way they make me feel and I love the looks of it, I love their functionality.

I’ve been wearing diapers by choice since the age of three years old, some 56 years by now. Things changed over the years needless to say. Still counting, but by now I have been wearing diapers 24/7 for the last 27 years. I started out just wearing diapers and used them for their intended purpose only for number one that is. Wearing diapers made me feel happy, relaxed in contact with myself and above all complete for the time being, yet it simply wasn’t real enough. Catheters and stents later on took care of that. If I had to go back to just wearing diapers it would be okay to a certain extent, it is better than nothing of course, but on the other hand, I would no longer be real. I love waking up in the morning wearing a soaked diaper knowing I went to bed in a dry and clean one. Bottom line, I would still wear diapers they are to deeply integrated in my life, but being incontinent by choice in my case is the cherry on the cake

I used to play with catheters to simulate incontinence, I did that for a year and a half I suppose. After that I turned to stents to me I was much more realistic, that is some nineteen years ago. You could feel it if you started to pee especially if you sat in a position for a certain amount of time and your urethra was held close. The second one stood up you started to pee and nothing in the world could stop it, absolutely wonderful. Now stents require some sort of maintenance so you will have to take it out every once in a while and clean it or replace it. I think if prolonged usage of catheters or stents renders you incontinent I trust it would have happened by now, no such thing. If I take it out things start to normalize within hours and sometimes a day depending on the time I kept it in. Nowadays I use my stent 24/7.

I’ve been going 24/7 for the last 27 years or so, nobody ever made a comment. For sure it could be somebody noticed something but figured it wasn’t their business. They do not know why I wear and why should they bother to know. If somebody notices I think they just accept it as a given fact.

Hi Baby girl, I don’t know if my answer will be of any help, but I would like to share my thoughts with you since is do recognize what you are saying or even struggling with. Our lifestyle or desires can be confusing in daily life and if you add Christianity to the equation, it can become even more confusing, at least for me it did for a very long time. Please allow me to take you along one of my struggles I had years ago, it was related to a letter written to the Corinthians 13: If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known. And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love. The thing that puzzled me the most out of this letter was the part about the child in verse 11 I was a young man but still loved to wear and use diapers, I am a DL and like you with a very strong desire to be incontinent. That particular section stuck me as if I was hit by lightning and at that time no one explained it to meand i didn't like it one bit. Yes I was an adult yet a part of me still had very childish feelings and desires for me that didn’t match. And there were other things, I’ll put it in my own words “the Lord will guide over the oceans of this world and bring you to and save haven” think that was something out of revelations. So He will guide you but that doesn’t mean your path will be smooth sailing. The Lord will give you burdens to carry challenges in life but will also provide the strength to carry them much like Job he kept his faith and in the end job was blessed. Last thing I would like to put in being a Christian does not mean life won’t throw a curveball at you a Christian will be challenged, maybe even more than non-Christians since we take the bible as a guide. The bible also provide answers but it took me years to find let alone understand them. Strangely enough a part of the answer is also given in the same Corinthians letter and it is the last line of verse 13 “And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love” God made man and woman to his image which is perfect, that doesn’t mean we are perfect, but the creation is. God asked us to treat our body as a temple, that doesn’t mean we can’t mess things up. These three points I just mentioned helped me to find my way and cope with my feelings and desires. I had to learn to love myself without becoming selfish, which to me, even today, is still the hardest thing to do and trust me I failed more than once and paid some dear prizes. I had to understand that I, with all my flaws and strange desires am still a child of God. I had to accept that my body is an temple and that God would love to live in it and would love to work trough it, so no harm to an otherwise healthy body. These three points were a great part of my self-acceptance and yes believe me, it is still a work in progress. I learned a lesson which I found to be helpful, it came from outside of the church I attend, it was mentioned by Bishop Mar Mari Emanuell it comes down to this: God doesn’t expect you to be perfect if you fail come to church and pray to do better next time. He had a long list of reasons why we should come to church and pray for God knows our hardships and all our failures. The desire to wear and use diapers is it a sin? No I don’t think so, is it and can it be a burden, yes. What does God expect us to do, for He made us to his liking. Why are these desires these feelings a part of who I am? To me one thing is for sure He will not take it away. I belief He expects us to deal with it, maybe even embrace it in love, yet not allow us to take over our life. Throughout the bible love is used as a key element for us to live by. We have our flaws and sins, God knows that, that is why he send his only begotten Son to the earth and He took our sins upon him. This is no excuse to live a life willingly and knowingly in sin, God asks us to do our best and asks us to pray for His guidance. If we do our best He will take care of the rest. As for my desire to become incontinent. I found strength in the fact that God expects us to treat our body like a temple. At one time surgery or self-inflicted harm sounded very appealing to me in order to fulfill my desire and reach my goal. I searched the internet and there were ways to do it, even topics where added to our forum which could be helpful. I belief and trust God would not be pleased if I would knowingly and willingly damage a healthy body which He created and expects me to treat like a temple. Luckily I had no funds to chase my desire and to be honest the nerve and the guts failed me as well. And now, did my desire vanish? No, but I found ways to deal with it, maybe even cheating a little but it works for me. Although things became easier over time especially when I became older and learned about life, its struggles and found some answers in Christianity. Still, I am riding the waves of life, it is not always easy sailing but I trust and believe in the end I will know it all as God will show me what his intentions were with me even with all my flaws and failures. Gods doesn’t expect us to be perfect he expect us to do our best, my last pillar: If we are “zero” and He is the “one” we need to place His will before ours and we become “ten”. Embrace yourself with love, so you’ll become a beacon and save haven for others, God likes that. Except who you are, God created you that can’t be wrong even if you prefer wear diapers. Ride the wave of life pray for guidance and answers and He will give it to you in his time, be patient.

No diaper no sleep it is a simple as that.

I wear 24/7.

Plain and simple: Summer.

Yes, absolutely I am of the generation where it was the thing to use, I grew up in cloth diapers even today it’s my favorite go to type of diaper. With cloth, you can adjust the absorbency and go as thick as you like. Even when I wear a disposable diapers I’ll put cloth over it looks more authentic and it is a great safe guard for leaks. If I could have it my way I wouldn’t wear anything else but unfortunately that is not the case.

Plastic pants as they were made back in the days, the ones I remember from childhood.

Complete.

Hate to see you go bud.

Like others I have been wearing out and about for well over 27 years, never had anyone whom confronted me or questions were asked. So if anyone notices they do not care. Aside of that what are they supposed to ask in the first place? Seeing someones adult diaper isn't that confirmation enough?

I think or better yet I am sure I am in line with what Cathdiap and Craisler said as far as feelings, desires and the need to wear diapers goes. I have zero interest in AB related stuff and activities. I love to wear and use diapers and that is all. For me it is very important to wear diapers whom are linked to what I remember and wore as a baby / toddler. I’ll give it every effort to get it as close as I can. I prefer cloth diapers and plastic pants for I am raised in them, I think they look and feel authentic. During the day and whilst taking care of daily chores or work for that matter I will wear disposables for they are more convenient under these circumstances. But as far as my personal feelings go it makes little of no difference whether wear cloth or not. I think being potty trained was a big mistake and is something I could do without, only for number one that is. I see myself as an adult whom needs to wear diapers to make me feel complete, comfortable and in touch with myself.

I don't make New Year's resolutions. As it comes to diapers I won’t change a thing I wear 24/7 and use them for #1 and that is it. As for all others I do not need a specific point in time if I want to change something for whatever reason, any time is good if changes need to be made.

During the day I use 3 medical grade disposable diapers and during the night I use cloth diapers which I actually prefer over disposables. Like Cathdiap said your fluid intake and what you eat makes a lot of difference. Personally I stay well hydrated to make sure my urine doesn’t become to concentrated and above all to make sure my diapers will be properly used.

I know saveexpress in Germany ships worldwide and their site can be altered in the English language, well for the most part that is. I do not know how it relates to shipping costs and so on as I do not live in the USA, but I do know they ship worldwide.